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 Welcome to the Lansdale Life Church podcast.

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 If you're seeking a closer relationship with Jesus Christ, this podcast is for you.

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 Thank you for joining us today.

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 All right.

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 Well, my opening remark to you before we pray is elections do not save America.

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 So, Father, we thank you tonight for the opportunity to see you grow your kingdom

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 in spite of all that we see and all that has been experienced, Lord, in this last bit of time.

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 And we ask, Lord, that you become King of kings and Lord of Lords in this land,

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 that your reign is a reign of justice and truth and mercy.

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 So, Father, we give you, in the name of Jesus, our leaders, watch over them, Lord, direct them

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 with righteous thoughts and acts, we pray, in the name of Jesus.

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 So, the turning point that we have in this chapter is a bit disappointing.

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 And why I say this is that if you remember in our study for all these months and back in now,

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 probably a year and a half, we have seen the Lord build his kingdom in the people of Israel

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 and how he has longed to bring them to a knowledge of him.

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 And through the ritual that they have had, that they were going to be a people that were

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 righteous to the rest of the world.

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 And I want to read from Deuteronomy 6.

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 It just says this.

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 This is what he anticipated in looking at the nation.

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 You will show other nations how wise you are.

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 In fact, everyone that hears about your laws will say,

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 that great nation certainly is wise.

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 And what makes us greater than other nations?

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 We have a God who is close to us.

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 Think about those words and think about what we have been studying

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 and the consequences of our cycle.

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 Our cycle is what?

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 repenting and God restoring the nation Israel.

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 And for all that he did, for all the blessings, the miracles that he had,

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 he anticipated that he would have a people that would be a triumphant glory to him

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 and that people in the nations and in the kingdoms would look and would experience

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 through their testimony what he was and who he was.

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 But now we enter in this chapter the civil war of the Israelites.

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 The civil war, the unrest that we have been seeing in individual lives

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 and the individual people that we have studied, the differences of opinion,

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 the criticisms that we had talked about, that these were a stiff-necked and rebellious people.

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 And remember what God said, I wish that I would have never brought them together.

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 And then in another time and issue, he said that these people are worse

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 than the pagan people around them.

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 And yet he loved them.

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 And now we have a situation through this cycle that we see a deteriorating aspect

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 of the kingdom within Israel.

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 And it's a shame, but this chapter brings forth the real testimony of the heart,

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 the heart that wasn't what God wanted.

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 He didn't want chaos.

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 He didn't want differences.

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 He wanted peace.

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 And you know in your life and you experience,

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 especially when you talk with other people that don't know the Lord,

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 that we have peace in our hearts.

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 And that's something that God only gives.

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 There is temporary peace and satisfaction,

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 but the heart is seeking and looking for things that usually aren't there.

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 So now we have this dilemma.

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 We have a people that are deteriorating in their relationship with God.

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 And now there's going to be a civil war.

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 So let's take a look at these things as we develop this theme.

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 So, Jephthah's conflict with Ephraim, and this is a conflict.

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 And I'm just going to review the first six verses of this chapter real quickly.

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 Ephraim confronts, that's Ephraim the tribe,

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 confronts Jephthah for not inviting them to fight against the Amorites

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 and threatens to burn down his house.

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 You didn't include us.

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 What's wrong with you?

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 And we'll talk about some of the reasoning behind that in a bit.

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 So Jephthah explains to them, look, he said,

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 So you can paint the picture here about his disappointment.

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 the disagreement escalates into civil war between the two tribes.

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 A war that's okay to have as long as it's outside

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 and establishing the kingdom of God in the areas that they were to take,

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 that was okay because that's what he said.

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 And the Gideonites defeat Ephraim.

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 So what did the Gideonites do to make sure they got all the people?

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 and it was Sibyleth, they knew then that these people were soldiers

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 And this was their own internal battle.

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 So let's ask the question.

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 I wonder what was behind Ephraim's complaint.

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 For me, I would have been satisfied to be home and not do that.

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 So let's take a look at some of this.

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 Their complaint suggests that they believe that they should have had been included

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 Think about that, the recognition.

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 And you can put the word pride in there, parenthesis.

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 And notice by contrast, here is Jephthah.

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 He defeated the enemy of Israel.

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 But Ephraim only focused on the fact that they had not been included.

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 They weren't even happy that he conquered them.

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 Not happy that there should be a celebration of victory.

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 And they threatened the issues of this through that tribe.

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 So why did the disagreement elevate and escalate?

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 Two sides to every story.

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 Jephthah had excluded them from the battle.

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 what do you think were the reasons for Ephraim's attitude toward Jephthah?

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 What was going on in their mind?

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 Why didn't you include us into battle?

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 I didn't almost know you coming in the door.

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 But why did they want to be included in the battle?

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 Male idiocy.

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 but that was the bait of Satan to be offended.

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 Instead of recognizing what had been accomplished,

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 they're just taking offense because of their pride.

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 They didn't have John Bevere back then, did they?

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 So what's in your heart when you say that?

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 You didn't respect me.

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 Their complaints suggest the following.

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 They felt overlooked and excluded.

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 We kind of said that, and that's one.

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 They wanted recognition.

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 We kind of defined what that was as an important tribe.

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 They resented being left out of a significant military victory.

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 The tribal pride that they had and personal interest may have been wounded.

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 That's not to justify, but that's some of the reasons why.

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 So their response was extraordinary aggressively put out there as part of what Jephthah didn't do.

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 This was not the first time that Ephraim had expressed resentment over being excluded.

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 So we see a commonality and repeatability of their feelings, and that's bad.

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 Unlike Jephthah, Gideon responded diplomatically, and he calmed the anger.

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 He didn't take the offense, and he didn't go in charge against the offense.

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 He calmed them down, and he settled the argument, and hence there was no battle.

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 But you can see now that we're getting more agitated in the life of the Israelites.

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 So the question then we ask is, how can pride, need for recognition and or resentment,

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 We have offenses.

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 How does that affect our relationship with fellow Christians?

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 We need to prove we're better than someone else.

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 We need to prove that we're better than somebody else.

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 And that I'm right and you're wrong.

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 We're making assumptions about somebody else when we're offended.

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 That offended me, and we don't really know their reasoning behind it,

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 And if we find the truth out often, what we thought isn't even the truth of the situation.

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 We know what this situation is here.

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 We have the difference of opinion.

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 Now, this concern about receiving recognition has some serious consequences.

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 And I think about these things.

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 It can result in disunity in the family,

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 in relationships, in the church, in the kingdom of God.

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 All sorts of things can happen when there is disunity and feelings.

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 Israel's internal conflicts demonstrate the destructive consequences of pride and rivalry.

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 Leadership disagreements, and there has been many.

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 We know that many pastors have fallen because of sin.

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 We know many churches have split.

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 But Jephthah's victory over an eternal enemy is followed by devastating conflict within Israel.

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 And many, many churches, they often say about Christianity that you divide and conquer.

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 In other words, the church divides on differences,

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 and then they conquer the area, and then they grow again.

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 That's not the way it should be, but often that's the way it works.

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 A troubling pattern begins to emerge here.

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 This account emphasizes a military conflict, a leadership disagreement, a family status

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 and death while saying little about the Israelites' condition and the need to repent.

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 They were all consumed about this thing.

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 They didn't even ask God into the situation of the equation.

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 And we can go on and on and on, and we can disagree, and we can grumble, and we can fight,

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 and we can disagree, and we go round and round again when we didn't ask God to come in

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 So another question, how can we respond to differences of opinion

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 and competing interests without allowing them to disrupt the unity that we share with believers?

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 How can that be?

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 So we have disagreements.

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 Ken and I, we don't disagree on everything, but we disagree on some things.

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 It's just natural.

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 Ron and I, as we sit down and we iron out who is who and what is what,

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 there will be differences.

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 So why aren't we to make that offense, and how do we get around it?

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 Gail, my anchor lady.

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 We aren't to take offense because we need to think about

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 the fact that we were forgiven by God.

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 So we need to in turn forgive, and we also need to think of others

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 as more highly than ourselves.

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 And so we're not to worry about whether we're being recognized.

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 We need to be more concerned about how that other person is feeling

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 and talk it out instead of making assumptions.

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 Also, the opinion is like, it's just someone's opinion.

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 You're not here to persuade each other who's right and who's wrong,

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 and calls this disunity and resentment.

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 Just give an opinion and drop it.

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 Yeah.

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 If you don't have that in your heart, and you don't need to be right,

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 and you don't need to make the argument of which years ago I was guilty of,

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 you know, you bring a situation up, boy, I'd argue to the end.

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 But I've learned through my gracious wife and through experience that that doesn't work.

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 And so we have, go ahead.

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 I think we have to major on the, or focus on the major things

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 and forget about the little minor things.

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 And I, when we first got, well, when I first got saved,

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 we went to a church that had a meeting, a yearly meeting.

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 And they were fighting over the color of the drapes or the rugs, I forget.

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 Something important.

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 But yes, but it got so heated that a guy got up out of the congregation

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 and charged the pastor who was leading the meeting.

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 Two deacons had a tack on.

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 And I said, this is, and here I am a new Christian.

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 And I'm saying, yeah, they tackled me and they wouldn't leave me up.

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 No, no, no, yeah.

290
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 So, you know, we got to leave these stupid little things go.

291
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 And they're meaningless.

292
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 Really majoring in minors.

293
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 We had, we had done a reverse location in our church.

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 The church was seated this way.

295
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 It was wider and we turned it so then everybody could see the platform

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 and made a semi-circle.

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 And in doing so, that original front wall had a mural on it.

298
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 Well, we lost three people because we painted over the mural.

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 You know, because they could see God in it and they could see peace in it.

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 And I went on, I said, oh my Lord.

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 You know, and we didn't think anything of it.

302
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 I mean, it was part of what we were doing, redecorating.

303
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 And boy, I'll tell you what, we get some heat from that.

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 I'll be there.

305
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 So one of the best times I had was I went to stay with my brother for a while

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 and he went to a very different church.

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 And I went to a Bible study and there was these five guys

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 and they couldn't agree on anything, but the studies were incredible

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 because they all knew their position really, really well.

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 And I left there thinking, man, these guys, they're sharp.

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 They're sharp, but they got to hate each other.

312
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 Well, then I was invited to a party.

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 They were all there.

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 These guys were thick, best friends ever were, you know?

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 And I took away from that, you know, the best study I'm going to have

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 is with somebody that really knows their stuff and is willing to talk about it.

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 And there was one guy there.

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 He says, what, what denomination you want to be?

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 I don't know.

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 He says, because I can convince you any one of them.

321
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 He knew the Bible so well.

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 And it was just, I just cherish that.

323
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 So that's the flip side of what we were talking about.

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 Yeah.

325
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 Yeah.

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 These five guys were just, it was incredible study because they didn't agree.

327
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 Right.

328
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 And they were still in a yoke fellowship with one another.

329
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 Isn't that cool?

330
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 It was, it was amazing.

331
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 That doesn't happen that often.

332
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 Yes.

333
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 It's funny.

334
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 I was having a meeting with my boss and she's only 33.

335
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 And I got talking about God and she kind of went like this.

336
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 She goes, my dad's a minister.

337
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 I went, oh, that's crazy.

338
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 I go, what's he doing?

339
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 She goes, oh, he's a conflict minister.

340
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 And I went, a conflict man.

341
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 She goes, mm-hmm.

342
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 When there's conflicts in the churches, he goes and helps that out.

343
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 I'm like, you're kidding me, right?

344
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 She went, no, there's conflicts in churches.

345
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 I was shocked to hear it's funny here.

346
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 We're talking about it.

347
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 And she just kept on telling me that.

348
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 That's what he is, a conflict minister.

349
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 Yeah.

350
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 We need therapy.

351
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 So we have these issues.

352
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 We have these issues.

353
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 All right.

354
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 Let's take a thought or two about these things.

355
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 And take a look at the pride, the resentment, the poor communication,

356
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 can then turn fellow believers against one another if you let it.

357
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 Now, here we go.

358
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 Here's the theme.

359
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 Unity among believers is both good and pleasing to God.

360
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 We should value it rather than allow pride,

361
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 rivalry, or personal differences to divide us.

362
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 Here's some scripture along with that.

363
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 Psalm 133.1, behold how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity.

364
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 So that's the goal, is unity.

365
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 Not unity at any cost.

366
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 There will be differences, but unity for the sake of staying together and being together.

367
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 And like Ken said, these things are minor.

368
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 You know, it shouldn't separate us.

369
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 There's more things to celebrate in the spirit of unity than there is,

370
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 well, I don't agree with you, Ron, or back and forth, and I won't fellowship you.

371
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 That means nothing.

372
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 So just Jesus prayed for unity for his followers.

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 Christian unity serves a purpose beyond our own relationships,

374
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 and it bears witness to the world that the Father sent Jesus.

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 If we can live in unity, that's certainly different than what we see outside the door,

376
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 right?

377
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 So that's the comparison that we have.

378
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 How do we live the life?

379
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 John 17, 2021, that they may all be one as you, Father, are in me.

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 And I in you, that they may be one in us.

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 That's not disagreement.

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 That is unity.

383
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 So pride and self-interest can threaten this unity.

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 So here we are.

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 We have this issue in Philippians 2 through 4.

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 Fulfill my joy, he says, that you are like-minded, having the same love,

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 being of one sound and one mind, being of one accord and one mind.

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 Let nothing be done through strife and vain glory,

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 but in lowliness of mind let each esteem one another more than themselves.

390
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 And that was already brought out.

391
00:25:00,819 --> 00:25:02,140
 How do we get around it?

392
00:25:02,220 --> 00:25:03,660
 We esteem one another.

393
00:25:04,799 --> 00:25:09,819
 Now, I may not like what Ken says, but I need to esteem him.

394
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 I need to respect him.

395
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 And out of that mutual respect, we can live and habitate together.

396
00:25:19,140 --> 00:25:20,339
 And I still like his haircut.

397
00:25:20,339 --> 00:25:21,980
 So, you know, there you go.

398
00:25:22,380 --> 00:25:22,599
 All right.

399
00:25:23,220 --> 00:25:25,019
 So let's take a look at another question.

400
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 Why do you think God places such importance on believers living together in unity?

401
00:25:35,259 --> 00:25:35,400
 Because...

402
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:42,539
 Set an example to the rest of the community,

403
00:25:42,859 --> 00:25:47,900
 because when you're together in unity, you can also share that love of like-mindedness.

404
00:25:47,900 --> 00:25:52,220
 You don't even have to say a word.

405
00:25:52,559 --> 00:25:56,480
 If we're in unity and people see love and fellowship and going on,

406
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 there's no need for even a testimony.

407
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,299
 There may well be opportunities.

408
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:07,140
 But yeah, just the virtue of living together and walking our Christian life out together,

409
00:26:07,599 --> 00:26:08,660
 I mean, that's testimony.

410
00:26:08,900 --> 00:26:10,359
 And that's what God wanted.

411
00:26:11,039 --> 00:26:11,680
 What did he say?

412
00:26:11,759 --> 00:26:15,420
 He said, you're going to be a nation that is an example to the world.

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 And yet here we have this separation and this war.

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00:26:19,299 --> 00:26:19,519
 Matt?

415
00:26:21,079 --> 00:26:24,200
 Because we're stronger together than when we are apart.

416
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:29,640
 One can conquer a thousand and two can conquer 10,000.

417
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:31,460
 Think about that.

418
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:35,420
 Yes.

419
00:26:36,859 --> 00:26:37,359
 Yeah.

420
00:26:37,980 --> 00:26:39,799
 I'm going to live on the other side of Fifth Avenue.

421
00:26:40,099 --> 00:26:41,119
 So I just want to mourn you.

422
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:42,279
 All right.

423
00:26:42,500 --> 00:26:42,799
 Okay.

424
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:44,799
 Now that's a point.

425
00:26:44,799 --> 00:26:50,920
 But in different circumstances where we have a redeemed body and new body,

426
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:52,839
 I don't think we'll have the differences at all.

427
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:54,619
 No, that's for sure.

428
00:26:55,259 --> 00:26:55,799
 Aren't you glad?

429
00:26:56,900 --> 00:26:57,019
 Yeah.

430
00:27:01,420 --> 00:27:02,660
 Just come to the aisle.

431
00:27:02,980 --> 00:27:07,579
 Based on what I know, our bodies is designed to be one.

432
00:27:08,099 --> 00:27:08,500
 Yes.

433
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,220
 Which means we have some facts and figures.

434
00:27:12,220 --> 00:27:18,200
 75 trillion cells working together in unison by body design.

435
00:27:18,859 --> 00:27:21,259
 There is never, ever a mistake.

436
00:27:22,100 --> 00:27:28,180
 So that's how God meant us to live in that plane of being in peace and harmony.

437
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:32,420
 Unless I can go in depth.

438
00:27:32,539 --> 00:27:33,500
 I'm not going to say a word.

439
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:35,519
 This man's honor.

440
00:27:37,339 --> 00:27:45,079
 So even our physical body represents unity in function,

441
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,700
 and the outgrowth of that is strength.

442
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:52,359
 The outgrowth of that is having a sound mind.

443
00:27:53,079 --> 00:27:54,539
 So yeah, that even starts there.

444
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:59,960
 And also, we are the, excuse me, I'm choking.

445
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:02,319
 We are the body of Christ.

446
00:28:02,879 --> 00:28:07,539
 And the body, as a body, it has different parts that do different things,

447
00:28:07,740 --> 00:28:11,119
 but it all works together, as he was saying, to make it work.

448
00:28:11,140 --> 00:28:12,019
 Yeah, right.

449
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:13,660
 Scripture says that.

450
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:15,660
 Can the arm do without the leg?

451
00:28:17,180 --> 00:28:17,460
 No.

452
00:28:19,180 --> 00:28:20,420
 Okay, I thought you, Jim?

453
00:28:21,860 --> 00:28:23,059
 What say is that?

454
00:28:23,619 --> 00:28:24,359
 No, nothing.

455
00:28:24,740 --> 00:28:24,799
 Okay.

456
00:28:25,279 --> 00:28:25,700
 All right.

457
00:28:25,819 --> 00:28:27,660
 I thought maybe we're leaning forward to contribute.

458
00:28:27,859 --> 00:28:28,380
 That's okay.

459
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:29,700
 That's all right.

460
00:28:33,199 --> 00:28:34,480
 Oh, I'm sorry.

461
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:36,279
 Yes, here we are.

462
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:37,079
 Good.

463
00:28:37,380 --> 00:28:38,000
 Take it away.

464
00:28:38,500 --> 00:28:41,480
 Well, Father, Son, and the Holy Spirit, they live in unity,

465
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 and we're the Imago Dei, so we're the image bearers of God.

466
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,259
 So in order for us to be considered children of God,

467
00:28:48,319 --> 00:28:50,299
 we have to live in unity with each other,

468
00:28:50,380 --> 00:28:52,220
 the way that the Holy Spirit, the Father, and the Son

469
00:28:52,220 --> 00:28:53,940
 live in unity with each other, maybe.

470
00:28:54,599 --> 00:28:55,519
 No, that's right.

471
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:56,180
 You're right.

472
00:28:56,839 --> 00:28:59,759
 Now, if we live that out,

473
00:29:00,539 --> 00:29:04,420
 that doesn't necessarily mean that life will be easy.

474
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,900
 We have to find the mutuality and the love

475
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 and the consideration for one another.

476
00:29:12,019 --> 00:29:15,799
 And out of that, not knowing one another,

477
00:29:16,500 --> 00:29:19,299
 like a lot of churches, you come in, the churches are big.

478
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,420
 My son goes to a church, and they have three services,

479
00:29:22,559 --> 00:29:26,240
 and there's about 400 or 500 people in each service.

480
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:30,920
 So how do you get to know what that relationship

481
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:31,880
 could look like?

482
00:29:32,119 --> 00:29:33,839
 It's almost like a movie theater.

483
00:29:34,500 --> 00:29:36,220
 You come in, you go, and da-da-da-da.

484
00:29:36,339 --> 00:29:39,339
 So I'm not criticizing him, but it's just a different perspective.

485
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:41,819
 Whereas here, we can get to know one another,

486
00:29:42,079 --> 00:29:45,039
 and when we know one another, what happens?

487
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:48,720
 The esteem and the mutuality begins to build

488
00:29:49,759 --> 00:29:53,900
 if, like you say, we don't major on those things

489
00:29:53,900 --> 00:29:54,799
 that are our differences.

490
00:29:54,799 --> 00:29:57,000
 Well, I don't believe that, or, you know,

491
00:29:57,359 --> 00:29:59,259
 Gail has a brown shirt on her, a blouse,

492
00:29:59,359 --> 00:30:00,220
 and I don't like brown.

493
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:02,380
 I mean, you know, it could be anything.

494
00:30:02,660 --> 00:30:04,359
 It could be the mural on the wall.

495
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,119
 It could be the disagreements,

496
00:30:06,539 --> 00:30:09,319
 but we don't let those things overcome us.

497
00:30:10,799 --> 00:30:12,900
 Don't be like children, the word says.

498
00:30:13,759 --> 00:30:14,440
 Be mature.

499
00:30:14,900 --> 00:30:15,420
 Grow up.

500
00:30:16,339 --> 00:30:18,420
 And so we have these things, and, you know,

501
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:22,339
 as you look back in the juvenile aspects

502
00:30:22,339 --> 00:30:27,019
 of the accusations, well, why didn't you include us?

503
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:32,059
 For the sake of the tribes of Israel being one,

504
00:30:32,500 --> 00:30:34,579
 they should have not engaged in that.

505
00:30:34,660 --> 00:30:35,680
 Let me read this again.

506
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,779
 You will show other nations how wise you are.

507
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,400
 In fact, everyone that hears about your laws will say

508
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:45,019
 that great nation certainly is wise,

509
00:30:45,380 --> 00:30:47,579
 and what makes us greater than the other nations?

510
00:30:48,279 --> 00:30:50,559
 We have a God who is close to us,

511
00:30:50,559 --> 00:30:52,180
 and yet here we are.

512
00:30:52,539 --> 00:30:53,740
 We find the deterioration.

513
00:30:54,740 --> 00:30:56,299
 After all that has been said and done,

514
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:58,519
 now we're fighting amongst ourselves.

515
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:00,859
 Now, because of what?

516
00:31:01,559 --> 00:31:04,380
 Unity reflects the character of God.

517
00:31:05,059 --> 00:31:06,079
 And here you go, see?

518
00:31:07,559 --> 00:31:09,740
 The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are one,

519
00:31:09,900 --> 00:31:12,000
 and therefore our unity with one another

520
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,240
 should be tightly bound together.

521
00:31:15,359 --> 00:31:18,519
 The more time you spend with your fellow brothers

522
00:31:18,519 --> 00:31:20,960
 and sisters, the more opportunity it is

523
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:24,240
 to respect their calling and their giftings.

524
00:31:25,279 --> 00:31:27,819
 And if you shake hands and go out the door

525
00:31:27,819 --> 00:31:31,259
 and don't fellowship, you think there's a party of one, me.

526
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:32,740
 So it's not.

527
00:31:33,039 --> 00:31:35,819
 It's many member body, all one.

528
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:38,779
 That's how we are to be known.

529
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:43,200
 Now, we should cherish our common spiritual identity,

530
00:31:43,539 --> 00:31:44,500
 commitment, and purpose.

531
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:46,200
 What is that?

532
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,539
 It's to declare the kingdom of God.

533
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:49,599
 It's to be a witness.

534
00:31:50,339 --> 00:31:51,759
 It's to be strong enough together

535
00:31:51,759 --> 00:31:53,559
 that we can do outreach programs.

536
00:31:54,099 --> 00:31:55,319
 It's strong enough together

537
00:31:55,319 --> 00:31:57,859
 that we can have children's ministry that's dynamic.

538
00:31:58,079 --> 00:32:00,220
 If you look at all the little babies in our congregation,

539
00:32:01,099 --> 00:32:03,240
 my, won't we have a youth group?

540
00:32:03,859 --> 00:32:04,640
 My word.

541
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:07,140
 I mean, it's starting small,

542
00:32:07,259 --> 00:32:09,559
 but we're building and we're responding to that.

543
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:11,680
 How many little babies do we have?

544
00:32:13,019 --> 00:32:13,380
 Gail?

545
00:32:17,159 --> 00:32:19,119
 Yeah, gee.

546
00:32:20,039 --> 00:32:22,279
 Well, you can either grow without or grow within, right?

547
00:32:23,099 --> 00:32:24,460
 So, all right.

548
00:32:26,099 --> 00:32:29,900
 This doesn't mean believers must agree on everything,

549
00:32:31,159 --> 00:32:33,759
 but these things should be minor,

550
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:36,460
 should be minor.

551
00:32:37,859 --> 00:32:40,220
 The goal is to maintain the unity,

552
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,619
 and secondarily, we may not agree, but so what?

553
00:32:44,059 --> 00:32:45,160
 It's not that important.

554
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:49,759
 Okay, unity demonstrates the transforming power

555
00:32:49,759 --> 00:32:51,579
 of the gospel to the world.

556
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:55,319
 Like we said, you don't even have to declare witness.

557
00:32:55,799 --> 00:32:57,500
 You can be together as a group,

558
00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:01,059
 and I tell you in different picnic associations

559
00:33:01,059 --> 00:33:03,500
 that we have been involved with in different churches

560
00:33:03,500 --> 00:33:05,839
 when we go to a public thing like we've done here,

561
00:33:06,059 --> 00:33:08,180
 people say, boy, you guys get together.

562
00:33:08,259 --> 00:33:09,380
 You have fun, you have games,

563
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,279
 and nobody was hurt, feelings and so forth.

564
00:33:12,359 --> 00:33:13,380
 Well, that's the way it should be.

565
00:33:14,019 --> 00:33:16,859
 So, the gospel brings together people

566
00:33:16,859 --> 00:33:19,579
 who might otherwise have little in common.

567
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:20,839
 Think about that.

568
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,140
 The common denominator is what?

569
00:33:23,279 --> 00:33:23,880
 Jesus Christ.

570
00:33:25,519 --> 00:33:28,059
 Now, we come from all different walks of life.

571
00:33:28,799 --> 00:33:31,000
 We have tradesmen, we have executives,

572
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:32,500
 we have people that are retired,

573
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:33,539
 people that are young,

574
00:33:35,420 --> 00:33:38,539
 and yet, we see that there is one body,

575
00:33:39,579 --> 00:33:41,480
 one love, one purpose.

576
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:42,920
 All right.

577
00:33:43,059 --> 00:33:45,079
 I'm preaching to the choir here, I think.

578
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:51,000
 The world is accustomed to divisions based on differences.

579
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:53,539
 Well, I don't believe like you do.

580
00:33:55,779 --> 00:33:58,140
 Disagreements and competing interests.

581
00:34:04,479 --> 00:34:07,559
 When you have a difference of opinion like that,

582
00:34:07,940 --> 00:34:10,639
 you need to not only confess your anger

583
00:34:10,639 --> 00:34:12,519
 or your pride,

584
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,019
 but you have to ask God to show you

585
00:34:15,019 --> 00:34:17,679
 and show you how not only to be patient

586
00:34:17,679 --> 00:34:19,260
 and gentle with people and compassionate,

587
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:20,699
 but to show you the truth.

588
00:34:21,300 --> 00:34:23,579
 So, as you seek him, he'll open those doors for you.

589
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:25,059
 And what else should we do

590
00:34:25,059 --> 00:34:26,500
 when we have disagreements, Gail?

591
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:28,659
 Talk them out.

592
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:29,860
 Yet, to one another.

593
00:34:30,619 --> 00:34:31,059
 Communicate.

594
00:34:31,380 --> 00:34:31,659
 Yeah.

595
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:33,199
 If I sit here and have...

596
00:34:33,199 --> 00:34:34,480
 That's just a personal thing.

597
00:34:34,639 --> 00:34:36,579
 You need to talk to God about what you think.

598
00:34:36,579 --> 00:34:39,599
 First, give me humility, Lord.

599
00:34:40,639 --> 00:34:44,400
 And then as the opening of opportunity comes,

600
00:34:44,659 --> 00:34:46,059
 we share those things.

601
00:34:46,820 --> 00:34:47,039
 Healing.

602
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,699
 I mean, I can remember one situation

603
00:34:50,699 --> 00:34:52,679
 in our, not our immediate family,

604
00:34:53,820 --> 00:34:55,599
 but there was an unforgiveness thing

605
00:34:55,599 --> 00:34:56,639
 that lasted years.

606
00:34:57,679 --> 00:34:58,579
 And when I asked, I said,

607
00:34:58,639 --> 00:34:59,940
 well, what's the problem?

608
00:35:00,199 --> 00:35:01,599
 They didn't even really know.

609
00:35:02,659 --> 00:35:03,699
 It's like, what is it?

610
00:35:03,699 --> 00:35:10,259
 The Kentucky Hills between the two warring...

611
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:11,280
 What?

612
00:35:11,820 --> 00:35:13,139
 The boys and the ankles in McCoy.

613
00:35:13,519 --> 00:35:15,300
 Yeah, and when it came down to it,

614
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:16,820
 nobody ever remembered what it was

615
00:35:16,820 --> 00:35:17,719
 because it was generational.

616
00:35:18,260 --> 00:35:19,260
 But they hated each other.

617
00:35:20,300 --> 00:35:20,619
 Yeah.

618
00:35:21,460 --> 00:35:22,340
 Oh my gosh.

619
00:35:22,900 --> 00:35:23,739
 What's that all about?

620
00:35:24,380 --> 00:35:26,559
 Well, I want my way.

621
00:35:27,940 --> 00:35:28,980
 That's not the way.

622
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:30,500
 All right.

623
00:35:31,460 --> 00:35:33,500
 Unity demonstrates the transforming power

624
00:35:33,500 --> 00:35:34,000
 of the gospel.

625
00:35:34,179 --> 00:35:34,880
 We said that.

626
00:35:35,039 --> 00:35:36,900
 The gospel brings together people who might.

627
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:37,739
 We have said that.

628
00:35:38,059 --> 00:35:40,500
 The world is accustomed to divisions.

629
00:35:40,739 --> 00:35:41,420
 We said that.

630
00:35:41,900 --> 00:35:44,260
 And when believers demonstrate genuine love,

631
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:45,579
 forgiveness, and unity,

632
00:35:45,619 --> 00:35:47,179
 despite their differences,

633
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,860
 something remarkable begins to be visible.

634
00:35:51,059 --> 00:35:52,820
 And that's the presence of God.

635
00:35:53,420 --> 00:35:54,699
 Is God going to be in the presence

636
00:35:54,699 --> 00:35:56,440
 if we're all angry about each other

637
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:58,360
 and we come together

638
00:35:58,360 --> 00:35:59,699
 but we have differences of opinion?

639
00:35:59,900 --> 00:36:00,179
 No.

640
00:36:02,420 --> 00:36:08,019
 He is going to be present in the body of Christ

641
00:36:08,019 --> 00:36:10,300
 as the body of Christ exalts him

642
00:36:10,300 --> 00:36:12,119
 and lives out his word.

643
00:36:13,559 --> 00:36:13,760
 All right.

644
00:36:14,539 --> 00:36:17,820
 People see evidence that the gospel changes lives.

645
00:36:18,079 --> 00:36:19,379
 No two ways about it.

646
00:36:21,039 --> 00:36:24,420
 Unity creates an environment for spiritual growth

647
00:36:25,340 --> 00:36:27,960
 because you're not talking about differences.

648
00:36:28,219 --> 00:36:30,159
 You're talking about wanting to follow God.

649
00:36:31,139 --> 00:36:34,920
 So God intends believers to grow together

650
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,219
 not discuss our differences

651
00:36:40,099 --> 00:36:41,659
 which can separate us

652
00:36:41,659 --> 00:36:45,940
 but rather strengthen our common heritage in Christ.

653
00:36:46,739 --> 00:36:48,579
 If we talk about our differences

654
00:36:48,579 --> 00:36:50,380
 and that's all the further we get,

655
00:36:50,980 --> 00:36:53,820
 that's not accomplishing much for the glory of God.

656
00:36:54,019 --> 00:36:55,260
 It's when we start to what?

657
00:36:56,119 --> 00:36:57,559
 Universally talk about him,

658
00:36:57,780 --> 00:36:59,039
 begin to worship together,

659
00:36:59,039 --> 00:37:00,699
 begin to read the Bible together,

660
00:37:01,159 --> 00:37:02,420
 discipleship together,

661
00:37:03,119 --> 00:37:04,500
 living our lives, yes,

662
00:37:05,579 --> 00:37:09,360
 but communing together in God's love.

663
00:37:10,539 --> 00:37:10,860
 All right.

664
00:37:11,539 --> 00:37:13,780
 We need one another for encouragement,

665
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:16,500
 correction, accountability,

666
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,039
 instruction, and spiritual support.

667
00:37:20,519 --> 00:37:21,559
 Hear me on that.

668
00:37:21,739 --> 00:37:24,300
 You can't live Christianity alone, right?

669
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:26,280
 Doesn't work.

670
00:37:26,980 --> 00:37:30,079
 You don't grow spiritually living unto yourself

671
00:37:31,559 --> 00:37:33,300
 in counseling people.

672
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:34,920
 Well, I don't go to church

673
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:36,659
 because the church isn't perfect.

674
00:37:36,940 --> 00:37:38,199
 Well, if you went to church,

675
00:37:38,380 --> 00:37:40,260
 the church would then not be perfect.

676
00:37:40,780 --> 00:37:42,159
 But I have all these differences

677
00:37:42,159 --> 00:37:44,639
 and I can find God at home on the TV

678
00:37:44,639 --> 00:37:45,960
 or in my prayer closet.

679
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:47,480
 That doesn't make it.

680
00:37:48,260 --> 00:37:50,579
 It talks about do not forsake

681
00:37:50,579 --> 00:37:52,780
 the assembling of yourself together.

682
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:54,420
 Why is that?

683
00:37:54,420 --> 00:37:56,599
 It's the common denominator

684
00:37:56,599 --> 00:37:58,119
 for spiritual growth

685
00:37:58,119 --> 00:38:00,260
 and empathy for one another.

686
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:02,659
 And as you begin to know one another,

687
00:38:03,539 --> 00:38:04,539
 you begin to what?

688
00:38:04,780 --> 00:38:06,340
 You even pray for one another.

689
00:38:06,860 --> 00:38:08,360
 When we first came to this church,

690
00:38:09,639 --> 00:38:11,940
 I went out with Ron and Jackie,

691
00:38:12,500 --> 00:38:13,320
 Joni and I,

692
00:38:13,780 --> 00:38:15,260
 and we're just inquiring about the church

693
00:38:15,260 --> 00:38:17,380
 and I saw that they loved the Lord.

694
00:38:18,139 --> 00:38:19,820
 There was a peace among them.

695
00:38:20,420 --> 00:38:21,980
 Ron wasn't fighting with his wife,

696
00:38:22,860 --> 00:38:24,519
 at least in our presence.

697
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:26,159
 No, I'm kidding you.

698
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:28,860
 And I knew that,

699
00:38:28,860 --> 00:38:29,619
 that okay,

700
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:31,840
 here's an example of something

701
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:35,019
 that we could attach ourselves to.

702
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:36,820
 And we've been here ever since.

703
00:38:38,079 --> 00:38:43,179
 So the idea that we can live our life

704
00:38:43,179 --> 00:38:46,079
 alone and mature is ludicrous.

705
00:38:46,539 --> 00:38:48,579
 There is a degree of God's blessing,

706
00:38:49,019 --> 00:38:50,900
 but it only goes so far.

707
00:38:50,900 --> 00:38:52,199
 There's a ceiling to that.

708
00:38:53,139 --> 00:38:54,079
 And you plateau.

709
00:38:55,139 --> 00:38:56,039
 When you plateau,

710
00:38:56,139 --> 00:38:57,199
 you don't move forward.

711
00:38:57,920 --> 00:38:58,960
 And when the body of Christ

712
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:00,019
 is moving forward,

713
00:39:00,079 --> 00:39:02,239
 you're then left behind after a while.

714
00:39:04,179 --> 00:39:05,760
 God has a job for each of us.

715
00:39:06,079 --> 00:39:06,300
 Yes.

716
00:39:06,519 --> 00:39:08,000
 God has a job for each of us

717
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:08,739
 and being at home

718
00:39:08,739 --> 00:39:09,639
 is not going to do that.

719
00:39:10,099 --> 00:39:10,159
 Right?

720
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:11,659
 Right, yeah.

721
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:15,739
 Like, I always kid Gail

722
00:39:16,759 --> 00:39:18,619
 that the church wouldn't function

723
00:39:18,619 --> 00:39:20,420
 because she's a little bit of everything.

724
00:39:20,900 --> 00:39:22,400
 In each group,

725
00:39:22,780 --> 00:39:23,500
 you take Gail away,

726
00:39:23,599 --> 00:39:25,039
 the whole church is going to fall apart.

727
00:39:25,139 --> 00:39:25,780
 No, not really.

728
00:39:26,340 --> 00:39:27,500
 No, it's the idea

729
00:39:27,500 --> 00:39:28,739
 that we all have something.

730
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:30,059
 We all contribute.

731
00:39:31,699 --> 00:39:32,000
 Yes.

732
00:39:33,900 --> 00:39:35,320
 I'm reminded of the time

733
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:36,719
 where Jesus washed the feet

734
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:37,800
 of all the disciples.

735
00:39:38,260 --> 00:39:41,119
 And now he was a servant to them.

736
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:42,539
 And so part of that,

737
00:39:42,659 --> 00:39:43,940
 like you can't be of service

738
00:39:43,940 --> 00:39:45,320
 to your brothers and sisters

739
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:47,039
 if you're staying at home

740
00:39:47,039 --> 00:39:48,699
 and you're isolating yourself.

741
00:39:49,099 --> 00:39:50,480
 Yeah, you can't get very far, can you?

742
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:50,880
 Correct.

743
00:39:51,380 --> 00:39:52,679
 No, me and thee.

744
00:39:53,079 --> 00:39:53,940
 Me and thee only.

745
00:39:54,119 --> 00:39:55,360
 Right now, that doesn't work.

746
00:39:56,039 --> 00:39:58,400
 And when Christ called his disciples,

747
00:39:59,460 --> 00:40:01,400
 they didn't get along that well

748
00:40:02,539 --> 00:40:04,500
 because they were so different

749
00:40:04,500 --> 00:40:05,179
 from one another.

750
00:40:05,539 --> 00:40:06,800
 There was a tax collector

751
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:10,360
 amongst them and fishermen.

752
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:12,139
 And I mean, they were all different.

753
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:13,340
 They all had two brothers

754
00:40:13,340 --> 00:40:14,199
 who want to be better.

755
00:40:14,739 --> 00:40:15,719
 Yeah, yeah.

756
00:40:16,019 --> 00:40:17,420
 So, I mean, there you go.

757
00:40:18,159 --> 00:40:19,599
 Well, he took the worst of anything.

758
00:40:19,599 --> 00:40:22,139
 And if he could bring those 12 together,

759
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:24,139
 we can also have unity.

760
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:26,159
 And by the time he was finished

761
00:40:26,159 --> 00:40:27,699
 and they cried and they repented

762
00:40:27,699 --> 00:40:29,079
 because they denied God,

763
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:31,139
 they loved him so much.

764
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,920
 Our hearts burned within us,

765
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:34,800
 the word says,

766
00:40:35,659 --> 00:40:38,119
 because of his love for those people.

767
00:40:40,059 --> 00:40:41,639
 Well, there's a song that,

768
00:40:42,539 --> 00:40:43,360
 it's an old song.

769
00:40:44,039 --> 00:40:44,579
 And it was,

770
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:45,920
 No man is an island.

771
00:40:46,599 --> 00:40:48,659
 No man is an island.

772
00:40:49,599 --> 00:40:52,019
 No man can stand alone.

773
00:40:52,659 --> 00:40:55,519
 And I never knew the meaning of it

774
00:40:55,519 --> 00:40:57,920
 until I came to know Christ.

775
00:40:58,900 --> 00:41:01,380
 And I started depending on other people.

776
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,579
 And I realized that I couldn't stand alone.

777
00:41:05,219 --> 00:41:06,480
 I needed the family.

778
00:41:07,599 --> 00:41:09,619
 And I wanted to course correct here.

779
00:41:10,039 --> 00:41:11,239
 These two do not fight.

780
00:41:11,420 --> 00:41:12,099
 That was a joke.

781
00:41:13,179 --> 00:41:13,599
 They are.

782
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:15,719
 No, no, no, no, no.

783
00:41:15,940 --> 00:41:16,760
 Yeah, but.

784
00:41:20,559 --> 00:41:21,960
 Well, not that bad

785
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:22,920
 because you're still together.

786
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,619
 Well, we do have a difference of opinion, right?

787
00:41:27,940 --> 00:41:30,019
 Because one is male and one is female, right?

788
00:41:36,019 --> 00:41:36,880
 All right.

789
00:41:40,300 --> 00:41:42,960
 What happens to our Christian witness

790
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:46,559
 when unbelievers observe division,

791
00:41:46,559 --> 00:41:50,599
 resentment, unresolved conflicts within the church.

792
00:41:51,619 --> 00:41:53,340
 And I'll open one statement.

793
00:41:53,539 --> 00:41:55,300
 Well, if that's what Christianity is,

794
00:41:55,340 --> 00:41:56,139
 I don't want it.

795
00:41:57,579 --> 00:41:58,699
 We are judged.

796
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:00,000
 What?

797
00:42:01,260 --> 00:42:04,360
 By the very presence of who we represent

798
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,500
 or don't represent our attitudes.

799
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:11,159
 I can remember one time my,

800
00:42:11,380 --> 00:42:14,440
 I had a little son that was extremely difficult.

801
00:42:14,900 --> 00:42:15,900
 It was so difficult

802
00:42:15,900 --> 00:42:17,300
 that I had to tell him to leave home

803
00:42:17,300 --> 00:42:18,539
 after he got of age

804
00:42:18,539 --> 00:42:20,159
 because he couldn't abide.

805
00:42:20,380 --> 00:42:22,900
 And he was out for some years of time.

806
00:42:23,119 --> 00:42:25,139
 And my wife and I cried,

807
00:42:25,559 --> 00:42:26,500
 what did we do wrong?

808
00:42:26,619 --> 00:42:28,539
 And I realized it's not what we did wrong.

809
00:42:28,900 --> 00:42:32,199
 It's that he just didn't abide by the house rules.

810
00:42:33,340 --> 00:42:34,659
 And so consequently,

811
00:42:37,659 --> 00:42:39,340
 kind of chokes me up to think about it.

812
00:42:40,039 --> 00:42:43,320
 He, coming back to the Lord,

813
00:42:44,340 --> 00:42:45,760
 he always said, he said,

814
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:47,500
 dad, he said, it's not what you say.

815
00:42:47,699 --> 00:42:49,900
 It's I always looked at you and watched you.

816
00:42:50,460 --> 00:42:52,460
 He said, I wouldn't agree to you

817
00:42:52,460 --> 00:42:55,920
 or even give you credence of what you said was right.

818
00:42:56,119 --> 00:42:57,119
 But I watched you.

819
00:42:57,559 --> 00:42:59,019
 And that's what made the difference.

820
00:42:59,199 --> 00:43:03,539
 He watched us interdynamically play together

821
00:43:03,539 --> 00:43:05,280
 as husband and wife,

822
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,639
 administering love to the family and so forth.

823
00:43:08,739 --> 00:43:10,300
 And that's what drew him

824
00:43:10,300 --> 00:43:12,000
 because he knew it was in the heart.

825
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:15,780
 And so many, I think I've asked a question before,

826
00:43:15,780 --> 00:43:16,800
 but I'll ask it again.

827
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:20,019
 How many have had occasions to meet people

828
00:43:20,019 --> 00:43:21,860
 and be with people and they say to you,

829
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:23,280
 well, what makes you so different?

830
00:43:24,159 --> 00:43:25,000
 You ever have that happen?

831
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:27,139
 Yeah, I mean, you know,

832
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,119
 what do you have that I don't have?

833
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:31,980
 It's basically what they're saying.

834
00:43:32,260 --> 00:43:35,699
 And that's what the presence of God in your life,

835
00:43:36,119 --> 00:43:37,800
 the aura of God.

836
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,300
 I mean, God, through Jesus Christ,

837
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:44,440
 there was an aura about him as he ministered.

838
00:43:44,599 --> 00:43:46,380
 People were drawn to him

839
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:49,039
 and our people drawn to us.

840
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:51,059
 Why are you so different?

841
00:43:51,539 --> 00:43:54,260
 Then that's opportunity to give thanks to the Lord

842
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:55,940
 for who he is.

843
00:43:56,219 --> 00:43:57,059
 Nothing we've done.

844
00:43:57,679 --> 00:44:00,179
 No credit to our own, but to him.

845
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:01,840
 All right.

846
00:44:05,659 --> 00:44:08,199
 Here are important observations

847
00:44:09,500 --> 00:44:12,980
 that Israel gradually moved from.

848
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:14,519
 So let's build the case.

849
00:44:16,099 --> 00:44:20,639
 A shared identity, one God, one kingdom,

850
00:44:21,099 --> 00:44:25,619
 12 tribes living in unity, being an example.

851
00:44:26,059 --> 00:44:26,940
 That's what he wanted.

852
00:44:27,699 --> 00:44:29,219
 That's what he labored for.

853
00:44:29,519 --> 00:44:30,940
 He made them a nation.

854
00:44:31,219 --> 00:44:32,860
 He dug them out of differences.

855
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:34,519
 He brought them together.

856
00:44:34,679 --> 00:44:37,579
 He laid down laws that could live

857
00:44:37,579 --> 00:44:39,119
 peaceably with one another.

858
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:43,559
 And now we see competing interests overtake.

859
00:44:44,980 --> 00:44:48,780
 So the degradation, what's happening

860
00:44:48,780 --> 00:44:50,280
 over the hundreds of years.

861
00:44:51,179 --> 00:44:52,059
 Shared convictions.

862
00:44:53,860 --> 00:44:55,360
 What was this big shared conviction?

863
00:44:55,900 --> 00:44:57,900
 We are given a promised land.

864
00:44:58,460 --> 00:45:00,019
 We will dwell in there.

865
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:01,059
 We will conquer.

866
00:45:01,260 --> 00:45:02,039
 We will annihilate.

867
00:45:02,119 --> 00:45:03,500
 And the land will be ours.

868
00:45:05,660 --> 00:45:09,679
 And so we now have differing spiritual directions.

869
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:11,659
 And we talked about that.

870
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:17,000
 Two weeks ago, I showed you all the different idols

871
00:45:18,039 --> 00:45:22,280
 and worshiping modes that the Israelites had.

872
00:45:22,699 --> 00:45:26,159
 There were about 13 different things that they did.

873
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:28,000
 And what did God say?

874
00:45:28,219 --> 00:45:29,739
 They were worse than the pagans.

875
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:31,639
 They were worse than the other people

876
00:45:31,639 --> 00:45:33,159
 that existed in this land.

877
00:45:33,500 --> 00:45:35,139
 Because they took a little bit of this

878
00:45:35,139 --> 00:45:37,679
 and a little bit of that and put it together

879
00:45:37,679 --> 00:45:40,739
 and homogenated what their following was.

880
00:45:41,099 --> 00:45:44,880
 And they still maintained the liturgy of the tabernacle.

881
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:48,280
 They had cooperation.

882
00:45:49,199 --> 00:45:53,079
 Remember when Gadd and the NASA

883
00:45:53,079 --> 00:45:55,260
 didn't want to go to the promised land.

884
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:58,219
 They said, well, the land here is perfect

885
00:45:58,219 --> 00:45:59,780
 for our sheep and our herds.

886
00:46:00,260 --> 00:46:03,000
 And we don't want to go over there for our allocation.

887
00:46:04,219 --> 00:46:05,519
 And what did they do?

888
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:07,860
 Moses said, look, you can stay here.

889
00:46:08,340 --> 00:46:09,679
 You establish yourselves.

890
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:10,980
 You build your houses.

891
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:13,119
 You take care of your wives and your children.

892
00:46:13,679 --> 00:46:15,840
 When you're established, you then come over

893
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:20,199
 and you fight with us so we can conquer the rest of the land

894
00:46:20,199 --> 00:46:22,219
 so we too can live at peace.

895
00:46:22,500 --> 00:46:23,900
 And that's what they did.

896
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:30,239
 So there was a mutual agreement, a mutual interest.

897
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:35,900
 Now, we have suspicion and hostility.

898
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:38,900
 We're going down.

899
00:46:39,820 --> 00:46:40,500
 We're getting worse.

900
00:46:43,179 --> 00:46:43,840
 Tribal disagreements.

901
00:46:44,599 --> 00:46:45,699
 We always had those.

902
00:46:46,659 --> 00:46:48,340
 Now we have civil war.

903
00:46:49,260 --> 00:46:50,099
 Civil war.

904
00:46:51,420 --> 00:46:53,000
 This is the anointed one.

905
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:56,119
 This is the nation that's supposed

906
00:46:56,119 --> 00:46:57,840
 to be an example to the world.

907
00:47:00,059 --> 00:47:04,900
 One kingdom was established, and eventually what?

908
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:09,659
 It evolved into two kingdoms fighting back and forth,

909
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:11,360
 disagreeing.

910
00:47:13,539 --> 00:47:17,519
 Don't you think God was disappointed and grieved?

911
00:47:17,980 --> 00:47:19,219
 That's what the scripture says.

912
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:21,880
 He was grieved, and he wanted to get rid of them.

913
00:47:22,380 --> 00:47:23,579
 I'll annihilate them all.

914
00:47:24,199 --> 00:47:27,280
 And I'll make you, Moses, part of the generation

915
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:28,619
 that I want you to bring in.

916
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:29,960
 He said, no, Moses, wait a minute.

917
00:47:30,019 --> 00:47:30,840
 No, no, don't do that.

918
00:47:31,380 --> 00:47:32,460
 And he pleaded with God.

919
00:47:35,260 --> 00:47:38,800
 How can we recognize when disagreements, wounded pride,

920
00:47:39,019 --> 00:47:42,800
 and personal differences are beginning to threaten

921
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:44,960
 the unity of our Christian fellowship?

922
00:47:45,460 --> 00:47:48,900
 What are those, what might be some of those signs?

923
00:47:50,539 --> 00:47:52,159
 I'll start you off, an easy one.

924
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,880
 When you see people start to withdraw

925
00:47:55,800 --> 00:48:00,019
 from the body of Christ, well, it's not my cup of tea.

926
00:48:00,260 --> 00:48:03,940
 Been too busy, wanted to sleep late, yada, yada, yada.

927
00:48:04,820 --> 00:48:06,760
 You know, there's nothing wrong with all those things,

928
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:10,320
 but as you withdraw, you then lose that momentum

929
00:48:11,179 --> 00:48:13,000
 that you have created.

930
00:48:13,159 --> 00:48:13,780
 What else?

931
00:48:15,139 --> 00:48:16,219
 What other thoughts?

932
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:22,199
 And everybody was quiet.

933
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:23,219
 All right.

934
00:48:23,219 --> 00:48:25,340
 Thank you for anchoring this question.

935
00:48:25,460 --> 00:48:26,980
 All right, you stopped thinking about,

936
00:48:26,980 --> 00:48:28,559
 you stopped thinking about we,

937
00:48:28,940 --> 00:48:30,559
 and you start thinking about me.

938
00:48:30,940 --> 00:48:31,719
 Yeah, right.

939
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:33,639
 And me is important, right?

940
00:48:33,980 --> 00:48:34,739
 No, no.

941
00:48:34,739 --> 00:48:36,480
 I mean, not as important as we.

942
00:48:37,559 --> 00:48:38,559
 No, I'm reinforcing.

943
00:48:39,039 --> 00:48:39,079
 Yeah.

944
00:48:40,380 --> 00:48:42,920
 That's everybody, everybody's strange,

945
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:45,099
 except me and Dee, and I wonder about these

946
00:48:45,099 --> 00:48:47,500
 sometimes as the old expression goes.

947
00:48:48,159 --> 00:48:49,760
 Yeah, no, that's good, yeah.

948
00:48:50,139 --> 00:48:51,500
 And as we talked earlier,

949
00:48:51,500 --> 00:48:53,380
 we allow ourselves to be offended

950
00:48:53,380 --> 00:48:55,639
 by what people's actions are,

951
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:57,780
 and we don't really understand what they are,

952
00:48:58,099 --> 00:48:59,199
 but we take offense anyway.

953
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:03,420
 Because I have a right to have my own opinion.

954
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,440
 No, no.

955
00:49:07,519 --> 00:49:09,260
 Because opinions are what they are.

956
00:49:11,460 --> 00:49:11,920
 All right.

957
00:49:17,779 --> 00:49:22,679
 Now, these are questions for you.

958
00:49:23,199 --> 00:49:25,800
 I've delineated all the judges

959
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:30,179
 on the left-hand side.

960
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:35,099
 I've put their number of years of leadership

961
00:49:35,099 --> 00:49:37,199
 in a column,

962
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,760
 and then I put over on the right column

963
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:44,820
 the priority and focus of their interests.

964
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:48,199
 So you can see that we started out

965
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:54,599
 in the beginning with a leader

966
00:49:54,599 --> 00:49:57,800
 that led Israel for 40 years.

967
00:49:59,139 --> 00:50:00,340
 They delivered Israel

968
00:50:00,340 --> 00:50:02,500
 and restored peace and rest.

969
00:50:03,199 --> 00:50:04,360
 And you can go down the line.

970
00:50:04,460 --> 00:50:06,460
 Here's one, E.H.O.D.

971
00:50:06,559 --> 00:50:09,659
 For 80 years, he was a judge.

972
00:50:09,659 --> 00:50:12,159
 He delivered Israel from the Moabites.

973
00:50:13,460 --> 00:50:16,400
 And we can see that the Philistines

974
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:17,880
 were struck down.

975
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:23,820
 Deborah, which co-authored Deborah's song

976
00:50:23,820 --> 00:50:27,500
 and reigned with Barack for 40 years.

977
00:50:27,780 --> 00:50:30,039
 They provided leadership alongside of one another.

978
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:32,519
 And Gideon, we talked about him

979
00:50:32,519 --> 00:50:34,199
 not too long ago, 40 years.

980
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:37,320
 He delivered Israel

981
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:39,039
 from the Midianites with 300 men.

982
00:50:39,879 --> 00:50:41,820
 Tola, 23 years.

983
00:50:42,820 --> 00:50:45,019
 Family, marriage, connections.

984
00:50:46,179 --> 00:50:47,500
 Jair, 22 years.

985
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:49,219
 Tribal identity and location.

986
00:50:50,859 --> 00:50:53,619
 Ibsam, seven years.

987
00:50:54,599 --> 00:50:55,559
 Elan, 10 years.

988
00:50:56,159 --> 00:50:57,159
 Abdan, eight years.

989
00:50:57,860 --> 00:51:00,059
 Family, marriage, tribal identity.

990
00:51:00,579 --> 00:51:02,039
 Now let's break this down.

991
00:51:02,860 --> 00:51:05,039
 Look at what happened in the first phase.

992
00:51:06,019 --> 00:51:09,199
 These judges represented violent events

993
00:51:09,199 --> 00:51:12,480
 as they were military deliverance

994
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:16,179
 and bringing peace and excluding

995
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,539
 the Abimelech issue.

996
00:51:19,579 --> 00:51:21,960
 Remember when he wanted to seize the throne.

997
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:23,400
 I'm not including him

998
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:25,340
 because he never was a judge

999
00:51:25,340 --> 00:51:27,420
 because of his personal ambition.

1000
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,219
 So that was one group of people.

1001
00:51:31,519 --> 00:51:32,960
 Now look what happens

1002
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,500
 when we see Israel's leadership

1003
00:51:35,500 --> 00:51:38,539
 in phase two that emphasized family,

1004
00:51:38,539 --> 00:51:40,880
 tribal identity, social standing,

1005
00:51:41,059 --> 00:51:42,199
 governing and stability.

1006
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,179
 The numbers start to go down

1007
00:51:45,900 --> 00:51:47,420
 with regard to their rule.

1008
00:51:48,219 --> 00:51:49,880
 And I'm not saying anything wrong with that,

1009
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:51,099
 but then let's take that

1010
00:51:51,099 --> 00:51:53,019
 and extrapolate it one other time.

1011
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:57,579
 In these observations,

1012
00:51:57,599 --> 00:51:59,579
 we notice that the earlier judges

1013
00:51:59,579 --> 00:52:03,159
 experienced extended periods of leadership.

1014
00:52:04,100 --> 00:52:05,980
 While the later judges

1015
00:52:05,980 --> 00:52:09,800
 had decreasing periods of leadership.

1016
00:52:10,539 --> 00:52:12,199
 What does that say to you?

1017
00:52:14,099 --> 00:52:18,619
 The nation was at rest in the beginning

1018
00:52:19,340 --> 00:52:20,760
 and now they're becoming

1019
00:52:22,460 --> 00:52:24,500
 and looking for things

1020
00:52:24,500 --> 00:52:26,440
 that advantages of one another

1021
00:52:27,019 --> 00:52:28,179
 and not an agreement.

1022
00:52:28,940 --> 00:52:30,380
 So the question I ask you,

1023
00:52:30,820 --> 00:52:33,539
 so what conclusion can we draw from this?

1024
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:35,619
 What do you think?

1025
00:52:35,980 --> 00:52:38,380
 In your wildest expectations or thoughts?

1026
00:52:41,119 --> 00:52:42,780
 80 years, 7 years.

1027
00:52:48,099 --> 00:52:50,659
 I told Justin I might hang myself

1028
00:52:50,659 --> 00:52:51,679
 on this new cord.

1029
00:52:52,039 --> 00:52:53,780
 It doesn't lay down in here.

1030
00:52:54,119 --> 00:52:55,380
 So almost did.

1031
00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:56,460
 Yes, Jackie.

1032
00:52:57,119 --> 00:53:02,159
 Maybe they stop really that connection

1033
00:53:02,159 --> 00:53:04,940
 with God and that relationship.

1034
00:53:04,940 --> 00:53:06,239
 Not only relationship,

1035
00:53:06,619 --> 00:53:09,880
 but yeah, I'm going to go all out for God.

1036
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:14,599
 So that kind of got laxed

1037
00:53:14,599 --> 00:53:16,400
 and then they started feeling comfortable

1038
00:53:17,240 --> 00:53:19,739
 and they weren't doing their all for the Lord.

1039
00:53:21,619 --> 00:53:23,519
 And then they were bickering

1040
00:53:23,519 --> 00:53:27,239
 and pride came in and stuff like that.

1041
00:53:27,539 --> 00:53:28,659
 What did Moses say

1042
00:53:28,659 --> 00:53:30,300
 before they ever went into the land?

1043
00:53:31,079 --> 00:53:32,340
 You will be comfortable.

1044
00:53:33,099 --> 00:53:34,860
 You will not remember me.

1045
00:53:34,940 --> 00:53:36,239
 You will backslide.

1046
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:39,900
 And you will take the Gods of nations

1047
00:53:39,900 --> 00:53:40,920
 unto yourself.

1048
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:44,260
 Oh my, what prophetic utterance that was.

1049
00:53:45,500 --> 00:53:49,360
 Well, any time a nation stops

1050
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:52,639
 fearing God and being obedient to him,

1051
00:53:53,139 --> 00:53:54,280
 they're not going to be blessed.

1052
00:53:55,159 --> 00:53:56,980
 And they're going to gradually deteriorate.

1053
00:53:57,219 --> 00:53:58,519
 What's that say about our own life?

1054
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:00,579
 Same thing happens, yeah.

1055
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:02,260
 Right, same thing.

1056
00:54:03,219 --> 00:54:07,179
 All right, all right.

1057
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:09,179
 Okay, here's some thoughts.

1058
00:54:11,519 --> 00:54:13,599
 One, Israel's spiritual problems

1059
00:54:13,599 --> 00:54:15,940
 are becoming increasingly persistent

1060
00:54:16,900 --> 00:54:19,460
 because of their own self.

1061
00:54:20,340 --> 00:54:21,460
 Unwillingness for them

1062
00:54:21,460 --> 00:54:23,460
 to remain faithful to God, Jackie.

1063
00:54:23,599 --> 00:54:24,099
 There you go.

1064
00:54:25,300 --> 00:54:27,300
 Number two, tribal divisions

1065
00:54:27,300 --> 00:54:29,119
 and internal conflicts

1066
00:54:29,119 --> 00:54:31,599
 were becoming more prevalent.

1067
00:54:33,220 --> 00:54:35,219
 Levels of national commitment

1068
00:54:35,219 --> 00:54:37,039
 varied by tribe.

1069
00:54:38,139 --> 00:54:39,400
 Remember, there was only one tribe

1070
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:41,900
 that was left that wanted to bless God.

1071
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:42,539
 And that was what?

1072
00:54:42,699 --> 00:54:43,480
 The tribe of Levi.

1073
00:54:44,619 --> 00:54:45,500
 Because they were the priests.

1074
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:46,699
 They were the remaining.

1075
00:54:48,679 --> 00:54:49,739
 And then number three,

1076
00:54:49,860 --> 00:54:51,099
 the judge's leadership

1077
00:54:51,099 --> 00:54:55,679
 was becoming less associated

1078
00:54:55,679 --> 00:54:57,400
 with the nation's need

1079
00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:59,480
 for national deliverance

1080
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:03,340
 and more focused on the family,

1081
00:55:03,699 --> 00:55:05,659
 the tribal identity,

1082
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:07,440
 and the social standing.

1083
00:55:07,860 --> 00:55:08,199
 Because remember,

1084
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:09,219
 we talked about the

1085
00:55:09,219 --> 00:55:11,780
 out of the shepherds became traders.

1086
00:55:11,940 --> 00:55:14,219
 Out of the traders became blacksmiths.

1087
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:15,679
 And they had a whole society

1088
00:55:15,679 --> 00:55:16,619
 that they developed.

1089
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:17,920
 Like Jackie said,

1090
00:55:17,980 --> 00:55:19,000
 they became comfortable.

1091
00:55:20,519 --> 00:55:21,320
 And then probably

1092
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:22,900
 because one guy was successful,

1093
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:25,019
 he has 14,000 sheep

1094
00:55:25,019 --> 00:55:26,059
 and I only got 100.

1095
00:55:26,639 --> 00:55:27,960
 I want what he has.

1096
00:55:28,679 --> 00:55:29,880
 And bickering started.

1097
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:31,960
 And so forth and so on.

1098
00:55:32,500 --> 00:55:33,820
 So now the takeaways

1099
00:55:33,820 --> 00:55:35,360
 for us to remember

1100
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:36,619
 and act upon.

1101
00:55:36,900 --> 00:55:39,239
 This is where it hits home, I hope.

1102
00:55:40,679 --> 00:55:42,780
 This chapter then challenges us

1103
00:55:42,780 --> 00:55:45,519
 to examine our own attitudes.

1104
00:55:46,559 --> 00:55:47,900
 Well, that was the Children of Israel.

1105
00:55:48,119 --> 00:55:49,420
 Okay, let's apply it to us.

1106
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:51,380
 Let's ask the question.

1107
00:55:51,579 --> 00:55:52,960
 Do we become resentful

1108
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:55,440
 when others receive recognition?

1109
00:55:56,260 --> 00:55:56,860
 Boy.

1110
00:55:58,980 --> 00:55:59,239
 Now,

1111
00:56:02,159 --> 00:56:05,239
 some of you people may ask fire

1112
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:07,139
 to be a teacher.

1113
00:56:07,599 --> 00:56:08,400
 And that's great.

1114
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:11,579
 I mean, it's commendable.

1115
00:56:12,980 --> 00:56:16,000
 And I had that opportunity to do that.

1116
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:17,199
 But I will tell you,

1117
00:56:17,199 --> 00:56:18,599
 there's a price you pay for that.

1118
00:56:19,619 --> 00:56:21,239
 There's hours upon hours

1119
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:22,760
 upon hours upon hours

1120
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:23,760
 of waiting on God,

1121
00:56:24,219 --> 00:56:25,320
 putting these things down.

1122
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:27,860
 I'm making them taking the complex

1123
00:56:27,860 --> 00:56:28,980
 and making it simple.

1124
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:30,440
 That's just an example.

1125
00:56:31,559 --> 00:56:32,260
 Say, well, you know,

1126
00:56:32,380 --> 00:56:33,619
 I want to be a pastor of a church.

1127
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:34,280
 Ask Chris.

1128
00:56:35,980 --> 00:56:36,980
 The only reason he's the pastor

1129
00:56:36,980 --> 00:56:37,579
 of the church is

1130
00:56:37,579 --> 00:56:38,659
 because God led him to that.

1131
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:39,880
 He didn't want that.

1132
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:42,019
 Neither did I want to be a teacher.

1133
00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:43,940
 I didn't aspire to that.

1134
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:45,659
 But God's calling is

1135
00:56:45,659 --> 00:56:47,059
 yea and amen in our lives.

1136
00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:50,320
 As well as being an instrument,

1137
00:56:50,659 --> 00:56:51,579
 playing an instrument,

1138
00:56:53,019 --> 00:56:54,340
 being in children's church,

1139
00:56:54,340 --> 00:56:56,639
 doing the things that God's called you to do.

1140
00:56:57,059 --> 00:56:58,280
 Do we allow disagreements

1141
00:56:58,280 --> 00:56:59,360
 to become personal?

1142
00:57:00,599 --> 00:57:02,079
 Like Gail said, well, I'm offended.

1143
00:57:03,340 --> 00:57:04,519
 I don't know that I'm going to go

1144
00:57:04,519 --> 00:57:05,599
 to that church and fellowship

1145
00:57:05,599 --> 00:57:06,460
 with Jim anymore.

1146
00:57:08,699 --> 00:57:09,480
 Oh, no.

1147
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:17,599
 Do our words help resolve conflict

1148
00:57:17,599 --> 00:57:18,519
 or make it worse?

1149
00:57:19,719 --> 00:57:21,179
 Remember, there's two things

1150
00:57:21,179 --> 00:57:23,380
 that you can judge Christianity by.

1151
00:57:23,380 --> 00:57:25,099
 When you walk into a church

1152
00:57:25,099 --> 00:57:26,039
 or when you're people

1153
00:57:26,039 --> 00:57:28,059
 and you see chaos and confusion,

1154
00:57:28,059 --> 00:57:29,739
 that's not God.

1155
00:57:30,780 --> 00:57:31,699
 What is God?

1156
00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:35,320
 Peace that passes all understanding,

1157
00:57:36,820 --> 00:57:38,380
 understanding, unity, love.

1158
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:42,300
 Are we more committed

1159
00:57:42,300 --> 00:57:44,519
 to defending our pride

1160
00:57:45,539 --> 00:57:46,960
 than preserving unity?

1161
00:57:47,820 --> 00:57:49,219
 We should always have

1162
00:57:49,219 --> 00:57:51,440
 the priority of preserving unity,

1163
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:53,039
 not at any cost.

1164
00:57:54,079 --> 00:57:55,000
 I'm not saying that.

1165
00:57:55,380 --> 00:57:56,320
 There are limitations.

1166
00:57:56,719 --> 00:57:57,480
 There are boundaries

1167
00:57:57,480 --> 00:57:58,880
 that God's given us,

1168
00:58:00,460 --> 00:58:02,579
 but we don't have to have our own way.

1169
00:58:02,780 --> 00:58:04,079
 We don't have to be right,

1170
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:06,500
 as I used to think I had to be.

1171
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:09,940
 Are we so self-absorbed

1172
00:58:09,940 --> 00:58:12,719
 in our own thoughts and rights

1173
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:15,679
 while excluding opinions

1174
00:58:15,679 --> 00:58:17,460
 and convictions of others?

1175
00:58:17,940 --> 00:58:18,579
 Now, that hurts.

1176
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:20,239
 Somebody's convicted

1177
00:58:20,239 --> 00:58:21,260
 that this is the way

1178
00:58:21,260 --> 00:58:22,059
 they should live

1179
00:58:22,059 --> 00:58:23,940
 or they shouldn't eat meat

1180
00:58:23,940 --> 00:58:25,460
 or they should be a vegetarian.

1181
00:58:25,659 --> 00:58:26,280
 Who am I to say,

1182
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:27,019
 well, you're wrong.

1183
00:58:28,159 --> 00:58:29,940
 You know, there's varied things

1184
00:58:29,940 --> 00:58:31,760
 in the kingdom of God,

1185
00:58:32,559 --> 00:58:34,099
 and we all have

1186
00:58:34,099 --> 00:58:35,320
 many different convictions.

1187
00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:39,260
 The enemy outside Israel

1188
00:58:39,260 --> 00:58:40,719
 had been defeated,

1189
00:58:40,780 --> 00:58:43,219
 yes, by and large,

1190
00:58:43,639 --> 00:58:44,639
 not all the way,

1191
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:48,219
 but the conflict within Israel

1192
00:58:48,219 --> 00:58:50,079
 approved even more destructive

1193
00:58:50,079 --> 00:58:51,039
 to its people,

1194
00:58:51,099 --> 00:58:51,960
 because why?

1195
00:58:52,179 --> 00:58:54,780
 They didn't lay hold of the truth.

1196
00:58:56,159 --> 00:58:56,860
 Kill the people,

1197
00:58:57,119 --> 00:58:58,159
 get rid of them,

1198
00:58:58,659 --> 00:58:59,900
 take the spoils,

1199
00:59:00,420 --> 00:59:01,199
 take the houses

1200
00:59:01,199 --> 00:59:02,260
 that you didn't build,

1201
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:04,139
 harvest the vineyards

1202
00:59:04,139 --> 00:59:05,139
 that you didn't make

1203
00:59:05,139 --> 00:59:06,679
 and live unto me.

1204
00:59:06,860 --> 00:59:07,940
 But yet they left,

1205
00:59:08,159 --> 00:59:08,820
 as we know,

1206
00:59:09,059 --> 00:59:10,380
 pockets of individuals,

1207
00:59:10,679 --> 00:59:11,400
 which then what?

1208
00:59:12,340 --> 00:59:13,099
 Influenced them

1209
00:59:13,099 --> 00:59:14,699
 because of the idols

1210
00:59:14,699 --> 00:59:16,500
 and the worship

1211
00:59:16,500 --> 00:59:17,840
 that they had

1212
00:59:18,219 --> 00:59:20,219
 then they started to intermarry,

1213
00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:23,179
 then they started to follow idolatry,

1214
00:59:23,699 --> 00:59:25,780
 and then we have this downward slide

1215
00:59:25,780 --> 00:59:27,880
 to civil war.

1216
00:59:28,679 --> 00:59:29,300
 Well, I'm right.

1217
00:59:29,420 --> 00:59:29,880
 You're wrong.

1218
00:59:30,980 --> 00:59:32,199
 This should remind us

1219
00:59:32,199 --> 00:59:33,500
 that preserving unity

1220
00:59:33,500 --> 00:59:35,000
 requires three things,

1221
00:59:35,739 --> 00:59:36,099
 humility,

1222
00:59:36,559 --> 00:59:37,119
 restraint,

1223
00:59:37,519 --> 00:59:38,139
 and a willingness

1224
00:59:38,139 --> 00:59:40,179
 to resolve disagreements

1225
00:59:40,179 --> 00:59:42,500
 before they become destructive.

1226
00:59:43,139 --> 00:59:44,059
 So let's take a look.

1227
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:46,480
 How should we accomplish

1228
00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:47,820
 these things then?

1229
00:59:47,820 --> 00:59:49,400
 What's that mean, humility?

1230
00:59:49,679 --> 00:59:50,760
 What's that mean, restraint?

1231
00:59:51,579 --> 00:59:52,480
 And because it's time,

1232
00:59:52,559 --> 00:59:53,559
 I'll just go to the end.

1233
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:55,119
 We want to accomplish

1234
00:59:55,119 --> 00:59:56,800
 these things by the following.

1235
00:59:57,960 --> 00:59:59,659
 The principle is this, humility.

1236
01:00:00,079 --> 01:00:00,800
 Well, what is that?

1237
01:00:01,659 --> 01:00:02,460
 It's putting others

1238
01:00:02,460 --> 01:00:03,599
 before ourselves.

1239
01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:05,840
 More important than us.

1240
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:06,760
 That's been said

1241
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:07,800
 and thank you for that.

1242
01:00:09,460 --> 01:00:11,159
 As long as we have that in mind,

1243
01:00:11,780 --> 01:00:12,739
 we will be humble.

1244
01:00:14,300 --> 01:00:15,400
 Now, you can't glory

1245
01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:16,300
 in your humility.

1246
01:00:16,559 --> 01:00:17,039
 That's another.

1247
01:00:17,039 --> 01:00:18,400
 That's false humility.

1248
01:00:19,219 --> 01:00:20,699
 God even talks about that.

1249
01:00:22,380 --> 01:00:23,539
 Philippians 2.3 says,

1250
01:00:23,860 --> 01:00:25,260
 in loneliness of mind,

1251
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:26,659
 let each esteem other

1252
01:00:26,659 --> 01:00:28,099
 better than yourselves.

1253
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:33,760
 Restraint.

1254
01:00:34,119 --> 01:00:34,639
 That's important.

1255
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:37,599
 Controlling our reactions

1256
01:00:37,599 --> 01:00:38,780
 rather than allowing

1257
01:00:38,780 --> 01:00:41,559
 our reactions to control us.

1258
01:00:41,619 --> 01:00:42,719
 That's a big statement.

1259
01:00:43,420 --> 01:00:44,900
 Well, you know, okay,

1260
01:00:44,900 --> 01:00:46,440
 here comes the old man.

1261
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:47,260
 Put it down.

1262
01:00:49,039 --> 01:00:49,860
 Control it.

1263
01:00:51,219 --> 01:00:51,880
 James 1.9,

1264
01:00:52,059 --> 01:00:54,539
 let every man be swift to hear,

1265
01:00:55,519 --> 01:00:56,500
 slow to speak

1266
01:00:56,500 --> 01:00:58,400
 and slow to wrath.

1267
01:00:59,199 --> 01:01:00,420
 Anybody say amen to that?

1268
01:01:02,159 --> 01:01:02,519
 All right.

1269
01:01:03,139 --> 01:01:04,219
 Here's some things.

1270
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:07,659
 Think before responding.

1271
01:01:08,639 --> 01:01:09,380
 All of a sudden,

1272
01:01:09,380 --> 01:01:10,500
 the words come out

1273
01:01:10,500 --> 01:01:11,639
 and now they're out there

1274
01:01:11,639 --> 01:01:12,300
 and they're public

1275
01:01:12,300 --> 01:01:13,920
 and oh my gosh, I wish

1276
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:14,780
 I wouldn't have said that.

1277
01:01:15,059 --> 01:01:16,179
 Everybody been in that?

1278
01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:17,119
 Yeah, I have.

1279
01:01:19,559 --> 01:01:21,539
 Don't allow our actions

1280
01:01:23,579 --> 01:01:25,460
 to dictate our behavior.

1281
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:28,679
 Well, if that's the way you feel,

1282
01:01:29,519 --> 01:01:30,440
 you know, then you go off.

1283
01:01:32,019 --> 01:01:33,579
 Know when to remain silent.

1284
01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:35,000
 Boy, that's precious, isn't it?

1285
01:01:36,119 --> 01:01:37,460
 People don't know your position

1286
01:01:37,460 --> 01:01:38,579
 until you open your mouth

1287
01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:42,260
 and then you reveal who you are

1288
01:01:42,260 --> 01:01:44,480
 by your conversation.

1289
01:01:45,099 --> 01:01:47,119
 Refuse to fuel disagreements

1290
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:49,320
 or take sides.

1291
01:01:50,740 --> 01:01:52,480
 Well, all of you are against Gail,

1292
01:01:52,579 --> 01:01:53,940
 but I'm on her side because,

1293
01:01:54,700 --> 01:01:56,199
 you know, you don't take sides.

1294
01:01:56,900 --> 01:01:57,579
 You calm.

1295
01:01:58,239 --> 01:01:59,480
 Remember like Gideon did.

1296
01:01:59,619 --> 01:02:01,500
 He calmed Ephraim.

1297
01:02:02,500 --> 01:02:04,440
 Willingness to resolve disagreements.

1298
01:02:06,420 --> 01:02:07,539
 Pursue reconciliation

1299
01:02:07,539 --> 01:02:09,619
 rather than winning arguments.

1300
01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:11,380
 That was my big thing.

1301
01:02:11,500 --> 01:02:12,599
 I want to win the argument.

1302
01:02:14,679 --> 01:02:17,519
 Think and talk directly

1303
01:02:17,519 --> 01:02:19,539
 with the person involved.

1304
01:02:19,739 --> 01:02:20,860
 We talked about that.

1305
01:02:22,139 --> 01:02:24,880
 Be willing to apologize and forget.

1306
01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:27,900
 And please don't keep bringing up

1307
01:02:27,900 --> 01:02:31,440
 forgiveness of forgiven offenses.

1308
01:02:31,980 --> 01:02:33,760
 Leave them die the death

1309
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:34,739
 that they deserve.

1310
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:36,119
 And after a while,

1311
01:02:36,159 --> 01:02:36,980
 you don't even know

1312
01:02:36,980 --> 01:02:37,900
 that they existed.

1313
01:02:39,519 --> 01:02:41,719
 So in closing,

1314
01:02:42,699 --> 01:02:44,320
 preserving unity requires

1315
01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:46,559
 each of us to be more concerned

1316
01:02:46,559 --> 01:02:48,239
 about honoring Christ

1317
01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:51,380
 and protecting our relationships

1318
01:02:51,380 --> 01:02:52,400
 with each other

1319
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:55,360
 than defending our personal preferences,

1320
01:02:56,139 --> 01:02:57,780
 opinions, and pride.

1321
01:02:58,800 --> 01:02:59,199
 Remember that.

1322
01:03:00,059 --> 01:03:01,579
 And one last exhortation,

1323
01:03:01,679 --> 01:03:03,659
 which is a quote that I got

1324
01:03:03,659 --> 01:03:04,619
 not too long ago.

1325
01:03:05,639 --> 01:03:07,079
 Let's be people who bring

1326
01:03:07,079 --> 01:03:07,940
 others together

1327
01:03:07,940 --> 01:03:09,320
 rather than allow ourselves

1328
01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:10,360
 to become the reason

1329
01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:11,539
 that they're pulled apart.

1330
01:03:12,659 --> 01:03:14,139
 Don't be part of anything

1331
01:03:14,139 --> 01:03:14,679
 like that.

1332
01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:16,019
 All right.

1333
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:18,059
 Lord, we thank you

1334
01:03:18,059 --> 01:03:19,179
 for this conversation.

1335
01:03:20,260 --> 01:03:21,639
 We thank you so much

1336
01:03:21,639 --> 01:03:24,579
 that we have been redeemed.

1337
01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:27,900
 And we're not standing up here

1338
01:03:27,900 --> 01:03:29,179
 and parsing words

1339
01:03:30,059 --> 01:03:33,239
 and defining separations

1340
01:03:33,239 --> 01:03:34,099
 as righteous,

1341
01:03:34,699 --> 01:03:36,539
 but we're seeking to have unity

1342
01:03:36,539 --> 01:03:39,019
 with ourselves with one another.

1343
01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:41,239
 With you, Lord.

1344
01:03:42,219 --> 01:03:43,099
 And we ask, Lord,

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 as we go our way,

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 that we'll take these things home

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 with us

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 and that you'll put a watch

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 before our lips

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 that it will love

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 and esteem our mates,

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 our friends.

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 Lord, these things are precious.

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 So we thank you

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 for giving us the courage

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 and the patience

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 to walk your kingdom

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 out in our life

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 as an expression of what we do

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 and what we think

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 in the name of Jesus,

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 everyone said.

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01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:13,199
 Amen.

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 God bless you.

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01:04:15,179 --> 01:04:15,400
 Amen.

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01:04:19,460 --> 01:04:21,019
 Thanks for joining us

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 at Lansdale Life Church

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 as we praise God

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 and discuss His word.

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 Don't forget to join us

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 for Worship Lives Sunday mornings

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 at 10 a.m. Eastern on YouTube.

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01:04:32,039 --> 01:04:32,519
 Be blessed

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 and have a great day.