Sunday Service - 2026-10-11

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No Pain, No Gain
Acts 14

Pastor Chris Bonner

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Welcome to the Lansdale Life Church podcast.

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If you're seeking a closer relationship with Jesus Christ, this podcast is for you.

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Thank you for joining us today.

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If you get a turn to Acts chapter 14, no pain, no gain.

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You probably heard it with all kinds of things, but primarily, I guess, working out.

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Well, I found actually that's not true, okay?

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Because when you push through pain, that shouldn't be.

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More pain develops.

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So, but anyway, in this case, it is true.

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No pain, no gain.

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And let's pray and ask the Lord.

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I really believe there's something here today specifically for each one of us

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because it's so practical, so relative in all aspects of our lives.

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You know, we may not find ourselves being the Apostle Paul,

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being harassed and stoned near death,

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and many other things he went through.

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But we go through some stuff, don't we, this side of heaven?

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And in all cases, we can develop that success and endurance

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and greater faith through pain and resistance and division.

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And what's the word I'm looking for?

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Opposition.

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So let's pray.

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Father God, we ask you to speak through your words specifically to each one of us

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wherever we're at, Lord God.

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Whatever things that are a challenge right now,

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perhaps things that are going really well,

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but Lord, we're still hung up on something from the past.

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And Lord, perhaps there's things that we're afraid of going into

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because of whatever reasons.

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Lord, we just ask you to speak to our core, Lord God.

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We ask you to impute your truth into us and transform our minds to yours.

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We ask this in Jesus' name, amen.

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You know, think of a time that you really pursued something in life.

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We've all probably went after some things that we really wanted to be successful in

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or at least accomplish and really pursued those things.

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And we realize that at times we have to push through,

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first of all, mistakes, right?

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Has anyone ever made a mistake?

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I just, I don't have enough limbs or digits or anything else to add to,

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to count up on all my mistakes, but mistakes, failures,

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times that we just, we just missed the mark completely.

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But we knew there was something bigger,

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a bigger purpose that we had to keep pushing towards.

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Perhaps we experienced mocking and naysayers and negativity,

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but we knew there was something that we were pursuing

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that we had to push through that and go after it.

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And we overcame.

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Or perhaps there was times of not only failure and mistakes,

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but just times that we really didn't have the courage and strength to pursue it,

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whatever it was.

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But one thing that we, the only way we could really accomplish it or succeed

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is we had to push through that and say, no, I know I'm called to doing this

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and I'm going to accomplish this.

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Just like we were singing all about.

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It's amazing how, you know, they developed these songs.

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I don't think half the time they really know what the message is about

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because we don't necessarily communicate before the service.

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And yet so many times the worship music hits the mark on what the message is about.

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And what we were talking about, you know, I see a victory.

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You know, he worked all things for the good.

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You know, he accomplishes the work that he has set out in our lives.

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And so we realize that sometimes we have to go through pain

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to have the gain of what we're meant to do.

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There's a lot of young ladies in here that are about to give birth.

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Some of you already have given birth.

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And you understand more than anyone else what it is to endure sickness,

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discomfort, a complete interruption in your life,

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and eventually a lot of pain through childbirth to deliver that baby.

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And yet, you know, the goal is so worth it.

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It's so worth seeing that new baby boy or girl laying on you,

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realizing it was all worth it.

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All of that I just went through is all worth it.

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Isn't that the picture of life in general?

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We have to keep pushing through because we know if there's no pain,

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there's no gain.

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It's worth the sacrifice.

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And it doesn't end there.

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Having children, then, the real sacrifice begins, doesn't it?

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Can I get an amen from any parent out there?

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I mean, did we have any idea what we were getting into

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when we said yes to having kids?

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I'll never forget driving in the car,

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and Zach and Jesse are bawling their eyes out,

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and they're hitting each other,

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and they're both in their car seats right next to each other.

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I'm like, we need some more space back there, you know?

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And I'm just remembering,

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why do people choose to do this to themselves?

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Really?

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But, you know, deep down, it's wrong thinking,

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and in the end, it's worth it.

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And just sacrificing.

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All of your decisions in life are also including,

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is it good for my children?

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Is this good?

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Are these decisions we're about to make?

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Is what I'm about to pursue, is it best for my children?

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It's sacrificial, but it's worth it.

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It's worth it because no pain, no gain.

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You have to go through some pain to get there, right?

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Relationships, you know, marriage,

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or any relationship for that matter,

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there's so many times that you really have to eat your pride

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and realize, you know what?

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I know I'm kind of right.

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Like with me and Jill, usually that's the case, you know?

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I'm kind of more right than she is.

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No, I'm totally kidding.

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But I'm in trouble later.

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But, you know, even when you're kind of right,

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you realize, you know what?

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Winning a little battle of right and wrong isn't winning the war, you know?

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And sometimes you have to see the bigger picture and say,

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you know, our relationship is far greater than being right about an issue

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or a topic or something that just happened, right?

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Because you see that it's a bigger purpose in having a good relationship.

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It's so worth it.

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You have to go through that pain, that suffering, you know?

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A job, you know?

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Sometimes you're just building a work history.

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Do you always work the job that you wished you had?

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You know?

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I mean, sometimes you just have to endure, put up with a lot of things thinking,

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I deserve better than this, whether you really do or not.

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We think we do.

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And, you know, and you just push through and say, you know what?

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If I don't do this, there's no chance of me being promoted

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or finding a better job and saying, this is what I did there.

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I want something better this time, you know?

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But you have to push through because no pain, no gain.

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You have to push through those things because, you know,

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success or accomplishment or achievement or rewards,

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they all come with sacrifice, endurance, some, I can't think of that word,

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opposition, resistance.

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They all come with failure, all kinds of things.

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And we just have to push through it to accomplish what we're meant to accomplish.

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And in this chapter, as we read through, we're going to see so much obstacles,

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so much resistance, so many things that could become failures,

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that could have become the end of Paul and his apostles saying,

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no, that trip was too hard.

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We're never doing that again, okay?

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So many things that they could have just given up,

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and yet they pushed on because it was worth it.

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It was worth pushing through.

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And all of us have accomplished things in our lives knowing that,

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even back in school when you studied hard or you studied

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and got through a test or two, right?

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You know?

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Or just whatever it was, even building friendships with your buddies.

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You know, you just had to, like, work through different things

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of being insulted or being hurt, and you have to push through that.

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But we've all experienced that.

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But I believe there's even more things to come

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that perhaps there's these obstacles that we perceive

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when really it's just we're just a thin wall away from breakthrough

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and realizing, well, I've finally overcome that segment of my life

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and now God can take me even higher.

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And so we're going to dive into Acts chapter 14.

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And I just love the book of Acts, don't you?

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It's so action-packed.

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That's why it's called Acts, right?

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But it's action-packed and there's so many things going on

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and you think, well, that was back then.

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No, that's now.

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This is the life we live in now.

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Because, you know, whether you're going to some new land

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and sharing the gospel to some people who never knew God,

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or you're just learning how to be a better husband

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or wife or father or friend,

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it's all God's work, isn't it?

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Because we are in Christ.

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So everything we do is God's work.

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We are His workmanship, creating Christ Jesus for good works,

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which God prepared in advance for us to do,

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that we would walk in them.

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So no matter what it is, it's all a work of God

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when you think about it.

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You know, you don't have to go to, you know,

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some African village and live on dirt floors to really,

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now this is God's work.

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You know, no, everything you do is the work of God

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because it's Christ in you who accomplishes it, amen?

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So before we dive in, just a real,

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a little rehearsal here from what we talked about,

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not rehearsal, revisit of what we talked about

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a few weeks back.

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If you could show that first slide up there of the map, okay?

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And wow, this is a faint pointer.

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But anyway, so if you can recall in Acts 13

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that Jamie shared how they were in Antioch

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and they commissioned Paul and Barnabas, right?

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And also John Mark, and they traveled to Cyprus, okay?

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And there they went through the island, that country,

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and shared the gospel, and they got to here, okay?

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And then they sailed to Perga.

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And then John picked up from there,

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and as they arrived to Perga, John Mark,

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we don't know all the details,

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but he basically went back home.

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He realized this is a little too tough.

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He wasn't ready for it, right?

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And then from there, the apostle Paul and Barnabas

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went to Antioch of Pisidia.

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Notice there's two Antiochs, by the way.

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It started in Antioch, okay?

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Here, okay?

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And they ended up in Asia, this Antioch.

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And there they are.

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This is where Christians were first called Christians.

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This is where really the first Gentile church

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began to be formed here, right?

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And now we're going to pick it up here

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as they travel to Iconium, Lystra, Derby,

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and then they go back through

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and eventually sail back home

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and they talk about all the triumph

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that God has done through them.

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So we're going to read almost straight through this chapter

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because it's a tremendous story

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and then talk about it a bit.

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So Acts 14, verse 1,

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if you have your instrument or Bible in front of you,

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and verse 1,

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and now it happened in Iconium

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that they went together to the synagogue of the Jews

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and so spoke that a great multitude,

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both Jews and of the Greeks believed,

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but the unbelieving Jews stirred up the Gentiles

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and poisoned their minds against the brethren.

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Therefore, they stayed there a long time.

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Just read that sentence.

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They poisoned their listeners against them,

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so they stayed even longer, you know?

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I mean, that's persistence, isn't it?

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Speaking boldly in the Lord,

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who was bearing witness to the Lord,

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the word of His grace,

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granting signs and wonders to be done by their hands.

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Verse 4, but the multitude of the city was divided,

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part sided with the Jews,

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and part with the apostles.

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And when a violent attempt was made

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by both the Gentiles and Jews

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with their rulers to abuse and stone them,

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they became aware of it and fled to Lystra and Derby.

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Cities in Lycania...

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Wait a minute.

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Lycanonia.

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You know, I knew how to say that this morning.

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Lyaconia, there you go.

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And to the surrounding region,

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and they were preaching the gospel there.

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And verse 8,

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And in Lystra, a certain man without strength

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in his feet was sitting,

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a cripple from his mother's womb,

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who had never walked.

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And this man heard Paul speaking,

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Paul observing him intently

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and seeing that he had the faith to be healed,

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said with a loud voice,

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Stand up straight on your feet.

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And he leaped and walked.

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Now, when the people saw what Paul had done,

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they raised their voices saying in Lycania language,

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The Gods have come down to us in the likeness of men.

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And Barnabas they called Zeus and Paul Hermes,

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because he was the chief speaker.

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And then the priest of Zeus,

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whose temple was in the front of their city,

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brought oxen and garlands to the gates,

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intending to sacrifice with the multitudes.

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Verse 14,

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But when the apostles Barnabas and Paul heard this,

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they tore their clothes

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and ran in among the multitude,

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crying out and saying,

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Men, why are you doing these things?

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We also are men with the same nature as you,

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and preach to you that you should turn

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from these useless things to the living God,

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who made the heaven, the earth, the sea,

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and all the things that are in them,

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who in bygone generations allowed all nations

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to walk in their own ways.

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Nevertheless, he did not leave himself without witness

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in that he did good,

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gave us rain from heaven and fruitful seasons.

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Filling our hearts with food and gladness.

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And with these sayings,

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they could scarcely restrain the multitudes

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from sacrificing to them.

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Verse 19,

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Then Jews from Antioch and Iconium came there,

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and having persuaded the multitudes,

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they stoned Paul and dragged him out of the city,

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supposing him to be dead.

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However, when the disciples gathered around him,

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he rose up and went into the city,

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back into the same city where he was just stoned.

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And the next day he departed with Barnabas to Derby.

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Verse 21,

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And when they had preached the gospel to the city

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and made many disciples,

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they returned to Lystra back to the same city,

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Iconium and Antioch,

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strengthening the souls of the disciples,

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exhorting them to continue in the faith,

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and saying,

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We must through many tribulations enter the kingdom of God.

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So when they had appointed elders in every church

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and prayed with fasting,

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they commended them to the Lord in whom they had believed.

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And after they had passed through Pisidia,

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they came to Pamphylia.

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And now when they had preached the word to Perga,

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they went down to Atalia,

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and from there they sailed to Antioch,

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where they had been commended to the grace of God

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for the work they had completed.

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Verse 27,

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Now when they had come and gathered the church together,

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they reported all that God had done with them

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and that he had opened the door of faith to the Gentiles,

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and so they stayed there a long time with the disciples.

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So there we go.

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So what an amazing story about all this.

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And the story says it all.

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I mean, you don't have to dissect all that.

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It's very clear to understand.

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But what can we learn from it?

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You know, they call it,

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how can we be,

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what illustration can we draw from this,

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and what application to our own lives

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can we pull from what we just read?

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And I think the first thing,

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a pattern you see throughout the book of Acts

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and throughout the entire early church

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is that there's always resistance.

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Did you notice that?

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Something good happens.

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There's resistance.

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There's miracles.

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There's people coming in saying,

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oh, that's not really a miracle,

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or you're doing it by the power of the devil.

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There's always resistance, even from,

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remember Pentecost.

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They're praying at times.

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Look, they're drunk.

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I mean, there's just always been mockers,

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always been resistance.

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Because why?

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There is an antiChrist, right?

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There is an enemy who's always sowing

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discord, confusion, and doubt

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into all believers and unbelievers.

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So we can expect this.

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So let's put up that next slide.

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Expect resistance.

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You know, God's work will often attract resistance.

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I think it always does, right?

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Because we have an enemy, right?

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And he's always against truth being pontificated

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or professed.

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He's always bringing sowing lies into it.

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I like this saying resistance is not always evidence

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that you're outside God's will.

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Sometimes it's resistance.

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Sometimes resistance is evidence

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that you're right in the middle of it.

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Have you ever experienced that?

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I remember one time when we led the youth

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over at our old church

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and the junior high youth group

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we brought down to what was called flood filly.

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And we would block off little ducks in the inner city

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and we would have kind of like a VBS, you know,

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puppets, you know, and give them the gospel and everything

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and kids would come in.

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It was just awesome.

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In fact, Sarah, I don't know if Sarah's in the building.

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She and Deanne were huge parts of that.

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They're probably with the children now

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and nursery and children's.

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But it was just such a great program

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of leading little children of the inner city to Christ.

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Well, one time we went over and they would tell us,

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it was so like, it was so raw and organic

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that they would get approvals to go certain streets

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the day before and they would say,

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all right, tomorrow you're going here.

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And we would go with the whole crew.

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So one time we had the projects

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that we were going to be doing a little VBS,

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what did they call them?

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CEF, but it was like a kids camp.

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Anyway, so we went to the project

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and we're setting all up.

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All the kids are coming in.

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They're seeing the puppets being set up

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and the different games we had and all this.

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And all of a sudden,

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somebody comes out of the office of the projects

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and says, yeah, you can't do that here.

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And we're like, no, yeah, we can't.

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We were told we can't.

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No one told me and I'm the manager.

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And we're like, so we're calling Linda at the time.

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They're telling us we have to put everything away and leave.

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All these kids are like, wow, there's something happening.

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They're all excited.

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These little kids and they're all there

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and they're telling us, you have to go.

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You have to go.

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You can't do this here.

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And Linda said, I have an approval.

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So we had to sit there and watch these poor kids

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just waiting around and fight and fight through that

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until finally we had the supervisor of the supervisor

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that said, yeah, I did say they could do that.

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And so the show went on.

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But sometimes the enemy is sowing

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and you can just tell the mannerism of this girl,

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this woman, how she like repulsed

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that we were going to be talking about Jesus to these kids.

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You can just tell the spirit of the antiChrist

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coming against us because it's so,

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the enemy always is trying to stop what God is doing.

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I love what James says.

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My brethren, count it all joy

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when you fall into various trials.

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When you're serving God, you will endure trouble.

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Jesus said, in this world you will endure tribulation,

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but take heart for I have overcome the world.

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We can expect, we can expect

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that there will always be resistance coming against us.

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I'm sure you've experienced it many times.

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And it doesn't even need to be

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that you're sharing the gospel.

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The enemy is trying to sow discord into your marriage.

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He's trying to sow discord into your friendships,

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into your family.

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I mean, this is what he does.

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His tactics don't change.

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He's the same.

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He's the same yesterday, today and always,

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but so is Jesus Christ.

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He might change form,

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but he's always has the same game plan

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to destroy your life, steal, kill and destroy.

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That's what he's into.

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So we know that we can expect this,

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that it shouldn't seem abnormal or unusual

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when it does happen.

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How about we were singing a song that had to do,

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I'm going to see a victory.

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And it refers kind of to David.

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Remember he's at the battlefield and he's saying,

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wow, like look at this guy.

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How come no one's taking care of this big guy Goliath?

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And what his own brothers are mocking him

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and angry and envious of him saying,

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we know why you're here.

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You're just prideful.

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Like he's about to slay Goliath.

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And yet they're being negative towards him

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and mocking him and degrading him.

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Because the enemy uses even sometimes

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our closest family and friends.

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And they don't know they're being used by him,

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but they're being used by him to prevent us

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from overcoming and accomplishing

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what God has called us to accomplish.

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How about another thing?

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What can we not only expecting resistance,

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endure the pain.

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If you could put that next slide up,

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enduring pain.

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I came up with these slides and endure the pain.

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Don't let resistance or pain stop what God has started.

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There's always things trying to hold us back,

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hold us down.

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But I love what the author says in Hebrews,

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looking unto Jesus,

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the author and finisher of our faith,

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who for the joy that was set before him,

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endured the cross,

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despising the shame and has sat down

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at the right hand of the throne of God.

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Like we look at him and he knew what he was heading into.

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And yet he still just pushed forward.

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He didn't even succumb to all the phrasing and accolades

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he was getting on the triumphal entry

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because he knew there was something even greater than that.

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He had to save mankind, right?

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So he pushed through.

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All of us have to realize that we have to endure pain sometimes

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and go through it and not turn back and hesitate.

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Raising kids certainly has a lot of sacrifice

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and enduring pain, doesn't it?

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Enduring the things that they put us through.

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No, I didn't mean to say that.

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The blessing they are.

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Jill's correcting me up here.

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So I have auto correct up here.

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And Zach, he just turned 36.

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He's always been an amazing son.

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I really mean that.

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But when he was a little kid,

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he's always been pretty popular.

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So he always had friends and so forth.

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But at this time, he was in second grade

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and he was popular with the ladies.

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The girls, okay.

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Dana's not in here so she can't get jelly.

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But it was second grade, Jill keeps them.

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But I had to ask her, when was it?

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But it was so funny.

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So anyway, the girls liked them and they were trying to kiss him.

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Okay.

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So he was running around in the playground

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and he was running up the sliding board

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and they were coming up the steps.

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And this is a crazy true story.

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So as he was climbing up, he jumped off the sliding board

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and broke his arm.

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Two places.

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I mean, it was snapped, right?

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And so that worked out.

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The nurse called Jill and said,

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an incident happened here.

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She didn't tell her over the phone.

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But anyway, so he was always popular, right?

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So at one point, he was invited to a party.

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All the people were there.

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And we dropped them off and it was a pool party.

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And as we dropped them off, you know,

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and he was about 11, right?

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And so we were dropping them off.

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And, you know, you just get this vibe.

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You know, just something ain't quite right.

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You know, I don't explain.

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Like there's a lot of variety of demographics there

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in terms of age.

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Okay.

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So there's the parents, but then they're their friends too.

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And it looked like there was some drinking,

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a lot of drinking going on.

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And I'm like, I'm not judging people,

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but you can just tell kind of the atmosphere, you know?

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And then there was older kids there too,

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hanging in their little crew, you know?

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And then there was Zach and his friends, you know, around 11.

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And Jill's like, I don't like this.

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You know, this doesn't look right.

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And I'm like, what?

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I mean, you know, and me being a dumb dad,

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it's like, yeah, but he's popular.

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He's got to be where the action is, you know?

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This is fun.

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And I'm sure none of you as parents would think this way.

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So you can rebuke me later.

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But thank God for Jill, because I'd probably say,

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yeah, you could try that.

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You could do that, you know?

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Because I just was, you know, I don't know,

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an adventurer when I was a kid

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and not realizing all the dangers.

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So anyway, so I'm like, no, he's going to be fun, you know?

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So we drive away and leave him there.

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And she's like, no, this isn't,

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I'm going back to get him.

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Just drop me off and I'll go back and get him.

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And he was there like 15 minutes, okay?

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I'm like, no, I'm not going to make you go back by yourself

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and, you know?

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And so we drove back and pulled up

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and we call him out of the pool.

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Oh, we forgot, you know, I don't know what we said.

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It was a little lie.

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White lie, I don't know.

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Why we had to come and get him, you know,

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not like you people all look sketch to me.

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We didn't say that, okay?

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But we said something, and Zach's like, you know,

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cannonball in the pool.

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What, what, what, what?

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We have to go.

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What?

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Like, what?

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You know, I mean, he was a basket.

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He was so angry, okay?

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He was just seething and he gets in the car,

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like, what are you doing?

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I mean, this was a happening party.

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And we're like, you'll understand it someday, you know?

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And we just explained it.

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And the Lord turned it around, really.

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He really did, you know, as we talked to him,

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like, you just have to trust us during these years, you know?

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Like, we know better than you do,

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and you have to trust us.

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Like, that whole inner turmoil of like, you know,

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yielding to peer pressure as parents, let alone children,

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we always have to overcome.

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We have to endure that thing that's holding us back.

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See, no, just let it go.

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Just, you're okay, you know?

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But pushing through and not submitting like that,

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it's difficult, isn't it?

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But God's work is for us to raise Zach to follow Jesus.

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Praise the Lord.

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They all are.

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You know, they're all serving the Lord, you know?

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And that's, you know, I sometimes question

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how much Jill and I had to deal with it

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because the Lord overrode many things

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that could have gone wrong, but he's sovereign.

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And the next thing I think we can learn,

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not only to expect resistance, endure the pain,

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but really get back up.

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I mean, he's stoned, left for dead, okay?

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They dragged him.

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Like, you know, I didn't know if you had to check the pulse back then,

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but they were sure he was dead.

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They left him there, and all his friends surrounded him.

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You know, it reminds me of how Jesus said,

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you know, when two or three are gathered there,

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I am in their midst, you know?

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He's here right now, especially,

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in a special way in our midst, you know?

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Right now.

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Anyway, when there's...

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And I believe that he may have even been brought back to life

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right then and there.

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In fact, you know, this, him being stoned

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and left to die wasn't going to stop him.

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It was actually going to be part of his resume.

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It was going to be part of his resume.

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This is what I went through for Jesus with,

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in a sense, pride, not in himself,

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but in what Christ did in him.

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He could say, look what I overcame.

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Look at this.

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I belong to him through and through.

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I think it was Peter that said, you know,

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unless you have endured persecution,

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persecution cleanses you from sin, you know?

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The more you are persecuted for your faith,

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in a sense, sin looks more and more repulsive to you.

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You know that?

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So he stood back up,

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but this was actually part of his resume.

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I love what he writes to in 2 Corinthians,

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chapter 11, verses 23 to 25.

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If you could put that slide up.

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He said that, you know, I work harder than all of them.

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He says, are they ministers of Christ?

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I speak as a fool,

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knowing that he's about to drift into some bragging,

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in a sense, but really just bragging about Jesus in him.

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I speak as a fool.

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I am more, in labors more abundant,

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in stripes above measure, in prisons more frequently,

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in deaths often.

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You know, that may mean he died in Lystra.

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It may mean he was laying there dead

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and they gathered around him in the power of God

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in the midst of the disciples.

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He rose him back up.

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No, no, I'm not done with him yet.

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No, there's a long way to go, okay?

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He has a lot more suffering to endure.

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You know, that was his resume, you know?

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But through persecution, so much power came.

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And then he says, from the Jews, five times,

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I received 40 stripes, minus one.

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Three stripes, I was beaten with rods.

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Once, I was stoned.

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Three times, I was shipwrecked, actually four,

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because when he was shipwrecked in Malta,

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that was a fourth time.

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A night and a day, I have been in the deep of the sea.

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Imagine floating around for a day and a half, you know?

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So he had a resume of suffering.

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Was this first stoning going to stop him?

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No, it was the beginning.

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It was only the beginning.

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He's going to have a whole lot more to share.

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And so we have to get back up, don't we?

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We can't let things bury us.

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There was once this farmer,

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and an old farmer, and he had an old donkey,

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and somehow this thing could barely even see, right?

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And so it was just meandering around the farm,

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and it fell into this old abandoned well, okay?

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A dried up well.

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And it was a narrow well, so the donkey barely fit in there.

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And the old farmer comes out of here,

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and he hears him hee-hawing, and he goes over,

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and he sees him down in the way down in the dried out well.

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And he said, ah, what am I going to do?

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I don't know how to get this.

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I mean, he barely fits in there.

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How am I going to get him out, right?

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And then he's thinking, he's like, well, that old donkey,

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you know, he kind of served his purpose.

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He's not worth much at this point.

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I know you animal lovers are getting out there, you know.

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And he says, I don't know.

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And yet the wells dried out anyway.

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Maybe I'll just bury him.

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And so he gets his neighbors.

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They all come over with shovels,

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and they start throwing the dirt into the old dried out well.

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Well, when the dirt first hit that donkey's back,

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he's just like, whoa.

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Like, what is that?

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Like, he was like, you know, perplexed,

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and he was alarmed.

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Like, what just landed on me, right?

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Remember, he's half blind, too.

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And then the next shovel fell on his back.

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Whoa, yeah, right?

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And he just shook.

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You know, he just shook the dirt off, right?

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And then another shovel full of dirt landed on him.

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Same thing.

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He shakes again, right?

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And then all of a sudden, he steps up on the dirt

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that just fell off his back.

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And another one, shake, step, shovel, shake, step,

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shovel, shake, step, shovel, shake, step.

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And all of a sudden, before he knows it, he's like rising.

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He's like, I'm like actually climbing right now.

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And another shovel full shakes, steps up, and steps up.

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By the end of it, he stepped out of that well,

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and it was filled up.

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With dirt.

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And that old donkey lived another 10 or more years, right?

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What's the moral of that story?

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I don't know if that's a real story.

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It probably isn't.

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Maybe it is, but I've heard it somewhere.

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I didn't make it up.

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It's a great one, isn't it?

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But what is it?

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It's really a picture of, you may, someone might think

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they're burying you with the dirt, with the insults,

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with the judgment, with the critical eye, the critical,

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you know, thinking low of you, and they're just,

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they're throwing their dirt down at you.

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But you know, God is building something in that,

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just like he did through Paul.

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And we're told, just shake it off, right?

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And step up.

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He's actually building a ramp for you to climb

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out of your ditch.

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Isn't that awesome?

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Because that's what the Lord does.

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That's what he was doing for Paul.

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He wasn't going to stop with one stoning.

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No, I got, I got some more things I got to go through.

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You know, no one can stop you from God's calling

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in your life unless you let them.

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It's, we have to overcome realizing that, you know what,

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this hurts so bad.

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You ever just been really hurt by someone says,

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someone, something someone says to you or insult you

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or whatever, and you're just so like stunned with like,

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wow, that was just so like harsh and mean.

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Like, you know, and it takes the wind out of you almost.

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You're thinking like, well, there has to be something good

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that's going to come out of this.

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Because there always is.

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We can learn from every pain and suffering moment.

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Can't we?

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Just like that old donkey just climbing out of the ditch.

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Eventually, we're building something on these mistakes.

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We don't want to make a life of them, right?

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But we want to climb out of the ditch eventually through them.

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What's another thing?

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Get back up.

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Go back through.

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If you have that next slide.

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He didn't just leave Lystra.

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He gets up.

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Let's go back.

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Like, that is crazy, isn't it?

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Like, imagine he goes back.

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I'm sure he looked like a mess.

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I just would imagine, right?

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He goes back in, just torn up.

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I believe he may have even lost his eyesight during the stoning

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when they threw his ocular artery or ocular nerve or something.

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Because eventually, he was dim in sight over the years.

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But, you know, he went back through the same town

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that just stoned him thinking that he was dead.

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And we see this throughout Scripture.

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When God meets someone and they just went through a real tough time.

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And he says, you know what I want you to do?

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I want you to go back.

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There's more to do.

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Sometimes we just want to run, right?

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But he said, no, go back into it.

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That's where all the fruit is going to be born in the midst of it.

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He said that to Hagar, right?

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Like, you know, she has a child for Abraham.

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She didn't even want to.

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You know, I mean, it wasn't her idea.

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And now the very woman that made her do it is treating her poorly.

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Probably out of a lot of chemistry going on there and dynamics, you know,

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like you're carrying a baby with my husband.

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You know, this isn't, you know, and yet God says, no, I want you to go back.

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How about Jacob?

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You know, finally, he's free from Esau.

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And he's like, and you have to go back, go back.

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But I'm going to meet Esau again.

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Go back.

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You got to go back in.

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You know, a lot of times the Lord wants to send you right back to the thing

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that the worst place you would think there is to be is in that place.

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And he's saying, no, I want you to go back into that.

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Moses, go back to Egypt.

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Rescue my people.

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Set my people free.

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They want to kill me there.

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And nobody likes me there.

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My own people don't.

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And the Egyptians hate me.

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Yet, go back.

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Elijah.

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You know, he's in the cave.

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He's out of the cave.

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The Lord says, go back, go back.

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I need you to train up Elijah.

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I need you to pronounce more miracles and prophecies in my name.

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You got to go back.

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But they want to kill me there.

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You know, few of us have situations that we might be killed if we go back.

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But embarrassment, ridicule, judgment.

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A lot of us have been there.

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I have.

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I've seen so many times good friends of mine.

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And I share one time a good friend of mine.

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He was a pastor and just things went really bad.

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And it wasn't really his fault.

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He didn't do anything sinful.

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It just didn't work out for him, you know.

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And there was people that thought he should be doing more than he was doing and so forth.

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And that whole ministry eventually just dissipated and broke down and so forth.

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But it brought me so much joy to go to this homecoming,

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homegoing memorial service for someone we all knew.

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And there were all four of those pastors.

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Together, friends again.

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You know, in spite of that, because sometimes you just have to say, you know what?

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We've all changed.

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You ever think about this?

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Like all of us should be always changing.

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So if suddenly I have something with Des.

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And thanks, Des.

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You don't mind being a prop to you for a minute.

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And you know, we have, you know, and he's offended by me or I'm offended by him.

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And there's this like friction and so forth.

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And well, guess what?

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We're all going to be different this time next year.

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Hopefully more like Christ.

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And then we all come back and say, remember when, man, that was foolish.

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That was just silly.

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I was like, what was that?

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It was the enemy trying to sow division.

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But you don't have to stay there.

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You can really go back and say, you know, I apologize.

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We know, friends of ours, that they used to be pastors too.

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And these people just sowed so much division and really even made accusations,

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not that were huge, but just accusations about their character and all this.

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And they're like, what did we ever do to these people?

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And like 20 plus years, they reach back out to the pastor and say, you know,

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I just want to ask for your forgiveness.

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I was going through some stuff back then and I just was resenting God,

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resenting things in my life.

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And you were the punching bag in that.

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You know, you were the brunt of my disappointment,

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my own dilemma that I was in.

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You know, that happens a lot, right?

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You know, we can lash out at each other and really they're not even the problem.

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I'm the problem or I have problems with something else.

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But there's no one else to take it out on.

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And you kind of remind me of my dilemma, you know?

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And so, so often we can fall into that.

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But we have to go back into it and just say, let's try to bring peace.

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Some things you can't.

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Some, some relationships of the past, some things that were done, you know,

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we need to move on.

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So I'm not saying go back and try to fix everything.

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We're new creations, walking in the newness of life.

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There's some things you can't reconcile this side of heaven,

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but you can continue on knowing that you are forgiven.

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But if there's a reason God is sending you back in, say,

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all right, Lord, what kind of mending are you going to do in the midst of this?

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And that's why we see Paul going through all of the areas saying,

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I'm not ashamed of the gospel.

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I'm not ashamed.

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And I'm willing to wear the stripes and the scars of Christ.

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How about one more?

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As the worship team comes up, you good for one more?

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God can use your pain to strengthen other people.

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By the way, I just, you know what?

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Going back to that other one just for a second.

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One of the greatest testimonies I've ever heard, you know,

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and some of you are going to say, oh, no, not her.

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Regardless of what you think about her whole ministry,

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and I don't know much about it anymore these days,

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but I've listened to her plenty of times.

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So if you think she's a this or a that, but Joyce Myers, okay,

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has an amazing testimony.

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Now, again, you might think little of her or much of her.

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I don't know a ton about her, but I've listened to her many times.

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She is a testimony that she led her father,

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who sexually abused her over 250 times.

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He led her.

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She led him to the Lord.

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I mean, that's amazing.

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Like, how do you even do that?

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How do you even go back through that and say, you know,

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I forgive you.

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You did it because it was done to you.

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And yet, you know what?

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I forgive you.

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And he got saved through his daughter,

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who he put through all those horrible childhood issues,

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you know, and that's what, you know,

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and we all can use that for testimony

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and what Jesus Christ has done through us to someone else.

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Like we read you.

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God can use your pain to strengthen other people.

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He really can.

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When you say, look, I went through all this,

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and now I know why.

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Can I share with you what I went through?

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That's a testimony.

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You know that?

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That's a testimony.

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Testimonies come from a test and a lot of moaning.

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A lot of moaning.

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You're going to moan a lot.

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I don't want a testimony.

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Sometimes God gives it to you,

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but you could push through it, and it's a test.

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And you could say, yeah, I did a lot of moaning,

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but here I am on the other side of it, amen?

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You know, we can be that for each other.

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How about when Jesus says to Peter,

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Simon, Simon, indeed, he mentions the word indeed.

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In other words, listen up, okay?

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Satan has asked for you.

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I never want Satan to be asking about me, okay?

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I don't think he does, and I don't want him to.

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Satan has been asking for you, that he might sift you like wheat,

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right?

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And Jesus said, but you know what?

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I have prayed for you that your faith should not fail.

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Now, did it fail?

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For a little bit.

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I don't know him.

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I don't know him.

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I don't know him, right?

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But when you have returned to me,

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strengthen your brethren, even your failures,

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even your sins, when you come back through the other side of it,

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it's your testimony.

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We all have a testimony.

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We have a testimony of failures.

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We have testimony of victories.

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We have a testimony of apathy.

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We have a testimony of unforgiveness.

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We have a testimony of everything from time to time.

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But all of it, when we reconcile it to Christ,

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we can strengthen others by it.

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Sometimes the greatest strengthening is

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when we hear someone that we thought like,

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well, I thought they walked on water.

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No, no, let me tell you the real story behind me.

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This is what I came from.

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This is what I went through, and you're like, wow.

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Then it's possible for me, too.

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We can instill hope into each other by saying,

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if he did it for me, he can do it for you.

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The testimony of Jesus is the spirit of prophecy.

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You know what that means?

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If I could have gone through that, so can you.

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I'm not anything special.

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I'm special to God, but I'm no better than anybody else.

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But he did it for me, and he can do it for you.

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That's Paul's story, amen, amen.

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So let's pray.

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We're going to close with some worship.

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And when we're done here, you better not leave, okay?

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You better go out the doors and turn left.

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In fact, who's out there?

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Leo and someone else's.

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Yeah, Jake, they're going to stop you if you try to leave, okay?

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I'm just telling you.

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They're going to lock them.

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What's that?

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At least come in and eat, Jill says.

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But you got to hang out because, you know,

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there's been so much effort, preparation, prayers,

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and love that has gone into providing this time together.

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Don't miss out.

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Don't miss out.

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Come on, enjoy it with us, and have a great time, amen.

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Why don't we all stand up?

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Father God, we wish, you know,

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sometimes that we can go through life without any trials,

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but you promise that isn't going to happen.

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And it's through the trials that real triumph happens, Lord God.

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Thank you for it, Lord.

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We ask you, in Jesus' name, to empower us

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through all of the dry wells, Lord God,

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through all of the times that like the dirt just falls on us, Lord God.

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We pray that you would empower us to shake it off

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and step up and step out, Lord God,

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because, Lord, time is of the essence, Lord.

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And everything that happens to us has a purpose for your glory.

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And so, Lord God, we realize we're going to go through some pain,

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but there's also going to be so much gain through it.

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So, Lord, anoint us, sweet Lord.

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We just want to lift up our hands and receive an anointing,

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a fresh anointing from you.

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Lord God, empower us.

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Download your dunamis power upon us

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and all of your gifts so that we can live and walk like you.

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We thank you in Jesus' name, amen.

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Let's give the Lord a round of applause.

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Thanks for joining us at Lansdale Life Church

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as we praise God and discuss His Word.

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Don't forget to join us for worship live Sunday mornings

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at 10 a.m. Eastern on YouTube.

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Be blessed and have a great day.

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God bless.