Good Friday Service - 2026-04-03

Good Friday Service - 2026-04-03

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Join us as we honor Christ for his sacrifice on the cross.
Pastor Chris Bonner

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Welcome to the Lansdale Life Church podcast.

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If you're seeking a closer relationship with Jesus Christ, this podcast is for you.

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Thank you for joining us today.

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Thanks for coming out today and just commemorating Christ in this way as we

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realize this is such a heavy day. The Lord always, the Spirit always just weighs on me during this day.

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And I can't make much sense of it, you know, because we know the outcome.

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I was reminded this morning how, you know, Jesus, when He was going to raise Lazarus from the dead,

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it was the first time that He was recorded to cry, you know, and yet He knew the outcome,

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yet He was still brought to tears because of the heaviness of the situation, the grief.

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And as we just remember what the Lord has done for us today, and He paid it all.

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Like we were singing, like, this was it, you know. And so we're going to be taking a look

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in Matthew chapter 27 and reading this account.

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And today's going to be a little different for a Good Friday. We're going to

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have communion together later on, which is not highly unusual. I think we usually do.

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But also, today we're staying longer till 3 p.m., whoever can or wants to.

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There was a few requests made of those who wanted to stay behind and just pray for a while. So

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to commemorate this three hours of darkness before Christ gave up His Spirit,

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it's interesting because the Lord was already telling me, you know, it would be great to have

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a three-hour time together, whoever can be here. And then suddenly someone asked,

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is it okay if we stay and pray till 3 p.m.? And I said, well, there's the answer to that, you know.

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So if you can or want to stay for a while afterwards, you know, again, there's no pressure.

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And we're just going to pray together and, you know, possibly even open up prayers yourself if

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you want to rise up and pray. But it's just a great memorial right now to just remember. In fact,

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one of those songs said, is it good to remember? It is. You know, it really is. I mean, we know

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Sunday's coming. Praise the Lord. You know, we sang a song last Sunday about that.

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That, you know, Good Friday is good because Sunday's coming. You know, it didn't end on

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Good Friday. But as we just remember this time and thank the Lord really for

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just giving it all, giving Himself completely for each and every one of us. Amen. So let's take a

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look at Matthew 27. And, you know, it's interesting as you read through the Gospels, as you know,

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there's different accounts. And the account of Christ crucifixion is no different. It's,

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you know, each Gospel has its own little accents. And we're going to touch on that after this,

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some of the key words that the Lord had said on the cross that are missed in Matthew, but

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thank God they're captured in the other Gospels. And we're going to look at those seven statements

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of Christ on the cross after we're finished reading through this section. So we're going to pray.

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And if you want to put your finger there on Matthew 27, verse 32.

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Yeah, Father God, just

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we just can't thank You enough, Lord. Our whole debt was paid, Lord.

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The heavyweight of sin, Lord God, You paid on the cross. You became that perfect

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sacrifice on the cross. And so, Lord, as we silence whatever that sound is out there,

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in Jesus' name, Lord, we ask You that we could really focus fully on You today and

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really just let Your Spirit communicate with us, Lord God. And may Your death on the cross

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resonate in our hearts, Lord God,

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because this was no small thing that You did. And so, we thank You in Jesus' name, amen.

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So, Matthew 27, verse 32. Now, as they came out, they found a man of Cyrene, Simon by name.

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Him, they compelled to bear his cross, Christ's cross. And when they had come to a place called

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Golgotha, that is to say, place of a skull, they gave him sour wine mingled with gall to drink.

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But when he had tasted it, he would not drink it. And you know, I just want to take, this is

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the only real stop we're going to have right here. But you know, this gall would have been

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like a novocaine, a painkiller. And they're offering him something to take the edge off

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of what he's going through. You know, already he had been beat. Already he had a crown embedded

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into his scalp. And these weren't small thorns. These were deep things that got hammered into

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his scalp. You know, so he was in great, great pain. And they offered him something that would

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take that edge off, you know. And the Lord wanted to feel every aspect of it. Think about that.

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He didn't want this to be an easy thing. You know, your sins, He wanted to feel them in every

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aspect. So he didn't take anything that would alleviate this. I love what Peter says.

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He says, therefore, gird up the loins of your mind, be sober, rest your hope fully upon the

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grace that is to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. And in another place,

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he says, be sober, be vigilant, because your adversary, the devil, walks about like a roaring

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lion seeking whom he may devour. You know, Christ had to be on point during this time. You know,

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he was fully man and fully God. And he needed to say the things that were meant to be said

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and not say anything else, not do anything else. So the last thing he would want to be

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is intoxicated by anything. And so I know I can learn a lot from him through this. If I'm going

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through a trial to try to numb that with something that will make me respond to pain

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in an unrighteous way, the Lord said, no, I'm going to feel this and I'm going to demonstrate

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what it is to go through all of this sober minded and alert. Are you glad of that?

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So let's continue in verse 35. And then they crucified him and divided his garments, casting lots

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that it might be fulfilled, which was spoken by the prophet. They divided my garments among them.

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And for my clothing, they cast lots. And that was quoted in Psalm 22 by David

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in a prophecy, sitting down, they kept watch over him there and they put up over his head

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the accusation written against him. Jesus, this is Jesus, the King of the Jews.

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And verse 38, and then two robbers were crucified with him, one on the right

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and one on the left, again, fulfilling prophecy that he was tortured among the transgressors.

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So he was found among those who were sinners and those who passed by blasphemed him,

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wagging their heads and saying, you who destroy the temple and build it up in three days,

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save yourself. If you are the son of God, come down from the cross. Likewise, the chief priest also

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mocking with the scribes and elders said he saved others himself. He cannot save. If he is the

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King of Israel, let him come down from the cross and we will believe him. He trusted in God,

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let him deliver him now if he will have him. For he said, I am the son of God. And verse 44,

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and when the robbers who were crucified with him reviled him with the same thing, thank God

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that Luke captures one of those criminals who actually repented and cried out to the Lord

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for forgiveness. We're going to see that soon. And verse 45, now from the sixth hour until the

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ninth hour, there was darkness over all the land and about the ninth hour, Jesus cried out with

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a loud voice. By the way, this crucifixion began at six in the morning. And so when it says the

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sixth hour, it was 12 noon. That's why we met here today at 12 noon. And that's why we're

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talking about staying till 3 p.m. because it was a three hour period of time that it was

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darkness on the earth. And about the ninth hour, Jesus cried out with a loud voice saying,

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that is my God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Again, a prophecy of David in Psalm 22.

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And some of those who stood there when they heard that said, this man is calling for Elijah.

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Immediately one of them ran and took a sponge, filled it with sour wine and put it on a reed

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and offered it to him to drink. The rest said, let him alone, let us see if Elijah will come

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to save him. Isn't that interesting? And here Jesus was saving Elijah. Elijah, of course,

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was somewhere in Sheol waiting for his redemption and Christ was about to save him.

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And then behold the veil of the temple, I'm sorry, verse 50. And Jesus cried out again with

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a loud voice and he yielded up his spirit. And then behold, the veil of the temple was torn

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into from top to bottom and the earth quaked and the rocks were split and the graves were open.

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And many bodies, let's stop there, the graves were open. This next part of this verse happens

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after his resurrection. And many bodies of the saints who have fallen asleep were raised and

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coming out of the graves after his resurrection, they went into the holy city and appeared to many.

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So when the centurion and those with him who were guarding Jesus saw the earthquake and the things

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that had happened, they feared greatly saying, truly, this was the Son of God. And many women

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who followed Jesus from Galilee ministering to him were there looking on from afar,

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among whom Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James and Joseph and the mother of Zebedee's sons.

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Amen. I'm going to stop there. And so we see this picture of how Matthew captures many of these

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things. But I think it's always prudent on Good Friday to remember the seven statements recorded

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of what Christ said on the cross. Because I think they're all significant. In fact,

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I think it would be a good idea when we go into prayer, whoever can stay,

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that we can even look at these seven statements and meditate on those and perhaps pray into these

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things. And the things he said was, Father, forgive them for they know not what they do.

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And the mocking, looking upon the people who had just scorched him, who hammered that crown

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into his head, who hammered those nails into his wrists or hands, into his feet or

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lower legs, hammered these things. He's looking at them and he's saying, Father, forgive them.

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Could you imagine? I mean, just in the midst of that pain, he could forgive.

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And you know, it's awesome, you know, the story of

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Stephen when he was stoned to death and in Acts chapter seven, the Lord gave him that word to

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say about those who were killing him with stones. He said, Father, forgive them.

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You know, I know I can learn more of what Christ did on the cross in forgiveness. In fact,

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that's the first ministry he gave the disciples. When he rose from the dead,

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he breathed on them, received the Holy Spirit. And he said, forgive each other's sins.

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Those you forgive, you are released from those you hold on to. In a sense, when we hold on to

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unforgiveness, we are ensnared by our own unforgiveness. And so Jesus said, forgive them.

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And I believe with these two criminals, right? One on either side of Christ,

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when that one criminal heard this and was just watching the demeanor of Jesus Christ on the

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cross, after all of that torture with loving eyes, looking upon the very people who did all this,

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when he heard that, I believe the Spirit of God just grabbed him and shook him. And he realized,

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no, no, no, this man doesn't belong here, remember? And he said to the other criminal,

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he yelled over at him and started rebuking him for mocking Jesus, even though we just read,

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he was also doing it moments earlier. And yet he was, he repented. And he said,

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remember me when your kingdom comes. And Jesus said, truly, I say today,

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truly, I say to you that today you will be with me in paradise. I think that there is the most

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profound promise to mankind, because this guy had no time to fix his life up. He had no time

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to go back and ask for forgiveness to everyone who he had offended, to try to repay whatever reason

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he was hanging on a cross, to say sorry to whoever he may have murdered, to any of that.

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It was too late for all of that. All he could do in the throes of death is receive Jesus Christ.

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And I just want to say, if you're ever with anyone and they're in the throes of death,

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preach the gospel, whether they're in a coma, whether they're alert, whether they respond,

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preach the gospel to receive Jesus Christ. Because in the inner hearing of their heart and mind,

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they can hear, and they can receive, and they can be saved. It's never too late. Isn't that amazing?

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It's never too late. That was the next thing he said. And then as he was still aware of his

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mother there, and this was probably when they were still fairly close up, he saw his mother there.

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And he said, woman, behold your son, meaning John, the disciple John, not John the Baptist,

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the disciple John. Because John was the only recorded male disciple who was standing there

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at the foot of the cross. The others had ran away. And then he said to John, behold your mother.

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You know, in those last moments of life, he cared for those who cared for him,

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and he cared for those who didn't care for him, who killed him. But he made sure that his mother

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was cared for. And in the gospel, John, it says from that moment on, that disciple,

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meaning himself, took Mary into his home. And so John became the caregiver to Mary.

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And then the next thing, and this is when it becomes darkness. This is where we just read,

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darkness came upon the earth in that sixth hour, 12 noon.

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And Jesus cried out, my God, my God, why have you forsaken me? And that again is recorded

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by David in the Psalm 22, 22, 1 actually. And I could not imagine, imagine being David

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and he's saying things. And he felt forsaken at that time from God. And David had a lot of

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reasons to feel that way. I thought I'm going to be king. I'm running, I'm running, hiding in caves,

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hiding for my life from this crazy man, Saul, trying to kill me. And I did nothing wrong.

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My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Little did he know he was speaking prophecy

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that would come 1800 years later, no, not that long, I'm sorry, about,

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yeah, about 1600 years later about Jesus Christ being hanging on the cross. He was speaking,

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not for himself only, but for the future Messiah. He was crying out in this way. But you know,

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you know, we could debate this, but I do not believe Jesus actually thought he was forsaken.

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But he had to feel just like we feel forsaken. He had to feel that because it was dark, right?

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And remember Jesus Christ, you know, his face shines down upon us, you know, when that

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darkness came, you ever remember, you ever notice how things seem awful scary in the

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throes of nighttime. They really do. You're just like, wow, this is everything's worse.

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Jesus knew he said to his disciples, you're all going to scatter, but I'm not alone.

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Because my father is with me. He knew his father was there, but he needed to sense that forsakeness

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on behalf of us when we feel that way. But you know, it's interesting. We don't have the verse,

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but David goes on in the same Psalm 22 that says, you will never turn your face away from those who

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are oppressed and persecuted. So even David realized, I just said that in verse one,

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but I realized it's not true in verse 24 because he never forsakes. In fact, the word says,

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I will never leave you nor forsake you. But Jesus had to feel the separation from his father

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on behalf of us. And then the next thing he said, I thirst. You know, he craved anything to drink.

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You know, crucifixion, the dehydration, they say the tongue just swells up because all the fluids

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have left the body almost. And he can probably, the fact he could still speak is a miracle.

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And he said, I thirst. And they raised up to him a sponge filled with sour wine. And there's

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so many significant things about this sour wine, because it's really a picture of, you know,

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he took what was old and decayed, meaning the law, the things that were

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no longer going to be significant because Christ was fulfilling all the law and he was becoming

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the new wine. Not the sour, the old wine, but he was presenting a new covenant in new wine. And

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so he drank that. And then he said, it is finished. And then he said, father, into your hands,

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I commit my spirit. So wonderful, those words. And so as we think about this, these three hours

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of darkness, I thought it would be a good idea just to look at a few things regarding this,

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regarding that, why was it so important to God to specifically make the earth go dark? And you know,

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there was, there was records around the world of this event. Okay, I'm not going to overplay this

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because, you know, many things become, you know, sometimes people have a tendency of making things

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fit even when they don't. But there were definitely early records of this significant,

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some thought it was like an eclipse. Well, how do you see an eclipse in China when you were also

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seeing it in Jerusalem, right? It can't happen at the same time. There was reports of this

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darkness, but also a great earthquake. So this is, you know, significant, this darkness. But I

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think it's, it's so much more than what it just seems like, because I think it's,

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he's trying to show us something in this darkness. In 1 John 1.5 John says, this is the message which

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we have heard from him and declare to you that God is light and in him is no darkness at all.

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So the Lord brings the light. Suddenly he's bringing the darkness. And I think it's a picture

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of saying, this is what humanity's destiny is apart from me. And I am taking it all upon myself.

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I am taking on all the things that would bring your life darkness and dread and misery. Right

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now it's all on me. All the weight of all humanity's sins were coming upon him. It's almost like,

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like a black hole you've heard in, in space, these black holes, they just suck everything in

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all around them and, and galaxies collapse into this black hole. Jesus Christ was just

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taking in all of humanity's sins from before and forever. He was absorbing all of it, even Elijah.

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He was taking in Elijah's sins and Moses and Abraham's and all of ours. It was all coming

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upon him in that instant of time. So I think it's a picture really of humanity apart from him.

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And he was saying, no, I have this. It's all coming upon me. And also you almost sense that it's like

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a reset button. You know, when God spoke everything in to existence, remember what he first said?

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Let there be light. I love Genesis 1, 1 to 4. In the beginning, God created the heavens and the

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earth was without form and void and darkness was on the face of the deep. And the spirit of God

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was hovering over the face of the waters. And then God said, let there be light. And there was

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light. And God saw the light that it was good. And God divided the light from the darkness.

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In the very beginning, he chose not to expose light into creation until he said, let there be light.

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Now he's saying, let there be darkness because I want everyone to know without me, there is

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no light. He is the light. He is the only light. We cannot see or even have existence apart from him.

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I love this other verse that also resonates about this. John 1, 5 and 9 says,

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and the light shines in the darkness and the darkness did not comprehend it.

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That was the true light, which gives light to every man coming into the world,

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coming into the world like he is the light of all living life.

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Did you ever hear of the zinc spark? So neither did I until a few years ago. But I had heard that

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when a sperm meets the egg and conception, thanks for that word Jill,

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conception happens in that very instant. There's a spark. Now it's not to the visible eye,

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but to highly sophisticated laboratory instruments, they can pick up this spark. It's like a calcium

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that ignites as soon as that sperm enters the egg. And in a sense, it's why all life is a gift from

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God. And we see this that he is the light. And so Jesus is saying, apart from me, there is no light.

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In fact, he even said about himself in John 8, 12, I am the light of the world. Think about that.

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I am the light of the world. He who follows me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light

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of life. So here he is, the light of the world about to go out in the flesh.

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He wanted to garnish this very moment with darkness because he is the only light. Without him,

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there is no light. We have no life or light in us. And this is what he's trying to say is that

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this is a significant period of time right this moment. And isn't it amazing that as soon as he

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said, Father, into your hands, I commit my spirit. And he left that the lights went back on.

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Because that was at that point, 3 p.m. And and there was a light again. And everyone just saw

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like, what? Like, how did that just happen? And the earthquakes and the temple veil was torn from

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top to bottom. And they're hearing all this, like, there's something going on in this city.

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And they were just pierced with recognition that this is a holy moment. There's something

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supernatural way beyond my perception that's happening here. And I'm not sure what it was.

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They were not sure until he rose from the dead. You know, as we, as we, I wouldn't say celebrate

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this day, but in a sense, because we know the outcome. But as we remember this day

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of darkness and these three hours of darkness of what the Lord garnished his crucifixion with.

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I can't help but remember that there was a time in the history of Israel when the Lord was

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bringing the plagues, the ten plagues into Egypt. And you remember what the ninth plague was?

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Thick darkness, darkness. The word says that could be felt. I don't know how you feel darkness,

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but it's so heavy. It's probably just like a heavy dark blanket, but it was dark. It was

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pitch black. They couldn't even see each other, the Egyptians, right? But in the land of Goshen,

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they had light. The land of Israel, they did not experience this darkness. They had pure light.

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And as we think about this, we as light bearers, because Jesus said, you are the light of the

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world. I'm the light of the world. Guess what? You're the light of the world too,

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right? You carry the light of Christ. You know, when we commemorate this day of darkness

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because of what Christ paid for us, we realize this isn't our destiny right here.

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This is how we can build gratitude for what he's done so that when we step into

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Easter or resurrection day, we can be the light to the world. Just as Israel said,

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you know, it's dark. I hear it's pitch black over there in Egypt, but we see one another

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perfectly. You know, we can look from afar and remember this place of darkness where each one of

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would have been had we not received Jesus Christ. If we did not have the light of Jesus Christ in us,

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that is our destiny. Darkness, misery, dread. You know, it's no joke. I mean,

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this is really what it is apart from Jesus Christ. You know, Jesus is the light. I love in Revelation

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21. It actually talks about how in this holy city, there is no lights. You know,

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we have lights here. We have lights out there in the sun. Well, in the time to come,

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the illumination is Jesus himself. Isn't that like what? He is our light. He doesn't need

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fixtures. He doesn't need a body up in the space to be radiating light and warmth to us.

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He is it. Isn't that amazing? You know, he was before all things. He created all things.

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All things were made for him and by him, and he holds all things together. He is the word of God.

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And so what we're going to do now is we're going to do a song of worship. Is that okay? And

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perhaps if you've never received Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, you know,

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what a perfect day to do this. What a perfect day to remember, you know, that is my destiny.

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Darkness. It's a dark destiny apart from Jesus Christ. You have no bright future. I'm sorry to

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say this, and I know it sounds harsh, but Jesus said that wide is the gateway and many go through

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it. The majority of humanity will enter through destruction because narrow is the way Jesus

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Christ. There's only one way. He said, I am the way. I am the truth and I am the life.

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No man comes to the father except through me. He is the door. He is the gate. He is the only way.

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Think about that. He's the only light. He's the only life. It's only Jesus Christ.

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In fact, in the word, it says it's better to be in the house of mourning

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than in a house of celebration because in that place of mourning, we reflect on our lives

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and realize, is my life what it can be? Is my life what it should be?

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Do I know my destiny? Do I know my future? You can.

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But when you're at a funeral, don't you just, I even thought of myself when I was getting

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dressed in a black suit. I'm like, this is,

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this is my funeral because Paul said, I have been crucified with Christ. I no longer live

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for Christ who lives in me. This is, this is my death. I died with Christ and so did you.

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When you receive Jesus Christ, you die with him so that you can live and rise again.

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What a day to receive Jesus Christ.

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Spirit, God, we ask you

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to weigh heavy on us right now with, with perhaps darkness that we can feel if we've,

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if we've never received the light.

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May this be the darkest day of our lives right here, right now.

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Lord, show me how desperate and lost I am right now.

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I don't want to leave here thinking I'm going to be okay if I've never received the light,

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received your life because I'm not.

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Father, God, just show me my days, how limited they are.

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And Father, God, if this is the opportunity to say yes to you and receive the gift of salvation,

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I want to cry out to you now and to say, Lord, give me your life. Today,

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I surrender my life to you to receive yours.

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In Jesus name, amen. If you've, if you've prayed anything like that or still want to,

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you can come up and see me afterwards. But it's something I had to do. And I actually did it

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twice. I prayed at once and I didn't believe it. It took a year to finally be fighting with God

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and surrender. Then I knew when I was a basket case bawling my eyes out saying, oh,

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that's what it feels like when sin leaves the building.

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When the heavy weight, the burden of depravity gets lifted away.

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That could be you today.

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And Lord, we thank you for this precious gift that you've given us, your own self,

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that you came to die for us. He who knew no sin became sin on the cross for us

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so that we can become the righteousness of God. Thank you, Lord, for that.

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Thanks for joining us at Lansdale Life Church as we praise God and discuss His word.

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Don't forget to join us for worship live Sunday mornings at 10 a.m. Eastern on YouTube.

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Be blessed and have a great day!