Judges Study - 2026-10-21

Judges Study - 2026-10-21

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An ongoing study of the book of Judges. This week’s lesson is presented by John Kratz.

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Welcome to the Lansdale Life Church podcast.

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If you're seeking a closer relationship with Jesus Christ, this podcast is for you.

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Thank you for joining us today.

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All right, we had some difficulty with the slide presentation or the PowerPoint,

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and I think we got it ironed out. But if I start to talk about things that you know not of,

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and they're not up there, you'll know that there's a lead and a lag. But I think George

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and Justin got it ironed out. And we are going to be talking about not a new subject,

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the subject of following God, falling away from God, repenting and coming back to God.

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And that chapter goes over and over in the book of Judges. So we'll be at chapter 10 tonight,

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and we're going to be talking about some of the elements. And I'm going to make some

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suppositions that may help you understand why the Israelites were the way they were.

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So we're going to talk about idolatry and the human heart. And everybody knows without God,

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our hearts are dark. So we're going to give you a brief outline where Israel turns from God,

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God disciplines, and Israel cries out for deliverance and comes back.

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So in this brief one-page outline, Tola, which is now a leader, and you know we have no kings,

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and it says that he rises as a Godly judge after Abimelech, and we understand what Abimelech did.

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He tried to make himself king. And Tola judges for about 23 years. And then Jair,

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he leads Israel, and he judges for about 22 years. And he has 30 sons who ride 30 donkeys

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and govern 30 towns. And if you notice this subtlety of what's happening here,

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they are becoming more unified in what they're doing. They're not just a tribal

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gathering together. They are being unified as time goes on, and we'll talk about that.

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So Israel returns to idolatry, and we wonder why that happens. And I think that if some of you

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remember when I was talking about Jacob and his attitudes about who he was and the aspect of

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his noncompliance and the family traditions that he had, and they were arguing and fighting

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and deceiving one another, and we said that that may be part of what was in the lineage of people

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that were the Israelites. And we kind of linked that to the idea of them being rebellious and

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then falling away. So we'll leave that, but we'll develop a new theme along these lines.

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So Israel returns to idolatry. They forsake the Lord. They serve Gods of surrounding nations,

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and they really did do that. And you'll see selectively what they did. And then God

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allows the Philistines and the Amorites to oppress them for about 18 years. And then

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Israel confesses its sin. And how many times have we done that? And we have sinned against you,

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it says, in the Word. And God reminds them how repeatedly he had delivered them again and again

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and again. And they remove foreign Gods and return to serving the Lord. And it says in verse 16,

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and his Saul was grieved for the misery of Israel, meaning God's thoughts about Israel.

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And then Abimelech's, the Ammonites' threat, I'm not going to go into that because that's

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part of another chapter. So what we're going to do is begin to break down some of these things that

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have been ruminating in my mind for quite some time. So Tawla rises, and he judges.

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And here's an interesting contrast with Abimelech, which is Gideon's son. Abimelech judges

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he wanted power. He killed his brothers, as you remember that. He made himself king,

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and he brought destruction to the land. That was early in the wanting of power

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from those that were following God. And then Tawla, which these verses talk about,

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arose to save Israel. He judged Israel for 23 years, then he died. And it doesn't say

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hardly anything about this man. The Bible gives us almost no drama from Tawla, which may actually

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be the point. Think about this. For 23 years, they had peace, and they dwelled in the land.

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Tawla's greatness really may have been what he did not allow to happen, and it was a quiet

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season in Israel to this point. There was no recorded rebellion, no recorded oppression,

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no recorded national crisis, and no attempt to make himself king. And sometimes we think of kings

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like David being the man of valor and the warrior that he was. Here was a man,

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not being said anything. And I looked on a lot of different references,

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even some of the antiquities. And this is about all that was brought forth. But he did bring

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organization. He brought peace to the land. Some scholars call Tawla one of the minor judges

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because the biblical record preserves very few details about his activities. So he may not have

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been great in the eyes of conquering, but he was great in the eyes of bringing stability

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to the people. And not every leader is remembered for a great battle. Some are remembered simply

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because they faithfully led, they preserved order, and they served their generation. And think about

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that with regard to us. We don't seek, at least I would hope not, position in the church.

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If it is given us, we respond, we take our ministries seriously. We give of ourselves to those

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ministries, whatever they may be. And that's the reward in itself. And if there is a reward,

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it's in heaven. That's what space basically is. That's our time to rejoice.

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So here is a man that did what he needed to do to bring 23 years of organized relationship

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between the people and God in the tabernacle and doing the things that were essential.

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And then we have another one, Jair. And he leads Israel for about 22 years. And he has 30 sons,

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and they ride 30 donkeys, and they govern 30 towns. Now think about the expansion of that.

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It doesn't say anything wrong with this, but it's the idea that the governance or the

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organization or the liability of having people just come and go and whatever being

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disorganized is being put down so that they can live a societal life. And it's the beginnings of

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normalcy. Remember when they battled, they tried to take those nations captive, kill them.

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God said destroy them. And obviously they didn't do all that. And they failed.

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But that was the warring time. Now is the time of settlement and organization, as we will see.

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So he appears to have experienced leadership through an extended family network.

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So we have those things that are in an operational way going to present in 22 years

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a system of organization, his son carrying out his edict and his control. And rather than a

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single dramatic military battle, he again was one that brought stability to the land.

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That is important. The nation, if you will, is growing up.

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And then the combination of 30 sons, 30 donkeys, and 30 towns indicates, again,

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a level of wealth, status, and political influence because he had to have some finances to run this

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whole thing with regard to the 30 locations. So riding donkeys as a parenthesis was associated

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with people of rank during this period of time. Usually you walked. Remember Jesus walked from

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town to town to town to town. He only had a donkey when he came into Jerusalem for the last

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time. And the book of Judges repeatedly shows judges accumulating substantial family power

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and money. Gideon, he had 70 sons. You remember the story about that? Abimelech,

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he wanted to be king. He attempts to turn the family connection into a personal kingship.

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And Jair, he has 30 sons connected to 30 towns. Jephthah, he later becomes a regional leader.

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And Samson, of course, is another type of judge that as we get into that, you can see that it

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is a bit different than the normal judge that we had. And remember, in all this time,

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there was no king. Did God want Israel to have a king? Not at all. He established what the priesthood

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was. The priesthood educated. He was part of a doctoring theory. He was part of a teaching

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theory. And all the important issues were supposed to come from the priests as they served.

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But again, eventually we understand that there was a king installed.

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So now we have passed some 23 and 22 is 45, 46 years of stability and organization. And now Israel

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returns to idolatry. Israel forsakes the Lord and they serve the Gods of surrounding nations.

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So God allows the Philistines and the Amorites to oppress them for 18 years. So they had 43,

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45 years good. Now they have 18 years of oppression. Now, Judges 10 gives us evidence

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of this increasing local abundance property that they have. They were given and a broader class

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of regional leaders. So you see they're just not tribal people warring as they were. They're

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beginning to create a society. And Jair's family appears to represent an emerging regional elite

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class. So now you start to see classes and people begin to develop. And a growing class

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of local landowners, clan leaders, and community officials, and all these things that kind of

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lean out of many resources and it kind of begins to paint a picture where we're going.

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And it seems not to show us that Israel is becoming increasingly settled, organized,

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and locally governed rather than simply being a loose collection of tribes. And that was God's

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policy all the way through, except that they withstood his guidance and his leadership.

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So now here's my speculation. And I give you that. I got this from a lot of different sources. I

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want to paint a picture for you. This is some of the reasons why we see them falling away.

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And I want you to apply this to your own life as God deals with you. Israel now has completed

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all the conquering of the Promised Land, is now focused on settlement. And

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you just made settlement on your house there. And just in a quick, the advantage of moving

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to a new house was? Okay. More safe. Bigger house. All right. Okay. All right.

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And you feel good about that, right? Okay. That's good.

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Development. A lot of us that have been in the church have had jobs that develop our own

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businesses. And we move forward. We can get consumed in that if we're not careful.

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And we have the balance between what God is saying to us and what our desires are

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to advance our family, to advance our profession. They built homes, although they did receive a lot

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of homes and vineyards, as the word says. They established permanent towns and communities.

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So this is coming together. They see it. They see the vision. And families were

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cultivating their lands, growing grapes that, you know, you know the stories how big the grapes

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were in the land of milk and honey. They created generational wealth. They traded.

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They not only had cattle. They not only had sheep. They not only had goats. They had commerce

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that they were beginning to relate to one another and also throughout the land that

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they didn't conquer. So in creating that wealth, they increasingly had possessions

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and local leaders were now emerging. Cities, states, towns, and so forth.

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They enjoyed the social, economic, and political structures that enabled them to become more

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settled and comfortable. How many people when they look in their life way back when,

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let's say 20 years ago, feel more comfortable now than you did 20 years ago?

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Okay, so that's natural. Then that should be. But the irony of that is

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they were accommodating their neighbors all the time. Remember, they didn't wipe them out.

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They accommodated them. Now, this is an important irony that you take a look at.

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As Israel's society became more stable, they began drifting away from God who cared for them.

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And that's the issue that we face all the time in our life. The danger was not that Israel was

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becoming established. It was that they were becoming established without remaining faithful

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to God who established them. And that's the lesson for today. We can become more secure

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in our circumstances while becoming less dependent upon God. And I don't know whether you can testify

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to this or not, or even if you want to. But there are different times in my life that I was

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doing the Lord's work and I got sidetracked because of great interests.

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And to me, it was business. And the idea of opening up another aspect of my business. And

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I got sidetracked for a couple years and brought that back. And then, as some of you know,

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because of the business grew so fast and I had some 37 people working for me, things got

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overweighted and I had to declare personal bankruptcy because the leverage was so much

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and the downturn in business caused everything to disappear. So be that as another story.

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But it's the idea that in that experience, I learned simplicity of life and appreciation

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of the things that I had in the Lord. So now my question is to you, as God establishes

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us in our life, how do we keep from gradually learning to live as though we no longer need

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him as much? See, that's the question that we have to ask. Are we comfortable? You know,

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all is good. We have this. We have good jobs. We have good home. And what does that look like to

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you? How do we stop that? How do we come against that? And I'll fall on my face if I don't watch

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myself here with the cords. How do we not get caught up in the comforts? And, you know, we

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know what the United States is. It's the greatest comfort in the entire world.

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You know, yes, we have divisions. And yes, we have issues. But you look at some of the things

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that are going on in Europe. Some of the other issues of life were very fortunate people.

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So how do we combat that? How do you personally combat that idea that, oh, life is good

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and moved into a new home. I'm not putting it on you. I'm glad that you did. You know,

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I got a good job. The Lord blessed me. My kids are following the Lord. Ah, it's all good.

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Yes. Now let's see if I can get there. All right. There you go.

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Oh, okay. No, I think the thing that really helps me is, you know, I have a grateful heart

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that what I have is really, he's given. And at any time it can be taken away. And I mean,

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our government could just wipe us out any time. And, you know, but our God never will.

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He takes care of his own. And my faith is in him. So what are you saying about the possessions

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that you have? They're gifts. They're gifts from him. Okay. And just hold them loosely.

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Yes, that's it. They're not ours. They're gifts. They are. Definitely, definitely.

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And if they leave, so. Hasta la vista.

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All right. Okay, that's good. All right. It's easy to say, Roger, she doesn't pay the bills. You do,

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right? Good. What else? What other thoughts? How do you deal with this?

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I would say in the last 10 years, the Lord has helped me to learn to refocus

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my attention on him and make him a priority in my life. But it's something that I have to work at.

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Yeah. Because it doesn't come naturally. And it's something that I have to pray about and ask for

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help with. And I have to keep getting knocked down in a little bit to remember, you know,

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where I am and where I need to be. Yeah. From a fleshly point of view, the priority is usually

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me. And that's what we have to fight. I mean, that's not an easy thing. Any other thoughts?

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Just recently, though, it just happened with me. Can you take the mics?

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Yes, you do. Okay, I'll do that. Recently, I just discovered that God put it in my heart,

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just like in the past four months, that I had a lot of shoes, a lot of things. And I said

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why do I have all this? And I felt this interest come upon me to get rid of him and give him the

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care and share. And even now, when I look at my closet, I go, I can get rid of more. He's

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taken my heart away from what's in the world. Yeah, that's wonderful to hear. Yeah. When you

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did that, how did you feel? Wonderful. Yeah. And it's funny, years ago, I would have said,

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oh, I'm going to keep these. And then I look back, I go, I look now and I go,

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there's someone who could use them now. Yeah, it's a wonderful feeling.

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Always more in need than ours. Took pictures off the walls and he goes,

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are you doing a major cleaning or what? And I'm like, it's not necessary. Right?

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I'm ready to leave, right? No, that's good. I mean, that's a realization that when you come to it,

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and I find, unlike when I was younger, this, this, this, this, and this, there's not much in life

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other than God that's important. You don't need a new lawn mower every year, right?

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Oh, okay. All right, you get somebody who moves your lawn. Anybody else? Jenny,

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thoughts? No? Okay. Yes. We've been studying the Old Testament and we go through this,

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you'll see that when they cross the Jordan, it's like pile up a bunch of rocks, right? And so when

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you pass by there, tell your kids, yeah, remember. And he established festivals, right? And feasts and

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stuff. And it's to remember. And so I know a guy that does give them 15 every morning. Yes.

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Likewise. Exactly. We do that. So John and I do that. It's given 15 minutes every morning.

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And to me, that's, it's something I do before I even get out of bed. And it's to start my day

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thinking about God, communicating with God. And then I try all day and everything that I'm doing,

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I talk to him. You don't always get answers. He's not like, yeah, do that or don't do that

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or whatever. But I just try and stay in touch with him all day long, try and be in his presence

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all day long and know that nothing I have is mine. I'm just a steward of it. It's all his.

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And he gives us, he wants and it tells me what to do with it. So yeah. That's wonderful.

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I think I'm a little more thick-headed than everyone else. And so what I have to do is,

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um, it's going to sound crazy, but I have to be financially generous because it's easy for me to,

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let's go sound dumb. It's easy for me to give away things that I'm not attached to,

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but I am attached to, you know, money. I am. And it's like, I like buying my things. I like

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going out to dinner. I like doing these things, but you know, it's important to me every month to

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be generous financially somewhere. And it's, it can be challenging, but I force myself to do it.

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So anyway. What blessing have you seen out of that? You've been able to force yourself.

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You know, the, really the blessing is knowing that I'm participating with God in things.

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And that's really what it comes down to is like, even when it's hard, I'm like, wow,

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I know this is something that God would want me to do. And I feel thankful to be able to have

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done it, you know, and, um, yeah. So anyway, it's a little, little hard at the beginning, but,

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I mean, you know, we're battling flesh and, you know, and that's, that's not easy. I mean,

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you know, to, to, to have that old man want to rise up and push him down and ask the Lord to,

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you know, conquer every room in my life and every, you know, in my, in my, the house of my heart.

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That's not particularly easy. So yes. Ron.

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Well, I think I found out that it's not bad to have things because the Lord gives them to us,

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but the problem occurs when we put them things before God. And just the other day, I had to

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give 30 pair of pants away. The good will. I hate it doing it. I mean, I've had these pants for

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30, 40 years. Never wear them. Never wear, never wear them, but I still have about 50 pants.

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Yeah, she motivated me because I would never even work on some other things.

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I think I better get rid of this.

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Well, you know, not that not, not that you should be alone. I have this red Robin shirt

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that I bought 20 years ago. I love this thing. And every time I put it on my wife says, are you

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wearing, you know, it's kind of raggedy around here, but it's like tie worn and it looks nice.

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So I do it every time I'm with another guy, I say, well, what about this shirt? Do you think

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I should get rid of it? No, that's a nice shirt. So I come home and I keep my wife

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informed that so-and-so said that I should keep the shirt. Yeah. Yeah, right. It looks

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good because it's worn. Any other thoughts? Yeah.

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Being a female and being on my own and being in that situation, it's very easy to want to hoard

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and hang on to money for a sense of security. And it's really painful when I'm paying the bills or

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I have to spend money because I'm like, ouch. And, you know, it's like, I don't buy clothes

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often only if I need them and going out to eat is few and far between. And, you know,

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so it's, it's hard for me. And I have to remind myself when I do donate to a charity that

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it is God's money and I didn't get it by myself. Yeah. Now, in looking at your finances and having

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the Lord say, okay, you hear, how do you feel? How do I feel when I give? Better. I feel better

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about myself as a human being. And even when I didn't have an income and was pending disability

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about almost two years, yeah, a year and a half ago or so when I first got on the disability,

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I didn't have an income for six months and was trying for my savings account and still was like,

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it's not mine. Yeah. Yeah. Good. Good. Good. Good. Hey, John, I just had this thought.

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There's a, I think there's a proverb that says, he who lends to the poor, no, he who gives to the

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poor lends to the Lord. And I was thinking about that one day and I'd say, wow, just think about

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that. Every time when you give to the poor, that's like the Lord is saying, Hey, listen,

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Dottie, I gave you so much. Now I need some of it back because I need it over here

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because it's all his anyway. So it doesn't matter because it gets back to you somehow.

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It may not be dollar for dollar. It may be dollar for something else. Yeah. Really, really.

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You just may have a spiritual blessing, not necessarily a financial one.

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That's why I was asking a question. How do you feel? I mean, in that that's even a reward

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when the Lord just speaks to you. Well done. Good and faithful servant. Yeah, really.

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Okay. Okay. So they are in the midst of idolatry. And here are some interesting pieces of evidence

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of Israel slipping into sin as they became more comfortable. And, you know, again, the takeaway

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message is that all this us applies to us. We don't have tents. We have houses. We still have

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food. We still have needs. And all these things are still applicable. So look at the progression

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here. And they should prove to us and demonstrate to us that they didn't maintain the covenant

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separation unto God that God wanted for them. So in Judges one, I'm just going to do a couple

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word review. Israel didn't drive them out. And remember, those of you that have not been here,

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they were asked to what annihilate every individual in the land that they were taking.

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And they did not do that. So there was residents that were already there that they lived with.

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And that's the danger that can be compromised. And they didn't realize that.

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So they didn't accomplish that goal. Judges two, Israel lived among them.

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And if you're not, and if you're equivocal about serving God, living among other people,

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what does that do to the influences in your life begins to draw you to their way of life? Because

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we all want to be wanted. We all want to be friends. We all want to have interesting

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relationships. Judges three, five, and six, Israel intermarried with them. And that was

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one of the big sins that he said that I do not want you. You're not my children. And they started

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to intermarry. And then lastly, in Judges three, Israel served other Gods. And we're going to

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talk about that. They just didn't take one God. They took several, and we'll show you. Israel

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what's that look like? And I'll go over this with you. Israel gradually accumulated, gradually

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accumulated Gods of the surrounding nations, adopting the religious practices of virtually

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every other people around them, not just some, but all of them. Let's look at the various things

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that happened. I know you can't read this, so I'll read it. So number two is they contacted

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with other nations. And they wouldn't have done that if they would have annihilated

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the surrounding people. So they had that contact. So compromise begins instead of removing the

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foreign influences, Israel tolerated and adopted the religious practices of the surrounding nations.

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Now look at all this down here. From Canaan, Baal and Asherah represented storms, rain, fertility,

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and abundance. And those are the things that they needed. Abundance, fertility, rain for their

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lands and for their crops, for their animals. From Aram, they received the rain, agricultural,

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and power of nature. Those Gods they took. So they're getting all these various things. It's

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a hodgepodge of religious reality, I would guess, and ritual. And from Sidon, fertility and healing

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and property and prosperity was part of what they wanted to do. So they took some from them.

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And from Moab, they took national identity and military fortresses. And from Ammon,

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they took national identity and interests. In other words, not spiritual interests. And Felicia,

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they took agriculture, prosperity, and power. They took a little bit from all these different

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nations and assimilated them in. Remember that scripture that we used some longer weeks ago

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God said that these, my chosen people, were worse than the pagan nations. Because they

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took everything, they took a little bit of everything and assimilated all this in.

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So now the question that we ask, what can living among the unsaved do to the Christian ethos?

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That's the thing. Ethos meaning values and character that shape how we live.

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But what can happen? Not necessarily in your life, but what can happen? Can we be influenced?

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Yes. Do you want to say something, Glory? Are you just okay? Just scratching your head. Okay.

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All right. All right. So that influence comes. Now living among the unsaved is not

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automatically weaken us as Christians, but it can create a constant pressure on us.

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You know, like when you have, we lived in one apartment complex before we bought our first

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house and they had block parties there. And you know, well, John and John, why aren't you coming?

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Well, we're going to church. Church? Man, we're having a good time. Come on on after church. Well,

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you know, all of a sudden we realize that we're living a different life,

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you know, in kind of the wrong environment. So it was nice to get our own place.

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The pressure to adapt to values and attitudes and behaviors

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of the surrounding culture that we're in. Anybody ever get caught in that?

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Isaiah, give me example.

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I was expecting call on.

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Pardon. Getting caught in that. I guess, yeah, when I was younger, just, you know,

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hanging out with the wrong crowds and the wrong people, even though knowing deep down in my heart

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that I didn't necessarily share the same values as them, just beginning to compromise my own,

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like, just to get my values, attitudes, and behaviors in my earlier years in life. So that's

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definitely something that I see as dangerous for sure. And then I try to keep alert for now,

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even in the workplace conversation I'm having, working on TV still, you know, trying to watch,

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you know, but just everything affects you. And it all goes into your mind.

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Exactly. And sometimes it can...

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When you talked about hanging with the crowd, did we all, I think, and I won't answer the question

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for you. I'll ask it. Did we want to be accepted? Is that what we were looking for?

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Maybe unconsciously in the, when I was younger, but...

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Part of something?

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Yeah. Not, I don't think consciously though. Just kind of like, just kind of rubbing off on you,

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you know, like foul language, right? Like you hang out with people like, I know my workplace

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curse words fly all day. So it's easy to kind of like slip up and be like,

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start talking like that. So that's an example of that. So not consciously wanting to do it

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to fit in, but just it rubbing off on you, just because you're around it all the time.

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So again, I'm not trying to grill you. When did you realize that you just can't do those things?

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I guess I've always known it. I guess it just came to a point where I had to really...

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Yeah. And by no means am I perfect at that now, right? Because, you know,

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but it's difficult. You just got to be, you have to have discernment and be mindful of your

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surroundings. And I try to explain this to people too, just like you said about

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hanging out with people in the environments, but they see it as though I'm coming off as

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better than. Yes.

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But when really I'm trying to communicate to them that it's about rubbing off on you

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and making you compromise in your values. So I don't know. So I stopped trying to explain it.

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You know, when we got married,

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my wife, bless her heart. She's such an innocent person. I just love her to death.

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We got talking about this one time. I said, the next time that we may happen,

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I forget the word. We may play switcheroo. She says, what's that? I said, well,

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if you would go to bed with somebody else and meet with somebody else, I mean,

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that's what people do. I mean, you know, that's a lot of what in my growing up,

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they had block parties. And then you ended up sleeping with a different person,

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which was neat. And, you know, we never accepted that, but was the idea of my wife. She said,

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I didn't even, I can't even understand all that, you know, and it's interesting to see.

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Now she's a preacher's kid, so you can take understanding on that. All right. Yes, Roger.

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Now you're not going to tell us any bad stories, are you?

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I won't tell you the stories, but I remember as a teenager, there's a lot of times I didn't know

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what was right. And other older kids or even kids my age that were very positive in certain things,

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I accepted their guidance because I wasn't getting it from anywhere else.

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So when you're talking about living among the unsaved, particularly the children are vulnerable,

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unless the parents are very strong in, you know, indoctrinating them. And in my situation,

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that wasn't so. So I did a lot of foolish things.

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So you didn't have a Godly environment?

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That's right. I mean, I went to church, but it wasn't that. Actually, that was,

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even among some of the men going to church, it was kind of a joke.

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Did you have a Godly environment, parents?

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Okay. Well, grandmothers do. Man, they're on their knees for their grandkids. Yeah, good.

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But to his point, yes, that can be tough as well. So with my son, really, I guess for me,

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it's a balance of letting him kind of make his mistakes. But yeah, right. Don't get crazy,

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everybody. But yeah, within reason, but also at the same time, as far as who he's around,

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not necessarily being like, well, those kids are bad. More, I try to focus on telling him,

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life is full of choices. And there's consequences for your choices. So if you're hanging out with

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these people, and they get in trouble, by default, you're in with them. You know what I mean? So I

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just try to really explain that to them. And it's a mix.

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I got to say something, don't say too much. Okay, that's right. I grew up in a rough situation.

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Let's just say that. And then I met her and I said, let's go out. And she's looking good.

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I said, take you out. We'll go nightclub it. She don't drink. You don't smoke, you don't drink.

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What do you do? I run Bible studies. Well, now you got me, because I don't know what you're

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talking about. I had no idea. So, you know, bingo. Now she's the boss and I'm the slave

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husband. That's what it comes down to. Yes, ma'am. But you know, when it comes down to also,

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when you say where people draw you in, I felt recently in the past couple of years where God

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is isolating me to get to know him more. And yeah, and the people around me, there's no friends.

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And I'm even finding that being with family, they're unsaved. There's a slightest taste,

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not a love. There's love there, but a distaste of where the isolation of spending time with God

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is greater than everything else. Yeah, it's different. And so when we go home at night

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or on the weekends where people are having fun, I'm reading the Bible. So it's…

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That's a safe place to be. Yeah. Good, good, good. All right.

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So they are being annihilated by all these various things. And the DNA that we had talked about way

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back with Jacob, the idea of living in a comfortable land begins to let us understand what decisions

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they decided to make. So now, how does all these things or how do all these things

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affect our Christian ethos? All right. It desensitizes us as we begin to be amongst

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the things we've been talking about. What once seemed sinful can now gradually begin to seem

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normal. That's so bad. I mean, they're good people. You know, and it is an 80% good,

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a 20% bad, and so forth. We can diagnose that, but we'll go on. We compromise our convictions.

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You know, if we write our convictions down today, will they look like these convictions

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two years from now? If you look back maybe in your life 10 years and you had convictions

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compared to what your convictions are now, we'll see a difference because all of you're here on

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Wednesday night and you're not in the nightclub. So, you know, there are convictions that have

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developed over the last 10 or 20 years that bring a desire for you to find God, like you said,

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rather than fit in and be part of the gang. We can distort our priorities.

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Well, you know, I used to go to Wednesday night, you know, John, he's boring and, you know,

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he doesn't have PowerPoint anymore. We almost didn't have PowerPoint tonight, by the way.

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You know, it wasn't working. And I keep telling the guys in the back,

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if you take my computer away, I can't talk. You know, I've got nothing to say.

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At 702, I would have given you a benediction and you've all gone home.

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So, we distort our priorities by material success, pleasure, status,

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and self becomes increasingly important. Gail covered that.

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Influence our speech and behavior. Isaiah, you talked about that.

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Worldly attitudes can slowly replace Christian-like character. And then we normalize our sin.

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Oh, it's not so bad. I still love the Lord. Repeated exposure can reduce our sense

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of its seriousness. These things are serious. Think about this. They were told,

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you're a nation by yourself, and here they go out and marry across the way, across the land,

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unsaved, not Israelis. They create spiritual drift within us. And this is a subtlety, drifting.

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You ever see us pond and a small stream and things come in, leaves float down slowly.

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It can begin to happen. Without intentional fellowship with God and other believers,

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faith can become passive. I mean, think about the people that you know

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that go to church that are satisfied being there because of the liturgy.

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Oh, you know, the cross, nothing wrong with it. But there you see, I mean, that's not what we

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worship. We worship the cross. We're cognizant of what it is, what it has done for us,

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but we worship the living Jesus. And all the robes and all the songs, you know, like I had told you,

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I had ministered a few times in the ecumenical church at Meadowood. And boy, I tell you,

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I went in there and what was interesting, I'll say a quick aside. And the pastor always stands

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up here. Well, I came around the mic and the microphone like this, and people's eyes are like,

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oh, what are you doing? You know, it's different. So I walked up and down the aisle a couple of

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times and said, okay, I got their attention now. So, you know, it's just what you're used to and

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what you think is spiritual, I would guess. These can become very passive things. And then

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we weaken our witness. Well, look at you. You're a Christian. You do these things. What's wrong

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with me? When Christians begin looking and living like everyone else, their distinctiveness is

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diminished. It's what we do, what we say. My middle son, he and I had various disagreements

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in life to the point in time when he was about 17, I had to tell him to leave home

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because he just didn't... That was a story for another day. But after he came back to the Lord,

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I said, Jared, I said, you know, what did you learn when you were growing up? He said,

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I didn't learn anything. I didn't listen to what you said. I just watched you.

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I looked at you, how you conducted yourself to mom and to other people and to people in the church.

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And so if he is a witness of what people do, they look at your life.

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They hear the words, but they look at your life. Okay. Now, let me give you the other

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side of the story. There's another side to this now. And we're equating what happened to Israel,

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could happen to us. Jesus did not call his followers to withdraw from unbelievers

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as he himself fellowshiped with the unsaved. He called us to live among them without becoming

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like them. And that's important. Matthew 5.14, you are the light of the world.

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Jesus did not ask the father to remove his followers from society. He asked that they

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would be protected. And the verse for that is John 17.15, I pray not that you should be taken

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out of the world, but that you should keep them from evil. In other words, our position is here

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in the concourse of life. And so the question that we ask is, so if Israel could not live

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among the pagans without falling away, what makes us so different in that we are called to

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influence our surroundings? How can we do that today when they couldn't do that

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thousands of years ago?

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Well, the real difference obviously is the Holy Spirit within us,

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because we couldn't do it any more than they could without his help. We couldn't change

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anything that we, any of our behaviors, any of our thought processes,

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none of that would change if it weren't for the Holy Spirit within us.

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You mean self-help books aren't right? Oh my gosh. When this came out, I said,

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and I read a couple of them and I said, oh my word, you know, you could do this and,

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you know, think positive. I said, oh my gosh, where's all this going? Any other thoughts?

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All right. Yeah, go ahead. Another side to that is not only is it the Holy Spirit within us,

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but we have to stay yielded to him or he can't do that work. We have to yield ourselves to him.

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And with yielding comes humility.

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You know, this is hidden close to home because I walked here, you know, with the Smalls,

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you know, I met them in the alleyway and about a block over the church that's been defiled and

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turned into a Hindu temple. They're romping and stomping and beating drums. And

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yes, at first I was like, oh boy, where's the party? And then I thought, whoa,

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wait a minute, this isn't good. So, I mean, you know, I was like, blood of Jesus,

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poor fire on him. And I'm like, no, maybe just get them out of here.

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Or if they were pan, you know, I was like, I prayed out loud, blood of Jesus, you know.

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Come against the adversaries.

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Yeah. Yeah. Well, I was walking and we really need to pray because this shouldn't be in our town.

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It shouldn't be. It really shouldn't be. However, this is the mission field that God called us to.

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So, we will labor on to do those things that God puts on our heart to do to influence the

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hearts of men. All right. The danger of living among the unsaved is not that we will be around

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them, but it is that without guarding our hearts, and this comes back to what a couple of you said,

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we can gradually become like them. And this is the tension that we all live in

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as we live for Christ. Close enough to reach them, but different enough to show them Christ.

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That's what our message is. So, let's take a look at some issues that will help us.

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The question then becomes, how do we guard our hearts? What can we do? It's not self-help. Like

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you said, it's the Holy Spirit. We must intentionally protect what shapes our thoughts,

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desires, convictions, attitudes, and actions so that the world does not slowly replace God's

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truth in us. Proverbs 4, 23, above all else, guard your hearts. So, what's that look like?

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We're going to talk about that. For everything that you do flows from it. Guarding what we take in,

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what we listen to. Being discerning about what we watch. There's the TV thing.

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Yeah, I know. You raised your hand. We'll see you at the altar later. No, I'm just kidding.

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What we listen to, what we read, and what we allow to influence us. What are those things?

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They're subtleties. And then guarding what we believe. Measuring the ideas and cultural messages

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against the scripture, because that's the basis of understanding, rather than automatically

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accepting, like Roger said, he just accepted his friends and their guidance. He didn't have

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any spiritual input. Roger, you turned out pretty good. Guarding our desires. Boy, this is one

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that I deal with. Recognizing when something is pulling our hearts away from God. What are

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your interests? That was funny, anecdotally. I've always had a garden over at Meadowood.

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You raise vegetables, do all those things, and there's a camaraderie with people there.

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It's a beautiful place. I mean, it's the most manicured place I've ever seen for a garden.

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And you get a plot. It's four feet by 20, and I had two of them. Then I downsized. So,

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this year I thought, you know, Lord, I can't fit all that in anymore. And then I just talked

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with somebody in our prayer meeting this morning. He said, oh, you're going to give up all your

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berries and all your fruits and things. I said, yeah, I said, Bob, I said, I just can't do it.

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I said, you know, it doesn't interest me like it used to. So, one of those things you kind of,

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okay, well, let's put that aside and move forward. Guarding our relationships. Choosing

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close relationships that strengthen us rather than erode our faith. And, you know, when I,

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and some of you know that I was a car guy, and I had friends in the car industry,

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in the car clubs, and so forth. And, you know, we used to get together, and everybody was drinking

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beer. And, of course, I didn't drink beer, but I was part of just being there when we had our

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club meetings and so forth. And, you know, when I finally gave that up after I moved to Meadowwood,

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it was like, oh, okay, that's not so bad. I can do this. So, you know, you don't want those

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things to erode your faith. Guarding our speech, refusing to let attitudes and language around us,

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and Isaiah covered that, to become our own. And then, guarding our priorities. What's important?

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And I will confess the older you get, there's only one important thing that's

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being with the Lord. In His presence, no less. Continually asking, is Christ still first in

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my life? Then guarding against compromise, recognizing that small compromises can gradually

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reshape our convictions, unfortunately. And then the last one, guarding comes through prayer

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and Scripture, regularly allowing God's Word to correct, renew, and strengthen each one of us.

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And I will wait until Kiel gets her picture. Okay. And then the last thing is here, and

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it's almost time, so I'll get to the bottom red. And His soul, meaning God's soul was grieved for

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the misery of Israel. As much as He told them what their sins were, and He disliked them,

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He grieved for them. And look at what it says here. The statement reveals something about God's

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heart toward people that have repeatedly turned away from Him. And think of the things, the people

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that we pray for. I mean, if you multiply the number of people and the number of people here

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that we pray for, must be hundreds, maybe a couple of thousand people. That is, we spend time with

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the Lord interceding for them. Again, His statement is important. The point is not that

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God has a human soul, and exactly the same we do, but it communicates something much more

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personal. Israel's suffering affected Him. Their misery mattered to Him, as we pray for those that

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are slidden away, those that don't know the Lord. God's mercy is there, and He wants everyone

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to come to Him. His soul was grieved. The even stronger words may imply. The English standard

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version reads, His soul could no longer endure the misery of Israel. The new international version

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says He could no longer bear Israel's misery. And the new American standard Bible says His soul

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could no longer tolerate the misery of Israel. So we understand that as we make decisions that

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are not in the best interest of ourself and our relationship with the Lord, He labors over

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these things. He feels bad for us. It's not that He is the Almighty God with no love in His heart.

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He loves so much. Yes, Gail. In the last year, I realized that this goes without saying that

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God's holy, and He can't abide sin. However, one of the reasons that He hates sin is because

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it separates us from Him. That's why He hates it, because He wants to have that relationship,

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and we in our sin keep us from having that. Why did He make the creation come about? He wanted

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children. He wanted relationship. He wanted a kingdom that would glorify Him. All right.

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Tonight's take away three things to remember. The prosperity can create a false sense of

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independence, and it is a false sense. Our financial security, influence, and comfort,

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as it increases, we can gradually begin trusting in our own resources and our abilities. Number two,

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what we tolerate around us could eventually influence what we believe within us. Israel moved

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from living among the foreign nations to adopting their practices and worshiping their Gods and

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marrying their daughters. What a tragedy. And last, even when God's people turn away,

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God still cares about our sufferings. Judges 10, 16 says it all. He tells us that God was

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grieved by Israel's misery. His response reveals that His dealings with His people involve both His

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opposition to sin, first of all. We got that. And His deep concern for their suffering.

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So Lord, we ask tonight that as we close, it is a sober word to think about your people

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and how they failed. But Lord, more than that, we want to see in our relationship

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giving you joy because we are followers of you, bending our knee, giving ourselves to you,

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that you can declare to each one of us that well done, the good and faithful servant.

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And Father, we thank you for the desire in our hearts and all these things that have been

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expressed tonight through the people that you love, that they love you, that they've given up,

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not that they're now worthy because we don't work on works of righteousness.

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But they've given up things, Lord, because they want you, they want your presence,

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just to be abiding with us in the things that we do. Being with us during the day like Ken says,

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talking to Him, conversing, being blessed, interceding for people that come to our mind.

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Lord, we thank you for the diligence that we have in you, because you have given us that.

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And so we pray these things in your name. Bless each one here tonight in Jesus' name.

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And everyone said, amen. All right.

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