Sunday Service - 2026-03-22

Sunday Service - 2026-03-22

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Finding The Savior In Suffering
Pastor Chris Bonner

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Welcome to the Lansdale Life Church podcast.

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If you're seeking a closer relationship with Jesus Christ, this podcast is for you.

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Thank you for joining us today.

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So today, you know, as you know, we're gearing up for Easter, I like to call it Resurrection Day.

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And we finished the last book of Hebrews a few weeks ago.

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And rather than starting a new book leading up to Passion Week and Resurrection,

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we've been doing topical studies for a few weeks.

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So don't get alarmed, we're going to stick verse by verse as we always do.

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In fact, you can start preparing, we're going to get into the book of Acts after Resurrection Day,

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so you can be reading ahead.

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And that's actually the book that we started with at this church.

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We did a brief study of Ephesians chapter 6 in terms of spiritual warfare,

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and then we got into the book of Acts because we really want to have that pioneering spirit,

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you know, that apostolic attitude really towards bringing the gospel everywhere.

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And so we're going to be studying that so you can read ahead.

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I think we've probably gone through every book of the New Testament at this point,

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so we're starting back where we began.

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So you can be reading ahead.

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But today, we're going to talk about finding the Savior in our suffering.

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And what prompted this really is, you know,

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I know many people have been going through a thing or two in this life, you know,

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challenges, difficulties, losses, and so forth.

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And it's so important for us to realize that nothing happens under the sun that the Lord is not aware of.

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And He wants to take part in the suffering of man to bring us closer to Him.

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He wants to meet us in our suffering. Amen.

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In fact, Peter says that humble yourself beneath the mighty hand of the Lord

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and He will lift you up in due time.

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Cast all your cares upon Him.

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How does it end?

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For He cares for you.

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Do you believe that?

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Like He cares.

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No matter what you're going through, He cares about the things that you are going through.

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And He wants to lead you through it.

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I love those songs we were singing about the fire meeting us in the fire.

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Sometimes we go through storms, we go through fires,

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whatever analogy or metaphor you want to attach to it, we go through stuff.

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And yet the Lord wants to meet us in those things so that we can be drawn closer to Him.

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So this is after Palm Sunday begins what we call Passion Week, right?

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And Passion Week actually, you think Passion like love.

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Well, He did go through all that because He loves us.

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But Passion actually comes from the Latin word passio, which actually means suffering.

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So we are approaching the week of suffering for the Lord, this Holy Week.

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And so we can prepare.

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And as I was thinking about this, I was thinking about how, you know,

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again, each of us are going through things.

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But the Lord was going through all the normal stuff we do

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and He knew what was facing Him in Jerusalem.

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And in fact, through His ministry, maybe after about a year and a half,

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He started speaking to His disciples, warning them of what was going to happen.

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In fact, we read this in Mark chapter 8 verse 31.

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And He began to teach them that the Son of Man must suffer many things

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and be rejected by the elders and chief priests and scribes

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and be killed and after three days rise again.

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And that wasn't the first time. He reiterated that several times.

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Many times after something great just happened, like feeding the 5,000

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or the amount of transfiguration, all these things He would say,

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well, yeah, let's not get carried away with what's happening here

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because there's going to be some suffering that's in store.

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And, you know, all of us go through suffering in this world.

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I think it's important really to recognize that.

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But, you know, even before this last week coming up for Jesus,

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He had already gone through a lot of suffering,

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normal suffering like we go through.

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And one thing I was thinking about is His Father Joseph.

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I'm sure you've thought about this before.

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His earthly father, His guardian, if you want to call it that.

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You know, we read about Him up till the age of 12

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that Joseph was part of His life.

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But after that, we don't read about Him anymore

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because He just is not mentioned.

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In fact, many times when He was in His own hometown,

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I think we have that slide of Mark chapter 6

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where He was speaking and they were probably,

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they were very enamored with the way He spoke

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and He did miracles there.

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Not many, not as many as He could have,

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but because of their unbelief.

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But they said, is this not the carpenter, the son of Mary,

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the brother of James, Joseph, Judas, and Simon

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are not His sisters here with us?

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And so they were offended at Him.

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But notice, they don't mention Joseph.

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So probably most theologians believe that Jesus lost His Father

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and Joseph was a just man.

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I believe probably He passed away.

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You know, in fact, we see this again and again

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where He's not mentioned in Scriptures.

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And as you know, at the cross,

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Jesus being the oldest son would have been the guardian

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of His mother, the widow.

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And so at the cross when He was dying,

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He said to His disciple John,

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He said, behold your mother and woman, behold your son.

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So we see this, that He was giving responsibility

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over to John as opposed to His half brothers

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because they were not yet believers.

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So we see this picture.

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And you know, this resonates in me because I lost my father.

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I've shared this before.

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Many of you might know this.

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But when I was 20, I was up at Penn State,

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got the phone call, and, you know, Dad died, you know,

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in a car accident.

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So it was very, like, abrupt.

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And I just remember being in shock.

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And it's a life changer, it really is.

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You know, when you lose someone that close

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and you're young, so you don't even have to process all that.

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And it's a life changer.

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You really grow up fast.

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So Jesus went through that, okay?

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But He didn't just go through that.

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He also went through His cousin John the Baptist

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being beheaded in prison.

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You know, He was very close with John the Baptist.

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John the Baptist was His herald, His right-hand man

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pointing everyone, look, behold the Lamb of God

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who takes away the sins of the world.

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He was out there ushering in the Messiah, right?

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And so they were, they, He was, He loved John the Baptist.

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And at one point, as you know,

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John the Baptist sent a message to him,

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John were waiting for us or someone else.

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And that was all because he was probably struggling

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with his predicament in prison.

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So then the word says when Jesus heard

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that John the Baptist was beheaded,

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He had to just get away from the crowds

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and just like process this, you know?

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I mean, Jesus knew earthly suffering,

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the same kind of suffering that you and I go through

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or others in the world.

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He went through that too.

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And His disciples, you know, He was close with them

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and everything.

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And yet He realized, I'm leaving them behind.

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You know, He kept preparing them,

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but still they were His friends.

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And yet He had to leave them behind.

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Even when He went to His hometown Nazareth,

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as I mentioned before, and He was teaching,

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they're like, wait a minute, we know this kid.

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He's that kid that used to play with the yo-yo.

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No, I don't know if there was yo-yos back then.

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He was always building stuff.

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Maybe we can surmise, right?

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But He was that kid, like, how is He suddenly this guy

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that knows all this stuff and doing these mirroring, right?

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And they were so offended at Him,

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they chased Him out of the tent,

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almost pushed Him off a cliff to kill Him.

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You know, do you think that would weigh on your spirit

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if you were Jesus?

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Like, you're looking across from a guy

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who you helped fix his front door.

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I don't know, I'm conjecturing a bit, I know.

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But, you know, it's like this guy, I know,

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and he's ready to kill me,

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because he doesn't like what I'm saying and doing.

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Like, that's some weighty stuff.

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I never had someone hate me that much.

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Maybe there's been people close to it,

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but not that much, that they throw me off of a cliff.

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I mean, He had to go through a lot of things, didn't He?

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And then Judas, you know,

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a man that He trusted with the treasury, you know,

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and He knew He was stealing.

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He knew who would betray Him.

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And He knew about Judas, what He was going to do.

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And yet He was giving them time and time again

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opportunities to receive His love.

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And at the Last Supper, it says that He was just,

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like, vexed in His spirit.

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He was just so, like, weighed down.

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Like, one of you that are sitting here right now

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are going to betray me.

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Like, it was, that would have been tough, wouldn't it have?

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I mean, I'm sure you've been betrayed through your lifetime,

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but you probably still remember it.

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I mean, it leaves a scar sometimes, you know?

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He went through that too.

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So, yeah, He was about to go through the greatest of all suffering,

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dying on the cross for our sins,

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but He went through a lot of things.

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And the reason I bring this up is because

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Jesus is aware of all of our sufferings.

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I love what Isaiah predicted about Him in Isaiah 53.

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If you could put that slide up, Pat.

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It says that He was despised.

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I'm using the New Living Translation for a reason

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because it just has more comfortable language.

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I usually don't study with that, but

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He was despised and rejected,

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a man of sorrows acquainted with the deepest grief.

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We turned our backs on Him and looked the other way.

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He was despised and we did not care.

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Yet it was our weaknesses He carried.

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It was our sorrows that weighed Him down.

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And we thought His troubles were a punishment from God,

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a punishment for His own sins.

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But He was pierced for our rebellion,

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crushed for our sins.

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He was beaten so we could be whole.

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He was whipped so we could be healed.

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He went through the scourging,

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but He also went through all the other aspects of emotions

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because He wanted to resonate with us.

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He wanted to be able to show us what it looks like

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to go through these things.

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I also love in Hebrews how it talks about

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we have a high priest that didn't have sin, okay?

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But He had no sin and yet He still reconciled

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all of these sufferings in ours in Hebrews 4, 15 and 16

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where it says that we have the high priest,

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if you have that slide,

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for we do not have a high priest

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who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses

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but was in all points tempted.

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And by the way, that tempted doesn't mean He was enticed to do it.

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It means He was tested, okay?

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In fact, we learn that, you know,

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that God can't be tempted by anything

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and He doesn't tempt us either, right?

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So it's the fact that He was being tested as we are.

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Yet without sin, let us therefore come boldly

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to the throne of grace that we may obtain mercy

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and find grace to help in time of need.

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You see, He gets us.

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You know that commercial they show at the Super Bowl,

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He gets us.

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I don't love the commercials themselves.

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But the message is He does get us.

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The question is, do we get Him?

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Okay, He does get us.

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But we got to get Him.

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And He makes Himself very available to all of us.

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I was talking to my family member,

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a good friend actually,

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and we met up for lunch.

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And while we were talking, I brought up this guy,

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he brought this guy up that we both know.

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And he actually was part of my journey

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going into teaching the Bible

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because he was in charge of the 5th and 6th grade ministry

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over in our old church.

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And I signed up, I think probably because my son Jesse was in that class.

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Were you in that class then?

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Maybe, I don't know.

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What's that?

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The 5th and 6th.

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I don't know.

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We're having a conversation which we shouldn't have.

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I'll tell you later or you could tell me later.

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So, I got an opportunity just to help out in 5th and 6th grade.

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And I really struck it.

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You know, a real good camaraderie with the leader of that ministry

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was pretty big actually.

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But one thing I noticed,

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so often we would get into these conversations

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and I could just tell he was struggling with doubt.

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And here he was teaching, right?

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He was struggling with doubt.

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And we always got into the man on the island conversations

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and you know what I'm talking about.

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He's like roundabout that never have an end.

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And I'm like, so as he's talking about all these things,

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he eventually left the church, okay?

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And he drifted around with his family.

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And over time, I just heard that he was drinking a lot.

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He just was not even really plugged into a church.

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You know, wasn't really zealous about his faith.

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And so I talked to my family member.

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I said, whatever happened to him?

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Well, you know, some things like, you know,

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his cousin got ALS and still like just hanging on to life

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and just it really wrecked his life.

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And his father got dementia and then went home with the Lord.

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He was a believer who went home with the Lord.

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So these things are weighing on him

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and he just kind of wandered away.

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And I was thinking about this.

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I'm thinking, how could you wander?

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Now, this is me.

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I'm not judging a person.

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Well, I guess I kind of am,

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but why wander away when trials happen?

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I don't know about you, but trials push me into God.

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You know, they really do.

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They draw me into God.

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They don't draw me away.

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I think every trial you can make a choice.

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Is this going to draw me to God or draw me away from God?

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Because being drawn away from God is foolish

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because you get no answers away from God.

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You get no direction away from God.

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In fact, you're probably going to make things worse

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if you're not getting answers from God.

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And yet this is what he did.

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And he just drifted away.

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And now he's shipwrecked in his faith.

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You know, and I don't know what's going to become of him,

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but it's really, we need to be drawn into God, don't we?

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And trials and suffering, they're going to happen to all of us,

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but we have to get drawn in.

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Last week, before the service,

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we were in the prayer room talking.

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It's amazing how so many things get said and read and so forth in there

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that just really build community.

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You're welcome, by the way.

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I mean, I think we can't all fit,

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but we could try in the prayer room before the service at 9.30.

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But I was talking with Paula and Gail,

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and we were just talking about suffering and the value of it.

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And I know if you're like me, I don't like suffering,

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but you get an opportunity to meet God in a fresh way

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when you go through sufferings, don't you?

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Because he meets you there,

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and when all of your identity is stripped away

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in these other responsibilities, these other roles,

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suddenly you're left with Jesus.

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And he's there with you saying,

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okay, I'm right here with you.

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This is, I'm who you need.

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This is it right now.

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It's you and me.

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And what are we going to do?

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You get to meet Jesus in such a tender and intimate way

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in the midst of suffering, don't you?

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I don't know if, does that resonate with any of you?

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Have you ever been there where you just said,

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man, I just, I needed to be at my lowest point

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to realize that he's here.

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He's still with me.

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Like everyone else can wander away,

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but he's still here with me,

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and he's going to carry me through whatever is happening.

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He's with me.

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That's such confidence that all of a sudden,

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he says, you know, we're good here together

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and just hang on here,

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but when it's time, I'll show you the way out.

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I'll show you the way out.

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No temptation to seize you, which is uncommon to man,

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but God will always provide an escape.

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He's always there to show you the way out.

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I love what Jesus said at the Last Supper.

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He's with his disciples, and he keeps preparing them.

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Like, things are going to be different.

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Oh, we understand, Jesus.

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No, you don't.

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They're going to be a lot different.

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Yeah, I get it.

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No, you don't, right?

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And he keeps warning them.

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And then he says this in John 1633,

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he says, these things I have spoken to,

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that in me, you may have peace.

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In the world, you will have tribulation,

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but be of good cheer.

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I have overcome the world.

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This word tribulation, now, if I was reading this,

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I would think, now, Jesus is warning his disciples,

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when I leave, there is going to be

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all kinds of persecution.

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You're going to be martyred for your faith.

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Like, I would think this is his main point here.

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But you know, that word for tribulation,

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philepsis, is actually a word that covers

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all kinds of suffering,

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not just the suffering of persecution.

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In fact, that's usually a different word, diagmas,

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and it really means just that.

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You are being persecuted because of sharing the gospel.

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But in this case, he's going,

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you're going to have all kinds of troubles, like everybody does.

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But in me, you will find peace.

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In me.

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You know, it is important that we make a distinction, right,

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between suffering because of persecution, diagmas, okay?

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And suffering because it's common suffering for all humanity, okay?

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There is a difference, but the result is in both,

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or either we can still glorify Jesus in the midst of it, right?

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It's kind of like if you were fired from your job, okay,

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for sharing the gospel with people and work,

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and the boss said, yeah, we don't do that around here,

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yet you just did it again, you're out, okay?

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That could be seen as persecution, right?

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And yet, if you're laid off,

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because they don't have the work, okay?

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That's not persecution, but you could still share the gospel

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and the fact that you lost your job.

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You know what, boss?

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God will show me something else.

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I'll get something better.

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I believe that.

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You don't have to worry about me.

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I'll be fine because, you know, the Lord provides all my needs

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according to his riches and glory.

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I think I just heard that this morning, didn't I?

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Dan, did you share that?

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Good work, buddy.

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But really, you know, I mean,

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we could still be sharing Jesus in suffering of any kind,

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whether it be persecution, diagmas,

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or whether it be fallipsis over here

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in just everyday, normal, common suffering.

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But I think sometimes we forget I'm in this for a reason.

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God allowed this to happen for a reason.

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What's the reason?

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To glorify Jesus.

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To allow Jesus to rise up in me in this situation

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and be glorified.

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So I don't have to fret or worry or struggle

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because he's in this and he will prevail.

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Take heart for I have overcome the world.

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He will overcome in the midst of whatever the suffering,

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the fallipsis you're going through.

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This word fallipsis is used for childbirth, you know?

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We have so many babies being born in this place.

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Praise the Lord, okay?

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But I'll bet you the one thing you didn't have to go through

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is the actual birth of the child, right?

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I'm convinced if men had to do that,

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there would be no children.

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I know we would be childless right now

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if wimpy me had to do that, okay?

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Thank God the Lord knew, okay?

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Who was really the stronger vessel?

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But no, that's anti-biblical, so let's get back on track.

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But anyway, you know what I'm saying?

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Like really, it's suffering that's labeled with relational disputes

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with just trials of situations happening.

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It's tribulation, fallipsis is actually discussed

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when Paul had to confront the Corinthians for their sin in the church.

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He said, you know, I was so sad about that.

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That was fallipsis.

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You know, I was suffering because I didn't want to do that.

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Don't you hate confronting people in their sins?

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Because you're thinking, I probably have two logs in my eye.

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Let me see where I can get these out.

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Where's a mirror, you know?

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Because you're always thinking I'm probably at least that bad, right?

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But really, sometimes we just need to do it.

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But it's still a heavy thing that we have to go through.

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And even fallipsis is even used for, you know, the suffering of sin,

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of unbelievers even, you know.

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I'll never forget when I was a youth pastor

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and this one youth kid, he was living with his mother

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and his father, unfortunately, was addicted to,

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it's not heroin, it's fentanyl or whatever it is now,

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tranq or whatever it's called.

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So he was living right near the supply

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and his son was so sad, you know, that he couldn't live with his father

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and his father seemed like such a nice guy and everything.

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But I'll never forget having this meeting with grandmom, grandson and dad

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and just talking about, you know, what's going on here

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because he was acting up in school.

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He was acting up with his grandmom.

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I mean, you can imagine, right?

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He's not living with any of his parents.

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And so as we were talking through all this, I'll just never forget, you know.

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The dad said to his son, you know,

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I don't know why God's putting me through this,

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why God's causing me to suffer, you know.

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That doesn't fit any theology, okay.

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And we work, talk through all that.

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But, you know, it's the suffering of sin, that humanity sustains, you know.

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And unfortunately, you know, I hope he's with the Lord

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but he never made it through that patch of his life.

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You know, I think the son is doing, his son is doing well now

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but, you know, his grandmom had to raise him.

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But it's just, that's thalepsis in this world.

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And, you know, thalepsis is trying to come upon all of us

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but the Lord says, take heart, find peace in me

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for I have overcome the world.

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The only place to find peace is in Jesus.

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He's the only place there is peace, is knowing him.

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And when we do go through something, we find him in the midst of it.

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If we could put that verse up again, that John 16, 33.

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These things I have spoken to you that in me you may have peace.

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In the world you will have tribulation but be of good cheer.

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That's hard sometimes, isn't it?

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Be of good cheer.

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I have overcome the world, you know, have peace.

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I love that verse in Philippians.

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I have it up there, verse 6, 4, 6 and 7.

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That be anxious, you could probably quote this

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if you've been up a few nights with some anxiety, you know.

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Sometimes I say I'm anxious for everything

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but the word is be anxious for nothing but in all things

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through prayers and supplications and thanksgiving,

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make your request known to God and the peace, the peace

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which transcends all understanding

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will guide your heart and mind in Jesus Christ.

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Is that awesome?

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Have you ever been there?

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I've had many anxious days and nights

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and about all kinds of things

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but, you know, when I prayed I knew there was an answer coming.

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You know, I might not get right to sleep.

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It might be a few hours later

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but I know the next morning the Lord will give me clarity.

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Isn't that great about him?

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He always does that. He always brings clarity.

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We can really glorify God in every type of suffering.

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You know, I just went through a thing or two with my heart

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and it's so weird because people always look at you

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like they think I'm healthy, you know, and I am healthy.

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To me, you know, I think I feel great, by the way.

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Awesome, you know, but thank you, praise the Lord.

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But I had a thing or two, you know, that I never expected,

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you know, like a defibrillator, a pacemaker

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and last year I almost died of severe asthma.

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I mean, it's just been a weird year, you know, it really has been.

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And yet, you know, I know the Lord has a reason for it,

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you know, and I know he's in it

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and he also allows you to get a peek of your life, doesn't he?

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And say, you know, I never promise you to be here forever.

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This life is but a mist. Your body is a tent.

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You know, you can read all that and say,

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well then, what am I going to do with my days that are left?

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You know, I love the word says that we're in a race.

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Run the race. You know, we're not racing against anyone.

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We're racing against our own demise.

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Do you ever think about that?

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We're only racing, not in speed.

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We're racing to say, Lord, I want to do everything

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that you're leading me to do.

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I don't want to get sidetracked and guided elsewhere.

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I just want to run your race in my life. Amen.

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And that's what it's all about.

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But like it was, as we were going through it,

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you know, I remember they said, you know,

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I was going in first for the two and a half hour MRI, right?

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Literally two and a half hours and you have to stay awake

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and they give you instructions.

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Breathe, breathe out and all this stuff.

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But it wasn't that, I don't mind MRIs.

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But anyway, they said, so what kind of music do you want?

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I'm like, well, Christian music.

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Okay. So the whole two and a half hours, you know,

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the technicians are listening to Christian music.

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I'm like, well, there you go.

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There's some benefits going on right here.

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And then when they put in all this hardware in my chest, right?

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A new hard drive.

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They said, what kind of music do you want to listen to?

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Christian music, right?

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And it was so funny.

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I just never forget.

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This is like, this is awesome, Lord.

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Like here I am and I'm here and all these, you know,

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I can't remember any song that I played, but Jesus,

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like Jesus was just being sang out, you know?

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And it was so cool just thinking like all these people,

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there's probably six people in the room

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and they're all hearing about Jesus.

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And a lot of them are saying, oh, I like this song.

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So I'm like, wow, something's resonating here, you know?

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But just everything, we can glorify God

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in all kinds of common suffering, fallipsis.

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Like it's all for a reason.

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We don't like it.

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We wish it would stop, but it's here, you know?

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A lot of times I wonder,

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should we be praying that it go away

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or should we be praying, Lord,

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what am I supposed to do in it?

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Like Lord, what are you showing me right now

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so I can operate effectively in the midst of this?

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And I've blown it many times, trust me.

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Like I suddenly panic or I wish that, you know,

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oh, this is out of control.

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I guess suddenly I'm off of, you know, God's radar.

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Like he doesn't even know where I am.

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Well, he always does.

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And yet sometimes I can just struggle and think like,

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you know, I better handle this my way

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and you know, that's not a good song

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and it's not a good life to live by.

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You know, I did it my way, then you did it the wrong way.

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Okay, we need to do it God's way.

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They need to rewrite that song.

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I did it God's way.

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What do you think? I don't know.

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I think Frank's not around to change that up.

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But anyway, so this is what we're trying to do.

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We're trying to really embrace God in the midst of suffering.

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You know what I love?

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Like if you ever read about, of all play,

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do you know who the first person,

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the angel of the Lord appeared to in the Bible?

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Hagar.

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Like, you know, the Lord, you know,

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got some visions and spoke to by God,

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but the angel of the Lord first appeared

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to an Egyptian slave woman

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that was forced to conceive by Abraham.

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I mean, just a weird sorted mess.

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Okay, and that's life, isn't it?

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I mean, that's, I'm so glad the Bible doesn't hide

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all the warts and wrinkles.

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I mean, the Bible is so out there and real.

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Nobody would make this up.

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Okay, it doesn't make anyone except God look good.

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Okay, when you really track it out.

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But so, but Hagar, you know,

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she does what she's told.

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Everything okay.

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All right, you know, she, she's pregnant.

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Okay, suddenly some dynamic between Hagar and Sarah.

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Sarah says, get rid of her.

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Okay, and like, you know, she's so like, you know,

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she's crying, she's running away.

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And suddenly, guess what?

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The angel of the Lord appears to her

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and tells her, no, I will take care.

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You have a child, he will be a mighty nation.

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Okay, and his name will be Ishmael

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because I heard you.

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His name means God hears.

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Okay, and so she went back, followed through.

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Finally, you know, I don't know what the deal was.

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Ishmael was picking on Isaac.

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And Sarah says, nuh-uh, nuh-uh, not around here.

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Get rid of them.

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So there she is leaving,

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and the Lord appears to her again.

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You know, that's someone that isn't even a patriarch.

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That's someone who isn't even part of the lineage of Jesus.

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And yet the Lord made it a point to meet with her

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and bless her.

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And not only that, but bless Ishmael,

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saying, no, I have a purpose in everyone's life.

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Everyone can find me in the midst of suffering.

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You know, Moses messing up his career in Egypt,

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messing up his leadership over Israel.

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And yet the Lord met him and says,

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all right, we're gonna try this again my way

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at the age of 80, at the age of 80, right?

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You know, the Lord meets us sometimes

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in those lowest places, and he does something amazing.

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Remember David, I think Jesse brought this up

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in a Bible study on Wednesday night,

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but how when David was,

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it's too long of a story to get into it all,

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but David was sent home, him and his 600 men

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by the Philistines,

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because they were not welcome to fight in this battle.

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I think that was God's providence

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over the whole situation, saving David of big mistakes

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in either direction.

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And so the Philistines said,

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you can't join us in this battle.

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You might change your mind and fight against us.

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So when they went, while they were away,

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the Amalekites, the enemy of the Lord's people,

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came and captured all of their people

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and burned their city, Ziklag, right?

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So David and his men come back

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and they look around, all their stuff's gone.

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The town is burnt down.

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All their people are missing.

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And they're like bawling their eyes out

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and all of a sudden, probably one by one,

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they're looking over at David and thinking,

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what kind of leader is this?

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First, he sends us up to fight with the Philistines,

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and then while we're gone,

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we lose everything and everyone that's important to us.

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And they started picking up stones

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ready to stone them to death.

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And you know what David did?

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He didn't run, he probably ran a little bit,

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but he went somewhere and he took strength in the Lord.

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That's what it says.

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He just, Lord, what am I gonna do?

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Like, this is miserable.

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I don't know where my family is.

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All my stuff is gone.

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The things that I've been accumulating,

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you know, important stuff, things to live on,

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it's all gone and our houses are burnt down.

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And now my best friends are about to kill me.

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Like, talk about your whole world burning away.

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And what did he do?

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He took strength and the Lord and the Lord gave him direction.

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I believe that's what the Lord wants to do.

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When we're in misery, he says, I got this.

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You just need to be tethered to me going through it.

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I love this picture two weeks ago in the visionary parenting.

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That's a great class, those of you who have children

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or are going to have children who have been attending.

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We even have some grandparents there.

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Jill and I attended, it's awesome.

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And so I remember this one analogy that the speaker,

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I forget his name, but he does a great job.

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Fantastic communicator.

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And he was talking about how parents need to guide

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their children, even through adolescence,

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when they start wanting to wander.

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I mean, every adolescent wanders, right?

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But that's when you need to keep more,

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not control over them, but keep tethered to them.

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Keep guiding them and compare it to a mountain climbing expedition.

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And as they're climbing up the mountain of life,

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you need to keep tethered to them.

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You need to keep the lifelines, the ropes,

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and keep, you know, guiding them up

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and keeping it taut and just encouraging them.

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All right, your left foot goes to the left and da, da, da, da, da.

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And actually, left foot to the left.

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Yeah.

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Make sure you're going the right direction.

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I'll lead you each direction.

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But like, what do the adolescents want to do?

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They want to...

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They want to cut the line and go their own path.

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Or they're on the ledge and they're like,

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this is taking too long.

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The sun's in my eyes.

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This guy doesn't know what he's doing.

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Clip, I'm going to find my own path.

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I think that's what we do with God.

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This is not happening fast enough, God.

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I'm not getting up quick enough.

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I don't like this experience, Lord.

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So I'm going to try it my way.

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And the Lord's like, you're going the wrong way.

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It's not going to work.

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We need to be tethered to God through these trials, don't we?

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And he will guide us through them.

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I love a few verses that really bring this home about suffering.

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Colossians 1, 24 and 2 Corinthians 1, 5.

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I now rejoice in my sufferings.

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Now, do you rejoice in your sufferings?

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Well, you know what?

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You can rejoice in what God is doing in you in the sufferings.

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You don't have to say, yay, I lost my job.

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Or, yay, I just got hacked.

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And I just, whatever, something bad happened.

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I'm so happy about it.

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No, you don't have to be happy about that.

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But you can rejoice in what God is going to do through it.

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You can trust him going through it.

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I rejoice in my sufferings for you and fill up in my flesh

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what is lacking in the afflictions of Christ

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for the sake of his body, which is the church.

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Jesus didn't go through everything that you went through,

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but when you go through it, you can go through it with him.

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So he is going through it with you, right?

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And then he also wrote to the Corinthians,

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for as the sufferings of Christ abound in us,

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so our consolation also abounds through Christ.

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So in sufferings, in thalipsis,

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I will just embrace the Lord and be strengthened.

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How about Romans 8?

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Awesome chapter.

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Every amazing verse finds itself landing in Romans 8.

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I don't know if you've ever really just like

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marinated in Romans 8, but you should.

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It's tremendous.

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So many epic verses are found in Romans 8.

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But Paul writes,

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who shall separate us from the love of Christ?

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Shall trouble, remember that's thalipsis,

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that's common suffering, or hardship, or persecution.

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That's diagmas.

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That's when someone is throwing you in jail

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for sharing your faith,

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or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sore.

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You know what he's about to say.

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Nothing can separate us.

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In fact, we read on Romans 8, 37, 38.

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Yet in all these things,

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we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.

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For I am persuaded that neither death, nor life,

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nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers,

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nor things present, nor things to come,

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nor height, nor depth,

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nor any other created things

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shall be able to separate us from the love of God

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which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

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What a promise that is.

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It doesn't matter what you're going through,

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Jesus is meeting you there.

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You know, Paul prayed,

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Lord, take this thorn in my side away.

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You know, many people speculate

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on a lot of different things,

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but we know that he bore the scars of Christ.

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He finishes the book of Galatians saying,

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I'm tired of people bothering me.

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I wear the scars of Christ.

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I have the evidence that I have lived the life

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serving the Lord.

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And so he was evidently proof

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of God pulling him through these things.

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Like, I wonder if he actually died

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when he was stoned at that point.

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Like, I believe they said they gathered around him

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and prayed and suddenly he pops up

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and says, I'm sorry, you know?

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I mean, he bore the scars of Christ

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and yet he carried that optimism of the Lord

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knowing that all of the sufferings

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he went through were for a purpose.

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And you remember when he was asking the Lord

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to take this thing away?

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Maybe it was blindness.

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Maybe it was other things.

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But we know that it was some kind of infirmity

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and he prayed three times,

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Lord, take this away.

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But finally the Lord said, no, my strength

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is proven through your weakness.

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You have everything you need.

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In fact, you're gonna be more powerful

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because of your condition.

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I mean, how about that?

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I don't wanna hear that personally in the flesh,

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but the Lord knows what is best for my eternal Chris,

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which I'll have a new name back by then anyway.

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But he knows.

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He knows what he's doing in me.

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That's why I love the fact that the word says

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that suffering produces patience

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and patience, character, and character, hope.

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Every step of that ladder we can say,

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you know what, I'm going through this

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because I know through this suffering

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I'm gonna gain patience.

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And okay, Lord, we can get through this together.

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And then through patience I can build character,

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Christ-like character,

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because now I am being consoled in his suffering.

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I am partnered with him

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and I sense a camaraderie with him,

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a friendship with him in the midst of sufferings

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because I'm going through it with him.

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That's the key is we go through things with him, amen.

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If the worship team can come forward,

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I love this 2 Corinthians chapter 4

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verses 16 to 18.

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I used to be able to quote all this.

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I kind of forgot it.

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I get to get back to it.

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Don't you love just ripping off a verse or two,

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just like, yeah.

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That means it's like it's in here

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and it's part of your DNA, you know.

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It's in your every cell when you know verses

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that are just like, that's how you think, you know.

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We have the mind of Christ.

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When we soak in the Word,

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when we just meditate on the Word,

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when we chew on it and it's like the cud,

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we don't have time to get in all that,

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but it's like it's just part of who we are

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and you could just rip off verses of Scripture

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at every time they're needed.

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I get this, yeah, yeah.

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I have to renew my mind, you know.

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Don't conform to the patterns of this world

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but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

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Then you'll be able to prove the good, acceptable

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and perfect will of God.

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Like, whatever you go through is like bam

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because the Lord wants you to use the sword of the Spirit

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to pierce through everything, amen.

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And so it says,

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therefore we do not lose heart

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even though our outward man is perishing,

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yet the inward man is being renewed day by day

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for our light affliction, which is but a moment,

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is working for us a far more excellent exceeding,

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I'm sorry, a far more exceeding

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and eternal weight of glory

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while we do not look at the things which are seen

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but at the things which are not seen

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for the things which are seen are temporary

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but the things which are not seen are eternal.

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You know, we're going through some things

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and some things may last longer than we want to

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even into heaven.

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You know, the things, these temporal things

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that Lord, please, you know,

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I don't want this issue with my heart or lungs

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or I don't want this, you know,

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Lord, make it go away.

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No, no, this is exactly where I want you.

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And I know some of you that struggle with that,

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no good father would give his child some,

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well, he determines what's good.

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He can use things that we perceive as bad

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as being very good.

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He can work things through all kinds of suffering

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and bring salvation through it.

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He could do great things

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through the midst of all these things.

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So I think a good idea is, you know,

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when we're going through something,

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you know, what do we do?

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How do we respond to it?

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Well, one thing, we stay tethered to him

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and say, Lord, I love that model, ask.

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Ask, seek, knock.

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Have you ever heard of that?

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Ask, seek and knock.

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Of course, Jesus is talking about the Holy Spirit

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which we always need more of.

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By saying, Lord, ask the Lord.

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All right, so why am I going through this?

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You know, death happens.

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This is a tent.

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Health happens.

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Relationships, you know, I did my best.

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Finances.

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It's only money.

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It's not eternal.

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But, you know, I'm going to trust you

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going through it.

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But what do you want me to learn in it?

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Like, how can I be transformed

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more like you going through this right now

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that when I come out, I'm more like you?

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Even if I just blew it a minute ago

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and curse, war, complain, whine.

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That was then.

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This is a new minute.

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I'm starting over right now, right here, Lord.

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What do you want me to do in the midst of it?

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And then seek.

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I love seeking, you know, because,

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Lord, what should I be looking for?

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Is there an escape door here?

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Is there a ladder?

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Is there someone or something that I should be aware of

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that's in my presence that is part of my help, you know?

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That's why getting alone

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and drawing away from God is so dangerous

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because the lion only goes after the antelope

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that's by himself, right?

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And so when you're just saying,

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I could do this by myself,

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no, you really can't.

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We need to be seeking.

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Lord, where's my help come from?

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I know it's from you, but through who?

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Where?

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Like, how can you help me through this?

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Because you say you will,

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and you will never forsake me, Lord.

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So I'm trusting that.

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What do you want me to do?

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Seek, Lord, I'm looking.

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And then knock, you know.

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Lord, what door am I supposed to go through?

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What should I be?

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What door do I need to knock on to get answers?

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Lord, open the door.

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I love what he said to the Church of Philadelphia.

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Behold, I stand at the door.

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That's another place I knock.

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He who opens the door, I will come in and dine with him.

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But he also said that behold, I stand in front of an open door.

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You know, I believe he wants to open doors.

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Maybe we keep banging on the wrong door

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to resolve our situation.

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And he's like, look, that door's locked.

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I keep trying to tell you.

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But here's an open door.

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You just don't want to go through it.

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We need to look for the door to go through.

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The Lord, we're all going to go through stuff.

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That's a promise.

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The Lord said, this is a promise.

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In this world, you will have troubles.

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That comes to everyone.

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The great news is we know how to navigate through the trouble.

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We know how to navigate through the storm

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because we have the chief pilot, right?

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We have the one who can show us why we're going through it,

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what to do in the midst of it,

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and where we're going when we get out of it, amen?

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So let's pray.

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I want to just invite if anyone doesn't know the Lord here today,

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what are you waiting for?

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I don't mean to offend you, but maybe a little

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because the Lord is a rock of offense

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for those who choose to try to step around him.

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You're not going to.

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So today, why don't you just receive the Lord?

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Stop being a fool.

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Give your life to Jesus right now.

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Just say, Lord, I want to give my life to you now.

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I surrender my life right here, right now.

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I want to die, die with you on the cross,

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right here, right now, so that I can live,

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so I can rise up and be alive in you.

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Forgive me of all my sins, and you know what?

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Fill me with your Holy Spirit.

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In Jesus' name, amen.

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You know, that's salvation.

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I was so close talking to my son, Jake,

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and he just led his employee to the Lord two days ago.

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I'm like, yeah, awesome.

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Praise the Lord.

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You know, it's time, man.

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It's time.

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You're wasting time.

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If you don't receive the Lord right today,

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you're wasting valuable time.

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You don't know how much time you'll have left.

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Don't waste any more of it, amen.

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So, Lord, just thank you for these brilliant saints, Lord God.

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Thank you that through whatever we go through,

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we carry your glory in these jars of clay

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that are never crushed, Lord God.

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We're never in despair, Lord God.

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We are always carrying the power of God wherever we go,

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and we thank you in Jesus' name, amen.

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Let's give the Lord a round of applause,

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and why don't you stand up?

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Thanks for joining us at Lansdale Life Church

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as we praise God and discuss His word.

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Don't forget to join us for Worship Lives Sunday mornings

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at 10 a.m. Eastern on YouTube.

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Be blessed and have a great day!