Sunday Service - 2026-08-09

Sunday Service - 2026-08-09

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Finding Your Fit In The Family Of God
Acts 9:23-31

Pastor Chris Bonner

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Welcome to the Lansdale Life Church podcast.

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If you're seeking a closer relationship with Jesus Christ, this podcast is for you.

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Thank you for joining us today.

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So, we're going to be looking in Acts chapter nine today, but before we get started, I just

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wanted to mention, if you're not part of the children's ministry and going to the conference

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that Betty had mentioned, and that's in your bulletin, I want to invite you, George Carey

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and Gail want to invite you to this coming Saturday at 1 p.m.

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It's a memorial service for his mother Patricia.

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She is home now with the Lord.

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And he had said, if you want to invite some people, you know, from the church could come

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on out.

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So, if you're around Saturday at 1 p.m., George and Gail have been part of our church from

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the beginning, from our inception.

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And George is behind the scenes all the time, in fact, he's right up there in the balcony

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right now.

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And the two of them serve in so many ways, but George is always just serving and serving

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and he's helped so many ways of really keeping us in the times of media and broadcasting

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and so forth.

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And so, just cherish him and Gail.

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And so, if you're available this coming Saturday at 1 p.m., come on out to here at this

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church.

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So, we're turning to Acts chapter 9 and let's pray and thank the Lord for moving powerfully.

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I expect it, don't you?

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You know, I don't like wonder, I just know if we want more of God, he always wants more

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of us.

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Father God, we ask you to move powerfully through your word.

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Lord, we are just humble servants of yours and yet you bring us to be great like you

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are because you are so great and to do wonderful things, signs and wonders and miracles in your

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name.

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So, Lord, we ask you to do a miracle within us today and help us see ourselves differently

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as you see us and to serve you better.

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In Jesus' name, amen.

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So today's message is finding your fit in the family of God.

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God created us, mankind, to be relational, to be in community, to need each other, hasn't he?

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In fact, he said in Genesis 2.18, he says, it is wrong for a man to be alone.

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And because it is, we're not to do this life solo, we're supposed to be in community.

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And throughout every environment in our lives, we're always seeking to where we're going to

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fit in.

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I remember a friend of mine, his father was, I don't know whether he was an admiral, but

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he was way up there in the Navy.

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And so throughout his childhood, he was always moving around near different naval bases from

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the west coast to the east coast.

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And he moved, I forget how many times he said, over 15 times.

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And every time he moved to another town or city, he had to kind of refit into the school

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he was attending.

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And he had to learn new friends.

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And I can imagine how difficult that would have been, always trying to see where you

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fit in.

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And in a real way, every time you go to school, you have to see, all right, well, how am

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I going to fit in here?

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Who are my friends going to be?

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As we get older, we go to work, and it's a new job.

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We have to figure out, OK, where am I in the mix of this puzzle?

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You know, how do I fit in here?

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Whether we move and we move into a new neighborhood, what are the neighbors like?

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You know, how can I fit in with them?

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It's always the idea of fitting in with families.

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You know, when you get married, those of you who have gotten married, you know,

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well, I got to fit into this other family.

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And, you know, you got to figure this thing out because, you know, there's always

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a chemistry, isn't there?

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In any community, there's a certain chemistry that you have to sort of learn

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and then to figure out, oh, I get it.

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I get the rhythm of this community.

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OK, I see where I'm going to fit in here.

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You know, when Jill, Jill and I got married, she was 19.

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OK, she was a little child.

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OK. And and so and our first like family gatherings,

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she was she was blown away because we in the Bonners,

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we talk loud, we talk a lot.

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We talk over each other and we don't listen to each other.

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That's just the way we communicate.

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It's like, you know, nobody knows what anybody's saying.

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But and so Jill is in the setting saying, I can't get a word in edgewise.

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Like nobody listens to me.

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I don't I'm not even going to bother anymore.

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But over time, because she was the quiet one, everyone's Jill speaking, Jill.

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And she's carried even more weight than the rest of us.

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But, you know, over time, we became more and more

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generous in listening to one another because she came from a family

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that actually listened to each other and cared what the other one was saying.

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So she had to learn that.

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And and over time, I guess we all yielded in various ways.

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But that's what it's like.

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It's trying to fit in even with families, you know.

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You know, and in a family of God, it's the same way, isn't it?

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I remember when I I wasn't saved till I was about twenty nine,

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but I grew up in religion, attended church.

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And then after I didn't have to anymore,

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because I was no longer under my parents authority in a sense,

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because I moved out pretty young at Penn State.

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And so from then on, no more church. Right.

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And then finally, Jill was attending a Baptist church.

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And I said, you know, I have to check this out.

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She was going with our two sons at that point,

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two and one, Zach and Jesse.

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And I said, all right, I have to go.

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So I started going to this church.

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And in a sense, you know, they were so happy.

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Like almost too happy, you know, and they were friendly

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and they're excited to see me, which is weird.

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They don't even know me.

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Why are they excited to see me?

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And they had a certain glow in their eyes.

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And it was like almost like, what am I in here?

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You know, like, what is going on here?

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Because like, I just didn't feel like I fit in with this with this environment,

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you know, because I wasn't used to people like this, quite frankly.

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And then when I eventually got saved born again,

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I realized, you know, these people are genuine.

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Like they really are this happy.

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They're not putting on a show.

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And they really are excited to see me.

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I don't know why, but they just are, you know, so they're they're genuine.

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They're authentic.

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But, you know, I still didn't really feel like I fit in because in a sense,

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I felt like dirty compared to them because they just seem to have a nice life

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and and everything was going well.

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And they seem like they probably never had problems before in their lives.

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How naive, right?

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Like they couldn't relate to me.

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What I have been through.

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None of them went through that.

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And then I matured.

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And I realized everybody went through that because none of us,

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none of us don't have skeletons in our closet or should I see them in the grave?

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Right.

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We all have a past.

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No one's better than anybody else.

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All of us came to Jesus because we are desperate, wretches.

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No one is better than anyone else at the foot of the cross at the level ground.

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And I realized the more I appreciate, like these people,

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went through even greater trials and challenges than I did.

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And look at them.

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They're so joy filled.

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No, I'm not saying all the time, but they have a perspective of life

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that isn't contingent on their circumstances.

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And once I really learned that, I said, you know what?

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I fit in, I belong.

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I belong just as much as anybody else because none of us deserve this.

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To be in the family of God.

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None of us deserve it.

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Yet we've been justified to be in the family of God.

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None of us earned it.

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None of us are better than anyone else.

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And once you really get that, you're like, well, then I belong.

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I belong to be seated at the table of the believers.

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Why not?

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Why not me?

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I belong here.

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And really, that's half the battle is really just understanding that I belong.

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You know, we're going to read today about a man named Saul.

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We talked about him last week who had difficulty fitting in.

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The hymn of all people, OK, the man who is probably one of the most

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consequential leaders of the early church in terms of expanding the church.

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He reached the Gentiles, you know, just after Peter did with with with Cornelius.

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And and he did so many things for the King of God.

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But in the beginning, he's like, I can't fit in.

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And when you appreciate that, if he had difficulty, then no wonder.

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Sometimes I have a difficulty fitting in.

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But one thing.

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Paul met a man named Barnabas,

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the son of encouragement, a man who actually

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helped him be acclimated with the early church.

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He brought him in.

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He saw something in Paul.

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And he cared about him and he made sure that he connected.

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And so we're going to talk a lot about Barnabas and really how, in a sense,

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all of us have Barnabas is in our lives.

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And perhaps we're a Barnabas to others and how the Lord uses so many different

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kinds of people, but Paul actually finally was woven into the fabric

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of the early church through Barnabas.

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So you're ready.

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Let's let's dive in to Acts, Chapter nine.

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We're going to go from twenty three to thirty one.

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And if you can recall real quick, last week,

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Paul, then named Saul, was on his way to Damascus from Jerusalem to capture

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the early saints, and they called themselves the Way, and he was going

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to capture them and haul them away to Jerusalem, throw them in prison,

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torture them, whatever else.

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And on his way, the Lord met him.

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He was blinded for three days.

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Ananias came to him.

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He laid hands on him, right?

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And he received his sight.

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But more importantly, he received the Holy Spirit.

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He was baptized and immediately he went out preaching all over the place.

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But then the Lord drew him down to Arabia for about three years,

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administered directly in the spiritual realm to Paul so that he could

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really get more equipped to spread the gospel.

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Then he returned back to Damascus and he was preaching up a storm again.

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And this is where we pick up in verse twenty three.

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Now, after many days were passed, the Jews plotted to kill him,

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but their plot became known to Saul.

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And they watched the gates day and night to kill him.

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And then the disciples took him by night and let him down through the wall

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in a large basket.

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And when Saul had come to Jerusalem, he tried to join the disciples,

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but they were all afraid of him and did not believe that he was a disciple.

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But Barnabas, there it is, but Barnabas took him and brought him to the

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apostles and Paul, he declared to them how he had seen the Lord on the road

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and that he had spoken to him and how he had preached boldly at Damascus

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in the name of Jesus.

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And so he was with them at Jerusalem coming in and going out.

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And verse twenty nine, and he spoke boldly in the name of the Lord Jesus

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and disputed against the Hellenists.

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They were Greek speaking Jews, but they attempted to kill him.

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And when the brethren found out, they brought him down to Caesarea and

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sent him out to Tarsus, which by the way, was his hometown.

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Then the churches throughout all Judea, Galilee and Samaria had peace and

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were edified and walking in the fear of the Lord and in the comfort of

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the Holy Spirit, they were multiplied.

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And so let's start with that last part there.

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The gospel spread from Judea to Galilee and Samaria.

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Actually, Samaria is in between those two places, but we have a little

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map up there.

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Thanks, Amy.

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Right.

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Actually, it's the first one.

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But well, anyway, so, but so Jerusalem just above there is Judea and

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then Samaria squished in the middle and then Galilee.

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And so the gospel spreading out.

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That's the idea, right?

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And so that's a good thing that the gospel is spreading out.

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And this point of Paul getting to Jerusalem and meeting the apostles was

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recounted by him.

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He actually went back and told the church in Galatia about this

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incident.

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Do you happen to have Galatians 1, 18 and 19 up there?

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That would be the second slide.

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So, okay, they're working on it.

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That's all right.

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Lord, just we ask you to help whatever technological issues are

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going on and, you know, you have this all under control anyway.

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So thank you, Lord, in Jesus' name, Amen.

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So when Saul went to Jerusalem, he had met with Peter and he

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eventually met James who James, the half brother of Jesus was

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kind of like the leader at that point.

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Peter did more of the ground, you know, the, the, the

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evangelism.

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He was more of the guy who was on the ground, boots on the ground.

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And there's that picture of the spread of the gospel see from

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Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria, and up to Galilee.

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And then that next slide is when Paul is writing to the Galatians.

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And he said, after three years, I went up to Jerusalem to

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see Peter and remain with him 15 days.

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But I saw none of the other apostles except James.

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The Lord's brother.

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You know, I just want to mention, it's interesting.

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Paul, a lot of times kind of makes it a point of people

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knowing that things he knows came direct from the Lord.

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You ever notice that when he writes about those things?

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He's like, you know, I'm not just, I'm not just repeating

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what someone else told me.

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I heard it from the Lord.

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And I don't know, the Lord just gave me this right now

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that I think it's important for you and I, when we pray and

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ask the Holy Spirit to illuminate scriptures, right,

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that when we read, we put the commentaries aside.

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We don't listen to what somebody else says about it.

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We just read and say, Lord, what are you speaking to me?

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How much is that awesome when you do that?

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Because the Spirit just really helps it resonate in your soul

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that you can really connect with what the scripture says, you know.

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And so in the same way that Paul just said, you know, I heard it

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directly from the Lord.

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And so so he recounts about this situation and see.

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So now here, Paul, it's the second time his life is threatened.

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Can you imagine that?

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Like, you know, you just became a believer, OK, a few years back

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and already you're in Damascus.

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They're trying to kill you.

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OK, now you're in Jerusalem.

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They're trying to kill you.

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But the Lord told him, this is what your life is going to be about.

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It's going to be a tough life.

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But he was a chosen vessel for this purpose.

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You know, I don't envy his role.

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Sometimes we look at people and say, I want to be like Paul.

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I want to just like, you know, that that important, you know,

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that all the angels up there know, know me and are celebrating me.

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You know, I mean, that's a very prideful way to think anyway.

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Right. But we just have this romantic view of ministry until you're in it.

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Right. Have you ever been in ministry?

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Suddenly, the idea of ministry is far less romantic and warm and fluffy.

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It's like, well, that's just hard work.

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That's all it is, actually.

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But there's something in here that's a reward.

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So so this is what Paul's life is going to be about.

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And and so then Paul returns to Tarsus.

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So if you could show that map up there, Amy.

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Right there. So so far.

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We see Paul left Jerusalem, went to Damascus,

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gets blinded right about here, gets saved right about here,

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goes to Arabia, gets taught, goes back to Damascus.

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They try to kill him.

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He's back to Jerusalem.

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OK, and then they try to kill him again.

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And then we have the next slide and it shows.

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I just want to show this so you can kind of see he went to Caesarea,

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which is a port city, which means he hopped on a ship and went back home.

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OK, now, could you imagine so far, Paul's like he went to Jerusalem

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to become more religious, to know the law, right?

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To be like just like Gamaliel.

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Like just just to be a lot of head knowledge and righteous, right?

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Self-righteous in the law.

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And suddenly he's a transformed person.

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He goes back home and he's brand new.

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Imagine what that would have been like.

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You're a new person and you're seeing all the same streets.

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You go back home, you walk into the same house.

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Everything looks the same.

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Except I'm not the same.

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You know, there's a lot of missionaries when they come home from being abroad

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and they come back and they feel like out of sort.

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They feel like they don't belong in the States anymore

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because they experience so many dynamic things and they changed on the mission

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field and now they come back to all the same things.

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And it's so different.

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I remember this one family, they they served in Papua New Guinea.

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And when they came back, you know, their father, actually, unfortunately,

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the husband and their father died from an asthma attack in the jungle

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running in Papua New Guinea.

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They come back home and the one son David said, this place is like hell.

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Like, really, he was going to school on the bus to public school.

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And he's like, it's so evil here.

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And we think of Papua New Guinea as probably, you know, there's witch

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doctors, there's all kinds of things.

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But he saw here as being really dark.

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So anyway, so Paul goes back to Tarsus and he's walking around and he's different.

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But imagine he's like saying so much was happening and I'm back here again.

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Like, I'm just kind of, I guess, speculating that it must have been really weird.

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You know, after that long trip he had been on now, it's just like

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I'm back home, probably sowing tents again, right?

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But there was something going to come because the Lord's never finished with us.

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He's always preparing us for another place and that place for us.

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And so as he's in Tarsus, meanwhile, Barnabas will never forget Saul.

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He's the one who brought him in because Barnabas is a connector.

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He's a networker.

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He sees the potential in people.

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He encourages them.

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He connects them.

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He sees the value in everyone and he has the ability and sense to say,

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I kind of know where they would fit in perfectly.

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Saul didn't fit in Jerusalem.

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That's for sure.

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Okay, because he used to be one of them.

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Now they want to kill him because he's no longer one of them.

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But he fit in in a new place.

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So as the gospel started to spread to Antioch in Syria,

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they sent Barnabas up there to check it out.

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And he goes up and he goes, wow, this is amazing.

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People are getting saved.

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You know, this is great.

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I know who would fit in perfect here.

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Saul.

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So we have when he went to Tarsus, if you could show Acts 11, verse 25, 26.

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So Barnabas went to Tarsus to look for Saul and when he had found him,

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he brought him to Antioch.

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And for a while, they met with the church and and taught a great many

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people and in Antioch, the disciples were first called Christians.

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So he said, I know who I need and he went and he reached out looked

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for Paul found him and he brought him with him.

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That's what Barnabas is do.

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Okay, they're inclusive.

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He's just like Jesus.

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Jesus was always including you feed them.

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You walk on the water.

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Come on.

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Come on out.

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Yeah, he's always inviting.

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It's us who prevents accomplishing the things he's doing because he

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wants us to do what he's doing, right?

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And so Barnabas goes and he encourages.

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He once again encourages Paul to come back and there they are

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serving again.

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And so I was thinking through this.

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I was thinking what makes Barnabas so unique throughout scriptures.

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You see his name only once in a blue moon, but he's always a link.

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He's a link to someone else somewhere else.

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He's a connector, you know, and so I thought it would be fun

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to just look at some of the qualities of Barnabas that are unique

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that are Christ like that all of us have benefited from someone

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like this and I suspect all of us has been a Barnabas to

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someone else.

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First of all, he's a team player.

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Barnabas sees the big picture.

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He's not in it for himself.

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He's not a solo.

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He's not trying to do everything himself and can't get along

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with anybody else and you know, that's a sure sign someone

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who always needs to serve alone.

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First of all, it's very lonely and probably there's an issue

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of either pride or some something else that they just can't

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get along with somebody else and so we see Barnabas.

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He's first mentioned in Acts chapter 4 36 37 when he's actually

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giving we have that slide if you could put that up Amy

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when he actually is the first one noted.

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Okay, thus Joseph who was also called by the Apostles Barnabas.

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So his name isn't even Barnabas.

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They called him Barnabas because the name means son of encouragement

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or rest right and so they named them that right because he was

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always so you you could do it.

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Come on.

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Come with me.

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We can get this done.

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They love people like that.

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They make you feel so good around them just like like even

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better than you are if you make it there.

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Yeah, some people are kryptonite.

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Okay, they just suck the energy right at you.

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No one here by the way.

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Nobody here but some people can but some people impute energy.

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They just like you're around there.

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You feel electrified like yeah, we can do this.

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Let's do it.

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You know, I think you love that.

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You know, we had a small group of men yesterday that we

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gathered together and as we were just sharing different things

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you left like energized empowered motivated, you know, it's

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so much fun being with a Barnabas because they see things

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in you that you don't see in you.

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And so Barnabas was the first one to sell the proceeds of

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his land and bring it up and lay it at the Apostles feet.

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So we see a lot of things here.

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We see someone who is sacrificial someone who sees need

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in the body.

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He's a team player.

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So he says, you know what I can help out here and not

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only that but he sees authority as a good thing.

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He doesn't go and start divvying out stuff wherever he

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wants to he lays it at the Apostles feet.

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In other words, you guys are in charge.

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You know how to use this.

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That's important.

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That's an important thing to say you're in charge.

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I believe you've prayed over these things and you know how

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to apply these things.

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You know, I learned a lesson the hard way one time when

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we're on a missions trip in the Dominican and we had a

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bunch of adults and kids, you know teenagers and they warned

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us in the beginning.

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Okay.

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I don't know if you ever read the book when hurting when

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helping hurts.

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Okay, and it's about giving the wrong way.

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Okay, not being thoughtful about how you're giving.

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So anyway, they warned us.

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They said, you know, when you come, you know, don't

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just hand stuff out.

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They're gonna be begging constantly and it'll make it

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even worse.

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Okay, but you know, if you have something you want to give

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give it through the church.

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Okay, so we served all week.

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We built houses.

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We did ministry.

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We, you know, put roofs back on outhouses, you know,

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they're all corrugated steel dirt floors, you know, and

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so very primitive, you know, but it was such a great

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was like 10 days.

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We had a great time.

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It was powerful and so we're coming down the mountain

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on the bus barely making it down this mountain.

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We get to the bottom.

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Okay, and they had to stop for a minute.

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And all these kids just swarmed the bus.

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Okay, I mean they're surrounding the bus and they're

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Americana, they're always singing.

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They're always coming behind you and like, you know, because

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they love us.

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They really do and so they're crowding the bus.

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Okay, and meanwhile one of the leaders, okay, looked

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at he saw a young young man with like no shoes on and

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he says, you know, what I'm gonna give my shoes and

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he starts opening up a suitcase and me being a leader

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that was not paying attention, not wise.

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Okay, he pulled out the shoes and he pulled out some

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other stuff before, you know, he's emptying his suitcase

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bringing it out, giving it to all these people and more

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and more are crowding the bus and then all the kids

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are going to put out this and bringing it out and

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once I'm like, wait, wait, wait, wait, whoa, whoa,

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you know, everyone's just pouring out generosity.

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Okay, so you're thinking what could be wrong with this?

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This is beautiful, right?

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So finally we had to move on so we left and we get home

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and I get this phone call or text or email.

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I forget, but what did you do?

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What do you mean?

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We did good things there.

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Don't you remember the roofs?

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Yeah, a crowd like almost attacked our church saying

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where's ours?

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Okay, and you know, we heard they're giving away shoes

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we heard and they're just overwhelming swarming them

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and they said we told you not to do this and and now

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they're rebuking me and I got a little irritated.

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I'm still immature.

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What can I say?

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And so I was like, what are you kidding me after everything

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we just did and now you're like rebuking us because

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we just did that long.

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You know, so anyway, it was a little rift there for a

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tiny bit of time, but you know, but they were right

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because they were in charge.

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Like why would I think that I know better than them?

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It's they're on the mountain.

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They're serving day in day out.

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I'm just a pop in and pop out, you know, it's like I

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don't live there.

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They know I don't you know, and that's when I really

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and by the way the kid with the nice new shoes.

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Okay, when a bigger kid without new shoes comes along

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where do you think those shoes are going and it's

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probably not going to be a nice peaceful transition.

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Right and this is what happens.

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I mean people get really hurt on missions, you know,

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in these countries because someone wants something that

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you have, you know, so anyway, so I say all that

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because Barnabas understood.

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I remember being down City Hall and serving down

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there with Jerry Dover and the gang and this guy

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comes up and hey, can you spare it, you know, and

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it's a homeless ministry and everything, but I know

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about her now.

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I learned something.

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I'm like, so I found Kevin Johnson.

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I'm like, what do we do here?

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Do you give stuff away and they didn't really have

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it.

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They should and maybe they do now.

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They didn't have a hard fast rule like we don't

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or we do or but he goes, you know, you just got

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to be discerning and thinking I'm like, well, I

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don't know.

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It seems like a no to me because I just don't know

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where that will lead.

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You know, you don't know if they're about to go

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around the corner and smoke or shoot or whatever

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else and so we don't know.

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So it's just important to really to honor the authority

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that serves in that ministry because they know

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better than us and this Barnabas had definitely

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really shown that that he's a team player.

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He honors the coach coach.

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What do you want me to do?

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Okay, I'm doing it and that's that's to be really

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commended.

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What's another quality of Barnabas that we can learn

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from?

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He was an encourager.

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Right.

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In fact, we just learned that they named him the

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son of encouragement.

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It wasn't even his name.

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We're going to call you encouragement from now on,

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you know, and it's like it's like me saying to

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Dan you owners, do you mind be calling it happy

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from now on?

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You're happy.

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Okay.

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Well, I don't think you'd mind that but maybe a

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little but you know, it's like that was his nickname

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in a sense Barnabas, but he really was an encourager.

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I mean after all he brought Saul into the church when

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everybody else was afraid of him.

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He was an encourager.

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He saw potential in people that others were afraid

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of or didn't understand or didn't even notice.

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He just cared.

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Remember when Barnabas and Saul were going on their

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first missionary missions trip and he got his cousin

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John Mark and he said come with this.

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So they went with him and somewhere along the line

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and like Pamphylia suddenly John Mark, we don't know

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why but he went back home.

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He either got afraid.

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He got sick something and he went home.

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Okay, and he just couldn't follow through.

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So then over time, they're about to take another trip

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past the same area and Barnabas is showing up and guess

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who he has with him?

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John Mark and like Paul's like, no way.

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You're not bringing him again.

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He failed.

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He's not accepted.

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But what's Barnabas?

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He's the son of encouragement.

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He sees John Mark his cousin.

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He'd probably been ministering to him, encourage him.

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Look, you know, it's okay.

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We all fail.

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Don't we all fail?

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We all mess up.

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We all sin.

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He was probably saying the next time we're going to

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do this, right?

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Here's the next time and Paul saying no.

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Okay.

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Now, this is mighty Paul, right?

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Now, remember Paul came from a religious background.

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So probably things were more black and white to him,

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you know, and a lot of us came from the same thing.

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You know, it's like, no, no that but Paul saw more things

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like how do we how do we yield?

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How do we blend these two?

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How do we make this work based on the resources we have?

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And so he wanted to bring his cousin but Paul didn't and

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so so much that it's accounted for there and acts chapter

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15 37 to 40 that they got in an argument and they split

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up. Barnabas brought his cousin to Cyprus, his home

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country and and Paul brought Silas up to his ministry up

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to a new place and ended up in Antioch and all that.

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So they split up.

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But my point is in the midst of this, Barnabas saw potential.

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He was forgiving.

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He was an encourager.

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And he said, no, we're going to get this the next time.

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We're going to do this.

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Even if Paul doesn't believe in you, I do now.

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I have a question who was right?

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You know, I mean now, I'm not saying anyone was wrong

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because God has a way of using everything.

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You know what I mean?

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Like God allowed that to take place because he probably

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wanted Barnabas and John Mark to go to Cyprus not with

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Paul up north.

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Okay, so but we see that of course that John Mark was the

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Gospel of Mark.

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He did some good things, right?

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He wrote probably the first gospel.

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They some believe, you know, he became tight with Peter.

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He became tight with with James and with Luke.

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I mean, he became a fabric of the early church because

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he was given a second chance.

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Barnabas saw that in him and so much so that over time

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Paul cherished John Mark and he became his friend.

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They became tight.

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Paul actually shared so many things with Mark about his ministry

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and he writes about him in many letters saying that like

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he's a good friend.

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In fact, he wrote to Timothy the last thing he ever wrote

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in this letter.

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He said only Luke is with me get Mark and bring him with

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you for he is useful to me for ministry.

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So Barnabas saw something in John Mark that not even Paul

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did and that's important as a Barnabas to be able to forgive.

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I can fall in both areas sometimes.

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Sometimes I just say oh see here we go again.

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Matt not this time, but other times I could be so over

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you know, I just give him another chicken and they keep doing

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the same thing again and again.

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I'm like, you know, it's like we just have to allow the

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Lord to figure it out.

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We're all going to make mistakes even in a leadership.

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You just say, you know, I should have seen that coming

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but I aired on forgiveness and encouragement, you know,

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and then the last thing that we can be encouraged by

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Barnabas is that he was like Jesus.

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He was like Jesus, you know, in fact, it's written about

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him in Acts chapter 11 verse 24.

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Says for he was a good man full of the Holy Spirit and

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of faith and a great many people were added to the

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Lord. I mean, there's Barnabas just just allowing the

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Holy Spirit to guide him.

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Are we going to get it right every time?

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No, but when we do it's so sweet to see how God can

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use John marks how he can use me.

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You know, after failure upon failure to say know what

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but I still forgive you.

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You're still welcome.

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You're still invited as the worship team comes forward.

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I just would like to encourage us about some things.

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How do we fit in?

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How to fit in?

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I have some just amazing takeaways here.

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It's so just practical sense and yet so true spiritual sense

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too. Just know that you do.

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You know, just knowing that I belong not because I deserve

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it, but because I was chosen by the King.

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I was chosen.

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I was adopted in.

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I did nothing to earn anything, but I still belong.

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I don't have to keep trying to prove myself.

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Remember Peter always trying to prove himself before

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he was really born again to Jesus.

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Look, look, I can do this.

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I'm going to look Lord.

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Let me protect you.

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Okay, because he was always trying to prove himself and

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you know, we don't have to prove ourselves.

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I love you know when people come in and they just just

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like enjoy the fabric the chemistry of our community and

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just allow that to really play out and they can start

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to discern who everyone is what everybody does and then

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they start to see a need and like well, I can do that if

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you want me to do that, you know, as opposed to coming

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in and saying no, I know I'm better than everybody in

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here to do that, you know, and we've had that too, you

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know, you really need me.

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That's when you know, look out right because the Lord

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doesn't need any of us.

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He chooses to use us, but he doesn't need us.

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You know, thank God.

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He doesn't need me or we'd all be in trouble, right?

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I'd be in trouble.

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Next thing is recognize your Barnabas.

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You'll recognize who the Lord has placed in your life

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that is saying come on like come on in Colin, you know,

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I remember when we first met we started having that

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small cell group.

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I'm just thinking man, he and Lara, they're just so

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precious, you know, and just feeling like we want

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them here and the Lord chose, well, they're going

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to be part of you guys and it's so exciting to just

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see people come in and just find their place and

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find where they can best serve and fit in and be

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part of the church family.

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Just recognize your Barnabas.

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You know, I love these sports that we've been getting

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into recently other than the injuries.

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Okay, everybody's limping or something else around

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here, you know, but you know, the softball first

41:10

and you know, and then the soccer and now I hear

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there's going to be pickleball and Ray, we got

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to get you involved in that.

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You can do some training there, but and whatever

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else they're going to do, but like that that there's

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people that suddenly says, well, I can do that.

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I was just talking to Leo about his jujitsu.

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Training and how people are getting plugged into

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that and how much fun that is, you know, and and

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just be able to enjoy one another's company, but

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there's a place for everyone if we'll just like

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see where he wants us and and recognize those

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people who are the Barnabas is to us.

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I've had so many over my lives.

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It's just like my life that just, you know,

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welcomed me in and introduced me to others and

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then at that point, it's like I'm here, but now

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you're meeting them.

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I'm okay with letting go.

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It's just like John the Baptist said, you know,

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I must decrease but he must increase or vice versa,

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but don't follow me anymore. Follow him.

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Yeah, that's all all of us are.

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We're connectors to Jesus Christ in the end.

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Isn't it? We're all pointing to him just like

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Jesus be the center of it all.

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You know, that's really what we want him to

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be the center of us.

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He's the strong force that holds us together and

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then finally be a Barnabas to someone else.

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Are we paying attention to who's around us and

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asking questions?

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You know, I want to know more about you.

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You know, where did you come from?

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What was what's your story all about?

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I love asking people, you know, like what they

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do for a living just to kind of because I've

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been in mortgages 40 years.

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So I'm always asking that question.

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Okay, and but like just figure out where they

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spend their time all day what they do because

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they don't listen to picture really great at

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this, you know, and connecting people.

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I love this whole idea of Barnabas because it's

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not about Barnabas.

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It's about the Lord being glorified through

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his body of saints.

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So let's stand up and we'll pray and thank

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the Lord for moving powerfully.

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Father God, we thank you Lord that you fit us

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together in your family.

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You have adopted us and we belong to you.

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And Lord God, we ask you to just help us if

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there's pride Lord that we're still trying

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to prove ourselves to you and others.

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Lord God, we don't have to strive for approval.

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We don't have to strive for your approval.

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We don't have to strive for other people's

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approval Lord God.

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You've already brought us in.

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We already belong to you and you don't

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throw anybody out.

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So Lord God, we just ask you Lord to tear away

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just to just burn away any pride that we feel

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we need to prove we're better than someone else.

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Lord God, Lord we ask you to help us not be

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insecure on the other side of that coin,

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not be insecure and timid and apprehensive

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about volunteering in areas that maybe we're

44:44

not extremely comfortable with or maybe it's

44:47

been a long time since we've done those things.

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But Lord, you know, if you if you want to call

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us into something, it's you who will finish

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the race Lord God.

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You know, you who began a good work will

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complete it in Christ Jesus.

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Lord God, we just want to be at your disposal.

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And if you want us to use gifts that we that

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you've given us to serve you Lord God,

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we don't want to be timid about it.

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Just like Paul said to Timothy, you know,

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he gave us a spirit of power, love and

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self-discipline, not timidity and not fear.

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Help us be confident in what you want us to do

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Lord God and Lord help us be the Barnabas of

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the church.

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Help us see value in people Lord God and

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not write them off.

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Like perhaps even Paul did instead Lord that

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you would help us see the real value and

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significance that that you have for them Lord

45:54

and and see the reason for them to be plugged

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in in their best place Lord God.

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We want to be those who welcome in just like

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you did Lord God.

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You're always inviting people to your kingdom.

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Lord God, you're always drawing them in.

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Lord help us be those that draw people into

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your kingdom to serve you Lord God.

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We want to see others the way you see them even

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better than ourselves.

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Value them Lord God over ourselves and to long

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to see you you that you use them in whatever

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way you have.

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So Lord, thank you Lord.

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We love you.

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We thank you for this body of believers Lord

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and the great things you're doing in each one

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of our lives.

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We thank you in Jesus name.

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Amen.

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